Very few times in our lives do we truly believe we are stuck somewhere in the middle. Of course, that is the phrase we choose to apply to our feeling of digression, but I argue that we’re never just in one place—we are either moving forwards, or backwards.
Has anyone ever told you “nobody’s perfect”? I’m here to tell you that they’re as right as they want to be. Whatever it is that makes you different is the very thing that will make you stand out and shine over everyone around you. It’s like when someone sees something so interesting and so different to the point where they like it. Perfection is just imperfections embraced to a higher level of self-acceptance. Whether you have a quirky look to you, an oddball personality, or even an unpopular way of living. I highly encourage you to embrace that very thing that makes you different. I know it may seem like a difficult or potentially painful task. But putting your insecurities on the table will reveal the truth. The truth of your insecurities will bring the truth out of the people around you. If you do this you’ll know who really has your back. You’ll know who your real friends are and who your real family is. Some of you might lose it all. Going from hundreds or thousands of friends to maybe one, two, or maybe even zero friends. Just keep in mind these are good people and you are not alone on this rock. Even when you’re feeling the least amount of support or guidance that you’ve ever felt in your entire life. You’re still not alone. Over every challenge is a better life. Use your insecurities to see the truth in your life. Use what makes you different to stand out. Pursue what makes you happy. What makes you happy is your passion. Your passion is your ticket to your dream life. Follow it, no matter what anyone else says. They don’t see what you see. They don’t feel what you feel. This is your life, not theirs. If you want a happy life, then don’t just dream about it. Write it down, then look up the steps to get there. Anything is possible in this world. So pave the path you’ve always wanted to walk. Your dream is reachable and waiting for you to claim the throne to. Go out and make it happen. You have one life and the only person that’s actually holding you back is yourself. You have a beautiful dream and it’s achievable.
I’m one of many people who suffer from “being too lazy” syndrome. You know you have it if you want to get lots of things done on your upcoming day off but never seem to make it to them or consistently push them off till tomorrow. But we all know that when tomorrow comes—we go through the same routine and therefore all the things we wanted to do get pushed on to the next day, again.
The thing about advice is this…it’s cheap. I don’t mean to say it’s inexpensive; it just doesn’t have much value anymore. And it usually comes unsolicited from everyone around you, all the time, whether you want it or not. Having said that, I have some to offer. It isn’t based on anything more reliable than my own experiences, so keep that in mind. Take it, leave it– it's up to you, my friends.
Not everyone is blessed with the gift of being confident and the ability to talk to anyone and put themselves out there, and unfortunately there are a lot of people out there that struggle with their self confidence and feeling comfortable within their own skin. Believe me, I am one of those people. But there are things that you can do every day to "fake" confidence and slowly build it for real.
Make them stop and stare by using these small little tips that go a long way. We all want to be the center of attention for any occasion, and we all know that no matter what we do, playing the dress to impress card is always the way to go. You do not need expensive brands to be popular or to stand out. You need to be you. No matter how insecure you are, you are as beautiful as can be if you only know how to present yourself. No matter how expensive your outfit is, the smile on your face will make it be 1,000 times more precious. Read these tips and try them as soon as possible. Subscribe to my blog and read these articles every day to enjoy the best occasions and events of your life.
I've always admired people who have beautiful handwriting, are super artsy, seem have their lives together, and usually they bullet journal. Go figure. If you don't know what a bujo is (bullet journal for short), it's basically a planner/super artsy book that people use for literally whatever they want. It can be filled with beautiful pages with inspirational quotes surrounded by artwork, or a monthly layout that included a planner, calendar, mood trackers and habit trackers, etc. Anyone who has a bujo will tell you that it can be whatever you want/need it to be, it's your journal, so be yourself when writing in it.
In this age of self awareness and proclaimed cultural "woke-ness," many people struggle with finding the happy medium between caring too much and not giving a damn at all. Here are ways to start giving a shit again and how it can positively result in a happier, more loving, productive life..
You have probably heard that to be successful you have to work really hard and have dedication and determination (which are well... kind of the same thing). And I'm here to tell you that that's total bullshit. If you know what you want, and most importantly know that you can have it, you will have it. It sounds cliche, but it really is as simple as that. Let me break it down for you:
There isn't a secret to studying the right way, and there isn't a secret to enjoying getting your work done. But there are ways to get motivated to study that will change your entire process for the better.
Finding yourself stuck in the same place? Progression sabotage comes in many forms which can weigh you down, causing depression, a lack a self-worth, and maybe even a lack of life fulfillment. We often even know where it's coming from but are too afraid to admit it. That's where I, your fairy godmother, come in to tell you the real. Need that weight off your shoulders? Let's shed these pounds together. Here are some tips for becoming a better you.