If Only...If Only...If...
...Like We'd Be in it Together
“We talked about the future like we’d be in it together.”
Part 1
I wrote that line a few months ago
About a slowly dying friendship
Exactly what I meant
When I wrote it
And it does
Apply
To him
But
*
Obviously it applies to other relationships, too
To every ghosted chat with any sincerity
To every half-hearted friendship
And of course every lost love
And I know that some do
Connect knowing
It won’t last
But I
Do not
Ever
*
In whatever capacity it may turn out to be
When I make connections–with anyone
I talk like–act like–it’s for eternity
Maybe it’s games and laughs
Or late chats and secrets
Or long-time lovers
Regardless there
Always
Will be
Later
*
I hear you ask: What about now?
And yes, Now does exist, too
But is life a series of "now"s
Or is it a series of "later"s?
And if every now is later
And later never comes
Then why
Should we
Try?
*
Live for today! I hear people shout
As if that’s really how it works
But if you only live for today
How do you leave a world
In such pain and tragedy
In a gentler way
Than how
It was
Before?
*
Personally, I have been completely ghosted
By people who I wholeheartedly believed
Would be in my future forever and ever
But I never heard from them again
Maybe they’re conflict-averse
I hear you say
Maybe
Maybe
Not
Part 2
But the line that I wrote is much bigger than that
Bigger than me alone or any lousy relationship
It’s national, international, humanity total
Because we must believe that we must
Be in a future together–all of us
Acting all the while
As if
We’ll be
Here
*
We talk about not only our futures
But our children’s futures
Our hopes and dreams
Goals for ourselves
For our children
And the world
But then…
Like a
Star that
Stops
*
Shining in the dark night sky
No moon to light our path
Hope is extinguished and
Dreams are shattered
And just like that
In one moment
It is
Simply
Over
*
How do we pick up the shattered pieces?
How do we mend our broken spirits
When we never prepared for
Them to shatter at all?
It can’t happen here
Not to me, to us
That happens
Only to
Other
People
*
We thought that faith would save us
In higher beings, maybe, but also
In governments, in love’s power
In each other and our own
Compassion and sense of
Dignity that would keep
Terrible things away
From us
If we
Believed
Part 3
It would be hard to find a time when we
Were collectively more wrong than this
Because it turns out that faith alone
Belief without action will never–
No, it will never–be enough
To keep terror away from
Us and our children who
We love
Oh so
Much
*
What do we do now? we ask each other as if
Any of us have any answers now or any
Other time that tragedy obliterates our
Sense of self, security, and trust
What is there to do, really?
Hug our children, yes
And one another
And let
Each other
Cry
*
Actions will be taken–possibly, hopefully–or not
People will act and say what they always do
There will be promises–likely later broken
There will be apologies–as if that helps
There will be those thoughts and
Those prayers that ultimately
Exist because we feel like
We should
Try to
Do
*
Something more. Something more than what has been done
Honestly, something more than what we are capable of
How do we give ourselves so much and so little credit
Simultaneously? Deep down we know that what we
Can do–any of us can do–is limited
We can plead for change and beg
For progress and scream that we
Know that
This is
Wrong
Part 4
To be clear, this is not meant to reflect on a single event
Although there is one event obviously on our minds
This is not directed just to that because it is likely–
Almost impossibly likely–that something like
This will happen again. And again. And…
And each time, a different family will
Have to find a way to mend as we
Are stuck
In a
Loop
*
So I ask you again: Is life a series of "now"s or a series of "later"s?
Or maybe–in a warped sense–it is a series of “then”s instead
Because when it was then--in the past–it was okay
But then it was broken, then it was gone
And now we don’t know how to cope
Now, how do we comfort our kids?
And later, will it be better like we
Try to
Smile and
Say?
*
We talked about the future like we’d be in it together
Like we’d walk this hard journey with the people
We loved most, and the people they loved most
What could have been…we say to ourselves
Reminiscing about the future–as if we’d
Have been able to do great things if
Only we had a little more time
If only…
If only…
If…
About the Creator
Alex Casey
I'm a full-time educator and part-time writer. My best ideas usually end up on Vocal.
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