The power of positivity

As you grow older you realize life doesnt give you all the gifts you hope it would you start facing many things life isnt always easy it has hard times struggles heart breaks but whats important is that you should know how to overcome them maybe alone maybe with someones help and thatts when u get mature people think maturity is just getting old but what they dont is that struggles and experiences are what that make people mature responsible and undefeatable but for that in difficult and hard times being strong is very important and how to be strong is something we are gonna talk about first of all you should never get stressed out never ever and even if u do try relax hit your favourite playlist take a cold shower meditate read or cry to lighten your heart maybe tell a trusted adult only if u think they can help because sometimes telling parents might make everything worst i have toxic parents thats why i dont tell them anything one time i was facing too much criticization on my looks and everything and i couldnt help but feel insecure i did tell my parents but they were no use they were like be strong dont care about what people say they didnt support me they just basically ignored me so from that onwards i went through all the storms all the earthquakes in my life all alone i controlled my self from breaking down by relaxing and releiving my stress firstly and then writing everything down assuring my self that people only say things when they cant reach your level and that just gave a boost of confidence so always remember self esteem and self confidence should be strong and you should be calm and relieve your stress thats how you know that you are ready to dive into the scary sea of problems after you are done with yourself now how will u face the problem first of all write things down write your problem down try to understand the situation the cause and the effect of it after you are done writing the problem and everything create some points and then read them and understand them after you are done with that now according to the situation write down all possible solutions u think fit into this problem then think the effect of every solution and how will u implement that solution then try imagining the problem and every solution with the problem then look at your skills consider what u can do after considering everything write down the solution and perfect your problem and solution are there just like a answer to a hard maths question now u will consistently work on the solution once you have solved the problem you dont just leave the storm like that you learn the lesson from this experience because god has a perfectly good reason for this to happen and then you can use this lesson in your life writing and reading this i s simple it makes it loo so simple that its this easy to solve a problem when in reality there is much more to it and continously eperienicing these things is what will make you mature lastly remember sometimes u loose hope somtimes u loose love but the darkness of this struggles the cloud of hardships and the storm of heartbreaks everything will fade away with a bright sunny day u just have to wait and keep struggling and do not never ever give up i also dont have anyone but i struggled alone so even i f u think u dont have anyone believe me god will alwys be there standing right next to you do give me your feedback and what story should i rite next till then lots of love good luck with your life and struggles byeeee!!!