Life, you should be relaxed

Life, has ups and downs, like the sea tide, there are ups and downs.

When you start, not because of the shocking waves and pride overflowing; when you fall, not because of despair and helplessness and discouragement.

Life, you should be calm.

There is a saying: "A bamboo staff, a pair of straw shoes, in the wind and rain through the bamboo forest calmly and calmly, and walk and chant a rain and rain any life, which is how transcendent and relaxed. Only when you sink your heart can you have such a detailed and profound perception of life."

Only calm and dignified, only calm and calm heart, transcendent and sprightly in the earthly world, not to be happy with things, not to be sad with oneself.

01. Walk calmly and unhurriedly

What is calmness?

There is a saying that accurately summarizes the meaning of tolerance: "When everyone takes me seriously, I can't take myself too seriously. When everyone does not take me seriously, I must look up to myself. This is calmness, this is calmness."

In the splendor and not lose themselves, in the defeat and lose themselves, calm and calm, the road under the feet is still long, from the calm walk, you can once again create a more brilliant future.

Life is a passing of the years, there have been successes, there have been failures, the problem is that many people after success, are complacent, and after the failure, also self-absorbed.

And can not face the road of life with grace.

The author of "A Short Memoir in a Window" writes: "Favour and disgrace are not frightened, watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the garden. I have no intention to stay or go, I just follow the clouds outside the sky."

The meaning is to have an easy and calm heart, to walk calmly, to see calmly, and not to let external factors affect the inner mood swings.

One of my best friends, in his early years, just because his mind was unstable, resulting in career failure, after sinking, and later learned to walk calmly, take everything lightly, the result of the way to thorns, career soaring, a day.

He said, "failure, but just stand up and pat the dust on the body, afraid of what to make fun of, afraid of what difficulties, live calmly and calmly is."

If the heart is calm, the road is smooth and walking calmly, life will always reach the other side of success.

02. Love with grace and ease

Love is always the eternal topic of life.

Love, the need to operate with care, with a sincere heart to face openly.

Just a lot of times, sincere but not in return, your love paid, only to get a cold snicker, the moment of turning away so that you are speechless, the heart like a knife pain.

The person who can't get, can't get love, that will give up gracefully, not to think about, not to delete, not to bother, not to entangle.

The fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not in a position to be able to get a good deal on a lot of things.

The fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these.

Once a classmate, was in love with a beautiful girl, but unfortunately, the girl could not see the poor classmate, she said, marry you, follows you to drink the northwest wind.

The feeling of rejection is very hard to bear, he would like to retort, would like to stalk, but finally is calmly smiled, and respect the girl's choice.

Years later, he was in the business world a few more floating and finally achieved a career. At a class reunion, the girl also came to see the scenery of this classmate and instantly became very awkward.

Many classmates asked him the secret of his success, he looked at the girl with a smirk and said, "My biggest secret is to be calm, to love calmly, to do it calmly, never force others, and never easily give up on themselves."

Everyone has the right to choose to love, if the person you love does not love you, then it will be easy to let go, this world will eventually become your left arm and right arm, for you to build a better tomorrow.

03. Life, you should be at ease

I like this sentence: "Life is good intolerance, not so that we do not compete with the world, give way to everything, but in a full understanding of their situation, the strengths and weaknesses, the integration of existing resources and strengths, planning and then move to do the four."

Facing life's hardships with grace, the road is too much wind and rain, as long as the calm and face, with the indomitable spirit, courageous and persistent pursuit, then the hardship will eventually become a passing cloud.

Facing love with grace no matter how deeply in love, others do not love is not love, a light smile, calmly and calmly turning away, the heart hurts again, or better than the humble love of a low voice.

The first thing you need to do is to be able to face yourself and your life, no matter how bad you are, remember that you are always unique in the world, if you don't go from grace to grace, then who can be reborn for you?

The Zen master Yixin once said, "The rise and fall of life is the law of nature, everything is like this, why to care about the momentary gains and losses, live with grace, do with grace, and go with grace, it is better than everything on earth."

May you and I be people who live with ease, keep a heart of ease and live calmly from now on.