Rejection and Doubt

When we hear the words "rejection" or "doubt," they are always associated with apathy, sadness, and all the words around us. But what if they have not been converted permanently? instead of viewing rejection and skepticism as evil, what if we were to see it as a real thing? I know it is harder than it sounds, because let's be honest, if we are rejected in any way, for example; work, woman or man, whatever, we go down. Being told we didn't get the job we were trying to do makes a person feel inadequate and will not be pushed up, or being rejected by someone we ask or interested in makes us feel bad, humiliated, because putting ourselves there, and / or again, is not enough. once a person has been rejected, it can leave a feeling of trying to be different in order to persuade that person to return. Not getting the job we were trying to get can lead to frustration and a lack of effort.

After entering the castle, doubts often follow within the background. we begin to doubt who we are, our abilities, all about us. It would be very bad if others began to doubt you, too, saying they did not believe you, or doubting your intentions, or saying you were wrong or that you would roll over. we always call people who talk like that “hate” and everyone always tells them to avoid it, but I say keep them.

I know, I know, I sound weird, or crazy, to say the least, but I heard it. When people have doubts, use that as an incentive to succeed and work hard to prove that they are wrong. In my opinion, it is not a small thing to ask to prove that someone is wrong. What percentage of actors and musicians in their lifetime are all told that they may not have done this, and that they did, which proves that those who applauded were wrong? I don't mean to put it on their face, because that's a small thing, but always remember those who doubt you and the people who support you.

When it involves rejection, it is difficult to look at it positively, but it can also be used as an incentive. If someone says they don’t care about you, don’t get angry or upset and start asking what you will change about yourself, or if you haven’t found the job you’re trying to get, look at it differently. When it comes to rejecting a boyfriend or girlfriend, and then realizing that they were not the right person for you, there is a better person to expect. When you apply for a job, then you see it as a job that you will not be able to enjoy where you would like to be, and what your future goals are. Let that objection move you to pursue your goals and find the right person for you.

Also, I know it’s hard to seem like a rejection and skepticism in a positive way, but over time it becomes easier. Never let the "no" stop you from doing what you would like to do in life or let the names of others stop you from following your dreams. Never allow the person who is trying to seduce you to stop trying to find love. Never stop being careless in your life.

If you work carelessly, you will never move forward otherwise you can get out of the things you are sometimes, because all your focus is on the wrong things. I say all of this from an experience I’ve ever felt in these ways, and I know some very well on their margins who feel the same way. But over time, I have even changed my mind, looking at each rejection and doubt differently - a bright light.

I just hope that anyone who decides to read this feels the same way.