There are three choices in life

In this world, no matter what age, situation and experience everyone is in, they will face many troubles and difficulties.

In fact, most of the time, the reason why we feel annoyed is not caused by external factors. It is your mentality and state that determines and influences your emotions.

In fact, there is no universal antidote and prescription for a happy life in this world, but if you do the following three things, you can live a little free and easy and calm.

The first option, put it down.

Everyone has been doing addition for the first half of his life. But in the second half of life, we must learn to do subtraction constantly.

Maybe when we were young, we were carrying a heavy burden and under great pressure. For this reason, we suffered a lot of grievances, suffered a lot of losses and took many detours.

However, after a lot of trials and tribulations, we have gained insight, experience and wisdom. At this point, you have to learn to make peace with everything you once couldn't let go.

Learn to let go of some people, after all, getting to know each other is a kind of fate. Get along with a, is also a kind of doomed. Since we can't meet again, it's better to learn to wave goodbye instead of pestering each other. To spare others is also to treat yourself leniently.

Learn to let go of some things, after all, whether they are wrong or passed, they are left behind yesterday. Whether it is important or not, it has become an unchangeable fact. In this case, it is better to learn to clear the past and travel lightly.

Learn to let go of a road. If there is no way here, there are other choices and leeway. You don't have to stick to a dead corner, and your heart is sad. You don't have to stay where you are, and you will find it hard for yourself. Maybe if you turn a corner and make a detour, you will be suddenly enlightened.

When you learn how to let go, you also learn how to start over. When you learn to let go, you also learn how to make your life easier and simpler.

The second option is to forget.

There will be countless experiences in one's life. Some may become beautiful memories in your heart, while others become scars and pains that cannot be healed.

If we keep everyone, everything and everything in mind. Will eventually fall on the verge of collapse and despair because of being overwhelmed.

Learn to forget the harm others have done to you. Whether intentional or unintentional, the difficulties for others will pass, so you don't have to hold on to it, and you don't have to remember it.

Learn to forget your kindness to others. When you lose this sense of giving and don't be too harsh, your heart will be much more balanced.

Learn to forget the unpleasant past. Those insignificant people and things, insignificant accidents, are easy to hide dirt, take dirt and get grey when they are kept in mind for too long, so it is better to put them behind us. Just care about it will only affect your body and mind.

In this life, there are actually many things worth remembering.

Maybe we can't decide what will happen to us, but it is your right and freedom not to invite unworthy people and things into your life for too long.

The third choice: cherish.

Sometimes, when we are still trying to recover what we have lost and strive for what we have not got, we have lost a lot of things that we originally owned without knowing it.

Therefore, most people will fall into endless remorse and cannot extricate themselves. In fact, when we learn to cherish, we also learn how to create happiness.

Learn to cherish the present. When you should work hard, don't be lazy, slack and procrastinate. Only by living a solid life at this moment and a bright future will come as scheduled.

Learn to cherish the people in front of you. Give more understanding, care and care to those who are with you, and never leave your worst temper to those who love you the most. Don't wait until you lose them to save and make up for them.

Learn to cherish life. You never know which will come first, tomorrow or accident. Every day you live, you should be grateful. No matter when, don't bet on your own body, and don't have any passive thoughts.

If a person learns to cherish what he has, he will reduce a lot of greed and regret, and naturally he will not live so tired.

Many of the unhappiness we face probably stems from the fact that we often wander in persistence and giving up, and are in a dilemma, so we feel confused and confused.

We often remember what we shouldn't remember and forget what we should remember, so we will struggle and regret.

We often don't cherish it when we have it, and regret it when we lose it, so we have regrets and sighs.

In fact, the road of life is full of frustrations and thorns. When faced with many choices, you should learn to choose, judge and weigh.

No one can tell you the shortcut once and for all, no one can give you the experience of copying everything, and no one can help you make a foolproof choice.

In a word, don't be brave when it's time to let go. Don't compete when it's time to forget. Don't be willful when it's time to cherish.

Live freely, calmly and simply, and life will become better, clearer and more transparent!