See Through

When the scenery is glorious, how many people surround you; when you are down and down, how many people are far away from you. When you are rich and rich, how many people will accompany you; when you are poor and have no money, how many people will abandon you. People are so fickle.

When I can use you, I will greet you; when I can't use you, I will ignore you. When you like you, you are the most expensive treasure, and when you hate you, you are the worst grass. The human heart is so real.

Many times, you have to admit that people's hearts are hard to guess and feelings are hard to guard. No matter how long they get along, they may not be able to see clearly, and no matter how good they are on weekdays, they may not be sincere. Feelings are too fickle, they are hurt, people are too complicated, and they are always deceived.

So be a person, don't think that everyone is like you, kind and simple, sincere and honest. Some things can't be backed down, so they refuse, and some people can't get along, so they break up. Before being kind, look at your character. Sincerity can understand people's hearts. Those who are of good character, give kindness, and those who are hypocritical, resolutely discard them.

Protect yourself, don't call it selfish, learn to refuse, it's not indifference, it's cold if it's cold, let the ruthless and unrighteous back, it should be ruthless, and let the ill-intentioned people regret it. Otherwise, you will become someone else's tool, either used or used.

Have you seen the human heart? Whether it's good or bad, it's hard to tell. Do you see through the feelings? True or false, hard to guess. Did you see the relationship? Skittles are just games. Open your eyes and take a look at the people around you. If you see it through, don't get along with it if it's not worth it.

People are like this, eating one cut grows one's wisdom, and meeting one person understands one person. Understand the complex human heart and understand the fickle feelings. Gradually, I came to understand, who can accompany and who can be dispersed early. May the kind-hearted you and me have a pair of discerning eyes that see through the truth and falsehood. From now on, I will not be hurt again, and I will be favored for the rest of my life!

"The sea is open to all rivers, and tolerance is great", tolerance and virtue are great. Therefore, tolerance is a kind of self-cultivation, but also a kind of temperament;

How do people cultivate their tolerance?

The first is to be able to tolerate. The so-called "tolerating the situation for a while is calm, and taking a step back to open up the sea and the sky." Forbearance is uncomfortable and not easy, but there is no other way, only "grit your teeth and do it" as Zeng Guofan said.

The second is to be able to forgive, to forgive others, you need to deal with your own selfishness and consider the difficulties of others. The so-called "Journey to the West" says, "When it is convenient, do it when it is convenient, and forgive others and forgive them."

The third is to be able to compare one’s heart with one’s heart. In "Zeng guang Xianwen", it is said that “blame oneself with the heart of blaming others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiving oneself.” If one can compare oneself to others and compare one’s heart with one’s heart, it is naturally easy to understand and tolerate.