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Cry, Daddy

For My Father

By Stephanie HoogstadPublished 2 months ago 1 min read
Cry, Daddy
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You say a father’s supposed to be strong

That’s why you can’t break down in front of me

But you can

You say a man’s supposed to be strong

That’s why you can’t break down in front of me

But you can

You say that you’re supposed to be strong

For me

That’s why you can’t break down in front of me

But Daddy, you can

You tell me that I don’t have to hold back my tears

That I can break down in front of you

That is what you are here for

But it’s what I am here for, too

You don’t want to cry

Not in front of me

But how can you expect me to feel open

To sharing my feelings

If you won’t do the same?

True strength is in sharing our pain

So we may heal together

Cry with me, Daddy

Let us finally heal


Author’s Note: Tomorrow marks the one-year anniversary of my mother’s death. My dad and I have been talking about it a lot, how it makes us feel and all that, and my dad brought up how he can’t break down around me because he’s my father, he’s supposed to be strong for me. I just want him to know that I want him to feel as open with me as he wants me to be with him.

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Stephanie Hoogstad

With a BA in English and MSc in Creative Writing, writing is my life. I have edited and ghost written for years with some published stories and poems of my own.

Learn more about me: thewritersscrapbin.com

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    Written by Stephanie Hoogstad