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Can You Be Too Smart for Your Own Good?

The Art of Playing Dumb

By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingPublished 2 years ago • 1 min read
Can You Be Too Smart for Your Own Good?
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When you learn to feign ignorance, you'll surprisingly find that you don't need to prove your knowledge or expose those who are insincere. Don't force yourself on others, and don't let others force themselves on you. For the rest of my life, I'll cherish those who cherish me and let go of those who don't. I deserve both the initial chance encounter and the final farewell.

How can one not be puzzled by the act of pretending to be puzzled? Perhaps the rarest quality in life is not merely being sober but also being confused.

Life doesn't always have to be a battle or a zero-sum game. I no longer argue with friends over differing opinions. Even if I win the argument, I might lose a valuable friendship.

I've stopped worrying about gains and losses and now focus on enjoying the happiness I have. I no longer compare myself to others, but strive to be an ordinary person who loves life, is optimistic, and is cheerful.

People who can communicate effectively can always connect with others and earn their admiration and affection. Be articulate. If you see through someone's pretense, don't expose it. If you don't hate someone, don't give them a dirty look. Instead, focus on their positive qualities and offer praise.

Some thoughts are best kept to oneself. In the adult world, no one is naive, and there's no need to be explicit about everything. Feigning ignorance is a form of advanced wisdom.

May everyone have good intentions, understand without judgment, cultivate open-mindedness within, and display humility outwardly. May we all be happy fools.

Thank you for reading!

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Emily Chan - Life and love sharing

Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing

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    Written by Emily Chan - Life and love sharing