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Can't keep my pet because I'm afraid of death ... How to overcome pet loss?

It takes courage and time but it's worth it...

By Fatima Published 2 years ago 4 min read


Can't keep my pet because I'm afraid of death ... How to overcome pet loss?

Experiencing the death of a pet is very sad. You may not be able to recover. But it's lonely not to keep a pet for that reason. When you get a chance to have a new child, don't just think about the bad things.

Anyone who knows the sadness of losing a pet should also know the joy and joy of living with a pet. When he just died, you may not be able to remember because you were sad, but not all the days you lived with my pet were sad.

Remember the fun and joy you experienced in the days you lived with your pet. Remember the happiness you got from having a pet. Your pet should have given you more happiness than sadness, and your pet should have had a good time with you.

You can't do anything just by fearing pet loss or pet death
Don't be afraid, let's go one step further
The sadness of losing a pet can be so great that it takes courage to keep a new pet. I'm sure this is what every pet-loving owner will feel. Please do not be afraid to give courage.

How would you feel if the person you were dating said, "I like you, but I'm not going to marry you because it's hard to say goodbye"? You may be wondering why you feel uneasy about the future. What if you were? Are you afraid of breaking up years later and giving up getting married, loving someone, or having a best friend?

It is said that many Japanese people assume bad situations and limit what they want to do and what they want to do. The reason why many people think "what to do if they don't understand" and don't speak English even though they are taught properly at school may be because they are limiting themselves because they think of a bad situation. ..

But that could lead to a boring life. I'm not recommending that you don't think about bad things. Just don't be afraid of bad things and limit what you want to do or do. If you're just afraid, you won't be able to do what you can or should do.

Almost all pets die before you. That's why I think that while living together, we do everything we can and pour out all the love we can put into it. Not only are you afraid, but also dare to try to avoid bad things.

Take advantage of what you have learned from your pet
You can also learn over the death of your beloved pet
If you lose your pet due to illness, you may be worried about what to do if you get the same illness. You may not have the courage to keep a new pet because you may die from the same illness.

But you should be taught a lot by your deceased pet. You should also have a lot of knowledge about the illness that caused the child to die. I think that by making use of what was taught by the deceased child, it is possible to prevent the new child from getting sick and to detect the illness at an early stage.

As you have more experience with your second and third pups than your first pup, you will learn more from your previous pups and your pet-rearing skills will be refined. Instead of thinking about the suffering when you get sick, think about keeping it so that you don't get sick. Take advantage of what the deceased child taught you.

Pets have a shorter lifespan than us
Pets die before us. This is painful and sad for the owner, but if the owner dies before the pet, the pet will be sadder and more suffering than the owner.

Human children will one day become independent of their parents. But pets are never independent of their owners. Pets need to be protected by their owners for the rest of their lives. You are always your child and the one who needs your protection. Therefore, we can live longer.

Keeping a pet also means taking care of the end of the pet. Don't regret the difference in lifespan. Because of the limited time, make good use of it so that you and your pet can have a happier time.
Don't forget what your deceased pet gave you
You can make your pet happy
After losing your pet, you will be saddened. But think about it. Pets should have given you a lot of fun and happiness, not just sadness. Remember not only the sadness but the happiness given to your pet.

Not everyone can have a pet. Many people cannot keep it even if they want to keep it due to housing circumstances and family circumstances. You have a chance to live with your pet, so don't miss it.

You can be afraid of your pet's death, so you should be able to make an effort to delay your pet's parting day by as much as one day.

Just as you could make your deceased pet happy, the pets you want to make you happy are waiting for you. Be courageous not only to be afraid of bad things but also to welcome someone with whom you can enjoy new happiness again.

When the day comes when you want to live with your pet again, the child who is waiting for you without thinking only about the deceased child or limiting yourself in anticipation of a bad situation. Think about living with a new child. And take the courage to welcome a new child.




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