Never mind it now,
that you’re stuck in my mind now and
forever and I fear I’ll never get you
out. Fuck. What am I supposed to say? Say my feelings
went away, that I’m not
plagued by dreams of you and your embrace
illusions of us
entangled
in thoughts of me and my pride and the ache of my
dysphoria,
dismiss it if I can and take it like a
man.
Want you to call me your boy
friend? more than friends, your beloved, your boytoy? Fuck it just call me
‘mine’
Take me, own me, dominate me, don’t leave it up to
me to seek you out and tell you all the ways I want you to
ruin me
punish me
play me like an instrument—
real gently.
I remember the feel of your hands intertwined with mine,
push against myself and try to
unremember, always push it too far
in my memory.
I’m no longer a romantic; hope lays among the wreckage.
Pick through it if you wish and give me a heads up
if you find anything.
I’m no longer so accommodating; life has made fool enough of me
and I’m no longer sweet or loving,
or soft or
femme
and I no longer give a shit what you think of me…
Do you even fucking think of me? Is this my curse alone to carry?
That doesn’t seem fair, that I should have this ghost
of you hanging around me, gaslighting me when I think that maybe
I’ve
remembered
correctly.
Am I wrong, or did you ask me to rearrange my entire schedule
just to be with you, ditch ‘senior ditch day’ just to kick it with
you, and did I imagine that you would stand behind me
just barely touching me, or are you just
a fucking
tease?
Were you supposed to treat for lunch, or did I make that up?
Like my pictures; take it back.
Were you looking at me, thinking about me
when I wasn’t standing right there next to you, or were you
trying to confuse me?
Straight up fucking ghosted me,
radio silence, static in your wake,
hole in the fucking wall you blew through,
never to be heard from again, and I get to sit in that
rejection for no good reason,
ignored
unfollowed
deleted
like I never even existed
guess I kinda didn’t cause that girl you knew was a figment
of a false reality—
a boy trapped in girl’s clothing. So, you wouldn’t want me anyway and I
should be satisfied with that conclusion as a
resolution to this fucked up nothing between us.
You’ve never met me: JD, and you probably never will,
not that you could care
less, and I wasn’t good enough for you as a straight girl
it’d be naïve to think you’d want the queer version of me
pathetic to entertain any fantasies of me and
you.
If I could eternal-bliss you out of my fucking mind I
wouldn’t hesitate for a second.
I’d pay you anything to cut this out of me,
this parasitic knot in my stomach, this gnawing in my chest.
Leave me bleeding on the operating table, at least I’d be free of
you.
But I just keep running in fucking circles, cause all
straight roads lead to dead ends
But wait, aren’t you the guy who’s supposed to
give it to me straight?
But if that’s true
than why were you so vague?
Why dance around my feelings, avoiding any—
actual decision making?
Take it easy on me baby.
I didn’t sign up for mind games; I don’t want to play.
Take it back, won’t you please,
all the fucking things you said to me, and the way you used to look at
me and the way that would light me with a burning need
to hear my name
on your lips.
I’m a doll at your disposal.
Dignity? I don’t know her. Put me on my knees—
I’ll beg to be mistreated, used, forgotten, just for a taste of what
I’ve been longing,
building up for so long now,
most likely it would be disappointing, but I’d still thank you for
the disappointment.
You’re my ultimate forbidden fruit,
tempting garden full of food, ever receding from my reach,
so thirsty for this
perfect painting, I can’t run my hands over.
Maybe it’s the tease that tempts me. Maybe I’d grow bored if it were easy,
if I didn’t have to salivate
before someone would feed me.
Maybe I crave deprivation subconsciously, and maybe I’m attracted to
heart ache,
heart-break
maybe I want people to pulverize me just to satisfy the prophecy
that no one will ever love me, and maybe
I’m just mad at you, ‘cause you don’t have to deal with me,
but I still have to deal with you.
I’m tired. I want
to want a tender love, wish there was enough hope in my
shriveled little heart to want someone in my arms, believe there was
someone who could make me
whole—
fill the holes
blown in my sides, patch the leaking with beautiful promises,
and I wouldn’t have to wonder if the promises were
lies.
I wish that fantasies weren’t soothing.
Maybe I can wean myself off them, or maybe I should just quit
cold-turkey,
deal with the shakes and the irritability. Maybe the fever
will burn you out of me.
How long do love withdrawals last anyway?
Never mind it now,
I won’t think about you anymore starting now,
and maybe with enough discipline, I can manage the cravings
and maybe I just have to live with this gaping fucking hole inside me
for the rest
of my goddamn life.
Fine.
Fine!
FINE!
I give up. Did you hear me!?
I said I fucking give up! I don’t want to want you anymore.
I don’t want to miss you anymore,
I don’t want to think of kissing you anymore.
Release me. Please. Have I not
paid enough?
About the Creator
JD
Hi, I'm a nonbinary disabled 23 year-old posting the writing I used to just kept to myself. Welcome to my dark little corner of the world.
-JD (They/He)
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I have found that "love withdrawal" lasts as long as you choose and as fast as you heal. My first unhappy love centuries ago lasted a whole year. Now it's much faster. You attract narcissists, if you change (gain knowledge about them, also somatically), they won't bother you and you can see their tactics right away (because they will never change). It takes practice, but it's worth it. Don't let yourself be a puppet. The only upside to this is the creation, and you did it so well, better than I did in any of my poems. Chapeau bas!