All encounters have meaning

Some people say that between people, the meeting is just by chance. Some people say that all the encounters in the world are destined.

It does not matter whether the meeting is by chance or by fate. What is important is the meaning of the encounter.

Life, because of one encounter after another, gradually becomes rich, full, and abundant. We must affirm the meaning of encounters and be grateful for all encounters.

The meeting is fate, and there are depths of fate. Some people, met, and hurriedly parted, leaving each other only a blurred back. Later, looking back, only remember some fragmentary fragments or a few simple words.

Some people, from the moment they met, are destined to be involved for life, once spent time together, together through the storm, no matter when you think about it, always fresh in your mind.

The different meetings, there is a different story. In different stories, there are different sorrows and joys. And all the encounters, sorrows, and joys are the most valuable wealth in a person's life. Without these encounters, these sorrows, and joys, life will be like a dry well, with no interest, even if you live a hundred years, but also in vain.

All encounters in this world have meaning. When you truly understand, you will be grateful from the bottom of your heart.

01. When you meet someone who treats you well, you feel the warmth of the world

In this world, there are always people who are genuinely nice to you. Not to mention parents and relatives, just friends, lovers, and partners, these people originally did not have any relationship with you, it is fate that you met and met.

There are many kinds of encounters between friends. Friends who are devoted to each other and treat each other sincerely will make you feel warm. No matter whether this friendship can last, at least when you have, each other warm companionship.

The meeting between lovers, there are happy, it is sad. When you are happy, two people are the world, no matter what you do is very sweet, very happy. When sad, it is as if the whole world is bleak, losing enthusiasm for life, losing confidence in the future. Whether the final ending is happy or sad, people who have loved deeply will always be the deepest fond of the heart.

The encounter between partners is plain and warm. The firmness of "holding the hand of a son and growing old with him" is enough to warm the whole heart. The years are long and they are with each other, facing the trivialities of life together, taking on the responsibilities of the family together, through thick and thin, never leaving. Such feelings, whether it is love or affection, should be treated tenderly and cherished.

People who are good to you there are not many, but with their existence, you can feel the warmth of the earth, and you will also love the world more because of them.

02. Meet the people who hurt you, know the kindness to have a sharp edge

Society is diverse, human nature is also very complex. Walking in the world, you will meet people who are good to you, but also meet people who hurt you.

The people who are kind to you are a blessing; the people who hurt you are a growth.

Some people, you would have sincerely treated each other, but he stabbed you in the back. Your kindness has become a weapon for him to hurt you. You are disappointed and angry, but he has no shame, only thinks you foolish good bully.

"People are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden." This is true, life is bullied by people, and most of them are honest and good people.

People who are not deeply involved in the world, often do not see through reality and used to see everything in a good light. Others are a little better for themselves, they hollow out their hearts and lungs, and the result is used by people, bullied. Later, meet more, experience more, and finally understand that "the heart of harm can not have, the heart of prevention can not be."

Do people, to good for this, there is nothing wrong with it. But excessive kindness will only let those who have malicious intent hurt you wantonly.

Meet the people who hurt you, you will know that kindness must be with a sharp edge. Otherwise, it is always yourself who suffers, and it is always yourself who gets hurt.

03. met the valley of life, learned to ferry themselves

Life, there are peaks and valleys. No one will have a lifetime of smooth sailing, there will always be setbacks, in trouble, so you feel pain, and despair.

However, it is also because life is not easy, the world is difficult, and people have learned to be strong, brave, and cherish what they have.

No one likes suffering, no one wants to fall into a low point. However, suffering and valleys are inevitable in life. You never know what will happen next and what kind of storm you will meet in the future.

The valley is not scary, what is scary is the weakness of the mind, in the valley when you can not cross. Therefore, before the storm comes, you must constantly strengthen your heart, so that you dare to face everything.

I like a quote from Maupassant: "People are fragile and strong beyond their imagination, sometimes, we may be so fragile that a word is in tears, and sometimes, we also find ourselves gritting our teeth and walking a long way."

Every person who comes out of a low point has a transformative change. They are no longer gullible, arrogant, more humble toward people, and more persevering.

Such a metamorphosis, from the bones of the maturity; such maturity, from the valley of the experience.

When you meet the valley of life, you will become stronger and stronger, and eventually become your soul ferryman, no longer afraid of all the storms and hardships.

Life, all encounters, all have meaning.

In this life, no matter what you have met, please remember the warmth, touching, growth, and transformation they bring you, forget those moments that make you feel sad, pain, anger, or despair, and always have a good heart, a good heart, optimistic and positive face to life.

If you have a good heart, there will be good everywhere you look.

With kindness in your heart, there is warmth everywhere on earth.

Be optimistic, and defy all storms.

Be thankful for every encounter in life, because with these encounters, there is a rich and wonderful life.