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Living True to Self

Healthy relations don't coerce

By Seema PatelPublished about a year ago • 1 min read
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Giving the reins of life

to other humans—

in embracing deep sadness.

It's not easy, to deviate

I get it.

We are social beings.

We want love and company,

strong connections,

meaningful relations.

And those with higher value,

in the relationship

often try to manipulate us—

yes, even family.

But when we follow them,

blindly, againt choice,

our true self,

remains unfulfilled.

So, what do you do?

Set boundaries,

cultivate self-awareness,

Agree with them,

if conscience approves.

Say vehement 'No',

if they try to coerce you.

It's not really,

that difficult.

Let the relation shatter,

if they are attacking,

your uniqueness or goals.

Let it be.

No guilt over it.

Healthy relations,

don't force to obey.

Your mortal journey,

you get to decide,

which spectacles,

you want to see.

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About the Creator

Seema Patel

I am Seema. I contribute to PubMed, Blogger, Medium, LinkedIn, Substack, Amazon KDP, Vocal Media.

I write on nature, health, parenting, creativity, gardening, social issues.

My art shop: https://artsforhealinggifts.etsy.com

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