A truly mature person knows how to be responsible for his own life

Whether a person is mature or not, not by appearance or age, but by words and deeds, by heart and mind, by the state of mind.

We were all once ignorant children, and time and experience make us grow up slowly. Growing up is both exciting and frustrating.

Exciting because you can get to know the world more fully, and sad because the more you know, the more you understand the difficulties of being born a human being.

Children who don't know anything look forward to growing up, and adults who do know something miss their childhood.

There are days when flowers bloom again, and people are never young again. Time has passed, people grow up, their minds matured, and they have to face all the bittersweet sadness in the world.

Heard a saying: "A mature person, often finds that you can blame fewer and fewer people, everyone has his difficulties."

Yes, truly mature people have long seen through the nature of life, and understand that when it does not go well and then blame, and then complain, it does not help. Their own life, after all, to be responsible for their own.

01. Responsible for their own choices

Since when do you make your own choices about many things in life?

Making your own choices is one of the important signs of maturity.

When a person begins to make his own choices, it means that he can think alone.

Just like a three or four-year-old child who already knows what he likes and dislikes, two colors of clothes are put in front of him and will choose the one he likes.

There are many choices like this in life, and although they are small, they are an integral part of the growth process.

There are important choices in life, mainly in the areas of study, work, love, marriage, and children. I will call these choices, collectively, the crossroads of life.

At the crossroads of life, every choice you make is crucial to you.

What profession you choose to study determines what kind of industry you will engage in; in what industry, you will decide what kind of circles you will contact and what kind of people you will meet. What kind of people you meet, determines what kind of love you will have; what kind of love you have, determines what kind of marriage you will have ......

Life is like a chess game, there are no regrets when you make a move. No one can guarantee that their every move is correct, but truly mature people will certainly be responsible for their own choice to the end.

As others have said, "The road you have chosen, you have to finish on your knees."

Responsible for their own choice, whether sad or happy, no matter right or wrong, never shirk responsibility, blame God, all the consequences of their own, this is the real maturity.

02. responsible for their own mistakes

As the ancients say: "People are not saints, who can be without fault. The good thing is to be able to change."

In this life, it is impossible to never make mistakes. It is only logical to be condemned and punished after making a mistake. The real meaning of condemnation and punishment is to let people learn from their mistakes, reflect on them, correct them and change themselves.

About making mistakes, some people know, some people are making mistakes without knowing them, and some people have no choice but to do so. But in either case, you should be responsible for your own mistakes.

To be responsible for your own mistakes is the basic quality of being a human being. However, there are always some people who are wrong but do not want to admit it, not to mention the consequences, and find ways to avoid responsibility.

When a child makes a mistake, a protective adult will most likely say, "Forget it, he's still young and doesn't know any better."

It is inevitable to make mistakes when you are young and don't know what to do, but as an adult, you should train your child's sense of responsibility from a young age and let him take some responsibility for his mistakes when he makes them so that he can remember and grow up quickly and mature.

When a person knows how to take responsibility for his own mistakes, it means that he is mature.

Maturity requires time and experience. The more experience you have, the more mature and knowledgeable you will be.

Mature and understanding people always have to take on more, so it will be very tiring, but we still have to be mature and understanding people. Because no one can always bless you and be your permanent dependence, you must be strong and do your dependence.

03. Responsible for their mission

All things in this world have a meaning; all beings have their mission.

The so-called mission is something that you must do whether you like it or not, whether you are willing to do it or not.

A mission is a responsibility, but it is not only a responsibility but also a belief in the depth of the soul.

In this world, there are always some people who are not clear about their mission and live only to live in style. Just like the news once read, a single mother, two or three years old child locked in the home, they went out to play, half a month did not return, and the child was starved to death.

As a mother, but no mother should have a sense of responsibility and mission, so cruel treatment of their flesh and blood, is the loss of humanity, or moral degradation?

Perhaps, we are just ordinary people in our lifetime. But even ordinary people have their mission and values.

The mission of ordinary people is to play their role well and take up their responsibilities. Let the people who trust us rest assured, let the people who rely on us rest assured.

A person who is not aware of his mission and does not know how to be responsible for his mission is immature, no matter how old he is.

A truly mature person will be responsible for his mission.

A truly mature person knows how to be responsible for his own life

In life, there are sorrows and joys, there are sufferings and joys. One day, you will see through all the sadness, happiness, and bitterness.

The most important people around you are the people who are most important to you and everything you have.

The fact is that you are not desperate for reality, but no longer have high expectations of the outside world, no longer ask for the understanding and help of others, no longer entangled, no longer complain, and know how to be independent and self-reliant, responsible for their own lives.

If one day you start to know how to be responsible for your own life, it means you are already a truly mature person.

May you be a truly mature person, responsible for your own choices, responsible for your own mistakes, responsible for your mission, and responsible for your own life!