They are denying themselves, how can others look up to you

Sometimes, when you see others whispering behind your back, you can't help but wonder if the other party is badmouthing you.

I don't know, you care, maybe just "self-righteous", too much care will only make you uncomfortable.

A person's good and bad, not in how others see, but in their own how, if even you deny yourself, how will others look up to you.

If you deny yourself, you will only make yourself more unconfident, rather than break the wall that blocks the way, and discover your true self.

1. Know yourself

Some people do not recognize how much they weigh, so they do things beyond their ability.

Some people are too cautious to do things beyond their ability because they know themselves too well.

The former reckless, the latter cautious, past the appropriate degree, each has its own bad, but recognize themselves better than not, at least not easily make mistakes.

A person only recognizes themselves, understand where their strengths are, and find the right way to go, so as not to jump up and down, and finally take the wrong path.

Very often, people do not recognize themselves but do not want to admit that "the person who is full of flaws" is themselves.

However, no one is perfect, no gold is perfect, and imagination is beautiful, and will eventually lose to reality.

Only break the imagination, recognize yourself, learn to act according to your ability, take fewer detours, and find the right path for your life.

The "self" is simple and complex, regardless of their strengths and weaknesses they are themselves.

Self-existing deficiencies and avoidance are useless, and eventually have to face, as the "ugly daughter-in-law must finally see the in-laws" that, people can not avoid this life to identify themselves.

Only by recognizing ourselves can we understand our strengths and weaknesses, take the right path, do what we want to do, and achieve a better self.

2. Accept yourself

No matter how good or bad a person is, he or she is himself or herself.

How to escape, we must face.

Instead of finding your own bad from the eyes of others, you should learn to reflect on yourself, face your shortcomings, and achieve a better you in the continuous correction of yourself.

It is normal for a person to have deficiencies, but few people know how to "get along" with their deficiencies, and always habitually want to escape.

Thinking that avoidance can solve the problem, but never thought that it will only continue to accumulate problems, and in the end, there is no escape, but become bondage trapped in themselves.

Not being perfect is never a "roadblock", but it can be a "stepping stone". It is because of the discovery of one's shortcomings that one has the opportunity to make a better self by correcting them.

If you want to make yourself better, start by accepting yourself.

A good start is a key to success.

When a person dares to accept their strengths and weaknesses, then what can block their way forward?

A strong person is not able to conquer anything, but what he can bear.

Only accept their shortcomings, to find a better achievement "breakthrough".

3、Improve yourself

In the present you are temporary, in the future, you are constantly a breakthrough.

Do not be stuck in a moment of stability, and think about lying flat, swing, know that stopping the pace of progress, waiting for what may be the downhill side of life.

Life in all its forms, each has its strengths and weaknesses, each has it's own not easy, some people survive the immediate suffering, some indulge themselves, and then some people are bitter and sweet, some first sweet and then bitter, life seems to have no choice, but everywhere is a choice.

Some choices are wrong to change, dead wrong to live and suffer.

Don't be in the most should improve their age, only to eat, drink and play, today is to enjoy, tomorrow will be difficult.

Life's gain and loss are a cycle, no pay for the extravagant hope of return is a daydream, want to live better, only to constantly improve themselves, so that they become better, and have more to say.

Now is not good, does not mean that in the future, efforts to improve themselves, continue to break through the self.