Excuses

Two main things are when the simple things are made complicated and the words don't match the actions.

When a person "wants" to do something they will or they'll find an "excuse."

I think great things and good relationships take time to build, and rebuild when trust has been broken, but it shouldn't feel like pulling teeth or twisting arms... etc.

If you can't do simple things now then how can there be dependency when simple things overwhelm you???

When respect, support, genuine interest, and honesty are there then the simple things will come easily with no question or become an issue.

But some people will have a screwed up relationship.

And they will stick it out anyways why?

They accept that they fight a lot...

don’t even have sex anymore or see each other.

But neither one wants to be without each other.

That way they can spend their lives together miserable but happy not to be apart????