I remember
The day you left doesn’t hurt as badly anymore
September 6th 2012
It doesn't sound like a significant date
But it is
Oh it is
It was the day
Fate decided to
Play a game of chance
With me
A flip of a coin
A loss of life.
Just as simple.
Just as fragile
But the life lost
Made sure my old life was lost
September 6th 2012
Its 11:30
I could've lost you on the seventh
If you had held on just a little longer
I know it was hard
I understand
That life was bad
But why did you have to leave me
Why did you pull that trigger
Through your heart to mine.
I'm just where you left me
On the computer
Scheduling those tickets
For the movie you wanted to see
I know it's late
I should've probably Been in bed
But surprise
I wasn't
I was right in front of you
I was so
Absorbed
In the bright white screen
I did turn around
Or maybe
It was the fact
That I knew
I couldn't see you like that
But I guess
My internal feeling
Wasn't enough
But I'm glad
I got you you for
5 yrs and 35 days and 10 minutes
Those 10 minutes are key.
Because
I saw you
I knew you in those moments.
The worst part
Was the 4 days after
The realization
No one would help me
With my hair
No one would knock on my door to help me get to the bus on time
The 5th day after
Was one of the worst
Someone came up to me
As I had sat on the floor crying
I'm sorry for your loss
I knew her.
I wanted to scream.
No I don't think you know
I may be wrong
But I'm pretty damn
Sure the worst thing that happened to you
Was your rejection off the cheer team
Go away
I don't want to know
How you knew her
I don't want to see
How she hid her worst parts from me
If I could talk to angels
If I could say one thing
I know you
I know the way your eyes lit up
And your smile
Was stuck on your face
When you got a new idea
I know your ambition
Was one that fueled my fire
Your ambition
Gave me the courage
To create my own
I know that you told
Me that the tears falling down my face
Were symbols of my strength
I know the pain
I felt when I saw the strength
Leaking out from the sides of your eyes
I know
Some people
Think that action is cowardly
But the blood that ran so thickly
Was just a sign of your struggle
And I'm sorry you had to let your struggle run so thickly before
Anyone got it.
I'm sorry
I love you
I'm glad I got those 5yrs 35 days and 10 minutes with you.
Because in that short time.
You let me know you
As a sister
A best friend
A person
A strong strong person
I know you.
I know the kindness
And the protection
You offered me
As a seven year old hick
In a town of city folk
I know
You taught to smile
You taught me that dancing in the rain
Was one of the only acceptable things to do
During a thunderstorm
I remember
When I was
Terrified of the dark
And you were the only one
Who cared enough
To help me
Find beauty in the black
I remember
You holding me in your arms and
Telling me stories of the stars.
I know you
I know
You loved sneaking out
To go lay on the trampoline
In 65 degree weather
In shorts
And stare up at the sky
Because when it was coldest outside
Was when all the best stars came out
I remember the best stars
Were the ones
Only we were allowed to see.
I know you
I know
That you taught me
My turnout and pliè
Even though
You hated ballet.
I know you
I know
You were the only one
To acknowledge
My birthday
Excluding my mother
I remember
That you came in at 12:01
Every time and wish me a happy birthday.
And lit a birthday cake scented candle
And I blew it out
Because everyone deserves
To have a wish
I remember that year of 2013
that no one remembered was the hardest.
I remember wearing a silver locket
That you took off the back of a journal for me
I remember your funeral
The black and tan dresses
The pink roses in your hands
The orange rose
I fought to put in your casket.
I remember being terrified
Of kissing your cold cheek
I remember the tentative touch
Of my baby sister
As I picked her up.
I remember looking at you
And looking back at my baby half-sister
And realizing
I had to be the big sibling now
I remember smiling
As I realized
I'm sad but that's okay
But I'm happy
Because I get to be the you
That you were to me
I'm a good big sibling
I hope I’m just as good as you.
And I'm so glad
You stuck with me that long
I'm so glad
I got that final goodbye
Even if I didn't know its finality.
I'm so glad
That I got those 5 yrs and 35 days and 10 mins with you
I'm so glad
I got a best friend
And a sister
That was as amazing as you.
I love you
I miss you
But that's okay
Because
You were
Are my big sister
Now I have to be the best friend, the big sibling
You were to me.
Im okay on September 6th now.
I'm okay.
I get to recall memories.
I get to celebrate you.
I am privileged to remember.
Remember my big sister.
I know.
I'm glad.
I remember.
I hope that angels can hear me.
Because I remember.
And I'm glad.
About the Creator
Dany Jean-Pierre
They/Them
I started with libraries and now I’m trying to fill one with all of my own works.
Comments (2)
So much beauty and sadness in these words, thank you for sharing this with us, Dany!
Beautiful! So much love, happiness, joy, and sadness all in one. All these emotions combine with such respect. I truly enjoyed it.