Great people, often have a commonality

The word "great" is used to describe a person, can be positive or negative. The positive meaning is that this person is particularly good in some aspects. In a derogatory sense, this person is sinister and ruthless, deep-rooted, grumpy, and not easy to get along with.

Generally, when we say that a person is great, we are praising, not derogatory. Therefore, what I mean by a great person is someone outstanding in some ways.

There are so many good people and great people in this world, and they all have one thing in common, that is, "can afford to lose".

Writer Liu Zhenyun said, "Life is not winning or losing, but if you once have a winning heart, then you must be a loser."

Indeed, life itself is not winning or losing, but the world has a winning heart, can not do the heart as quiet as water, and the world is without dispute.

With a winning heart, you must be a loser. That is not necessarily, the winning heart can also become the driving force and upward power.

The truly great people, like all people, have a winning heart, but the difference is that they are not afraid to lose, not afraid to lose.

Awesome people can afford to lose in their careers

A career for everyone is very important, no career, life value is difficult to be reflected on.

Anyone who is motivated is in pursuit of career success. However, the road to success is long and difficult, there is never a casual success. There are even many people who have reached the top and fallen to the bottom without noticing.

The ups and downs, the ups and downs, are the norm of life, but many people can not see through, can not think, once in trouble, can not find a way out, the whole person completely collapsed, and it is difficult to pick up again.

Great people, withstand the storm, withstand the blow. Work encountered a bottleneck, dare to break the routine, looking for a breakthrough. Career faced with failure, dare to accept the reality, bear the loss, and then reorganize the line, and start again.

A former colleague, with their efforts, from the salesman to the vice president of the company in less than two years, thought that the career on a new level, but unexpectedly the boss of the company had personal serious problems, huge debts were arrested, sentenced to twenty years, the company then closed down, he had to find another way out.

As he was promoted from the bottom step by step, his education is not high, obviously no longer competitive, and the situation is not very good. He had no choice but to start his own business and put all his savings into it. To save costs, he did everything himself, which was very hard and tiring, and did not earn much money, but he never regretted it.

From corporate executives to working for themselves, from decent to humble, it is difficult for ordinary people to adapt. Only the truly great people, can bend and stretch, not afraid of falling, not afraid of suffering, even in the trough, never give up hope, chasing all the way, sharpening forward.

Career win or lose, the truly great people are not afraid to lose, and also can afford to lose. They have a force in their body, that is the power to work up.

Powerful people can afford to lose emotionally

Emotions are the most indispensable in life, without the moistening of feelings, have more abundant material, but also do not feel happy.

The fact is that there are many kinds of feelings, family friendship love, different feelings, and different warmth.

The most important thing is that you can feel the happiness that comes from love, and the pain that comes from love is also the strongest.

I have read a true story, a high school student, a girlfriend in college, he loved the girl, very important to the relationship, so much so that later the girlfriend broke up, he went insane, slowly living on the streets, became a disheveled madman, his family found him years later.

A good young man, because of a relationship, everything was lost. Ideals, future, self, family ......

Some people lament that in today's society, there are few such infatuated men. The words, but there are a few admiration. But in my opinion, such a man is not worth a woman's life, the girl left him, is a wise choice.

A man can not afford to lose in the relationship, that he is very weak inside, and simply can not withstand the bigger blow. The long road of life, never a straight path, must have a strong heart, and solid arms, to carry the life of the storm, to hold up a piece of heaven for the love of people.

Emotional frustration, is a stumble, give up everything, in addition to poor, is pathetic.

The truly great people, emotionally close up. Even if the love is deeper and harder to forget, will not sink into this. They know that love is not the whole of life, rather than being trapped in a hopeless love to let others look at the joke, why not live out their own wonderful let others look at them differently?

Really powerful people, always close up

Great people, whether in their career, or feelings, have a commonality - can afford to lose.

Because of the loss, so fearless, and not afraid to pay.

Because of the loss, so confident, brave, strong, encounter any difficulties, any setbacks, can openly accept, a positive face.

We may not be good enough, not good enough, but we must also try to make ourselves a person who is not afraid to lose and can afford to lose.

In your career, be brave and go after the success you want. Even if in the end, still nothing, at least once tried.

Emotionally, bravely go after the happiness they want. Even in the end, still love but can not, at least once fought.

May we all become great people, never afraid to lose, and also can afford to lose.