Is there such thing as a healthy boundary or unhealthy boundary?
Personally, every boundary is a healthy boundary. If anyone tells you otherwise, that’s who the boundary is set for.
You hear all the time, especially women, ‘You have unrealistic boundaries.’ ‘Your boundaries are set too high.’ ‘You need to lower your boundaries and expectations so you don’t become single for ever.’
Why is being single forever a bad thing? If you are thinking any of these then the person isn’t for you.
Why do you want to be with someone who settle for you? Who lowered all their expectations for you? Who went against their boundaries for you?
Why can’t you change and meet their expectations and boundaries, become a better person for them?
Is the real question(s): ‘Is it easier for you if everyone you encounter have no boundaries, standards, and expectations easier for you? This way you don’t actually have to change or grow to get what you want?’
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