Please do not follow this advises.

Be yourself

This is the worst advice someone can give you, what does that even mean. In the long journey of life first, you need to find yourself this takes time & a lot of effort, To know “the meaning of your life” you have to struggle a lot. Then always try to be the best possible, never settle in your life.

You need to be aware of what makes you “you”,

: what are your goals

: what makes you happy

: what Is your current reality

: what do you want in future

Once you realize who are you and what you want to be just be that.

Do what you love

The advice that unsuccessful people do love to give is “just do what you love” this is a piece of terrible advice for someone who has just started off his carrier because early on you shouldn't do what you love you should do what gets you paid. If you are passionate about writing and feel that it makes you complete then it's great you’ve got a great hobby and interest, but early in your life you will be in a position to pay your rent, mortgage, fill up the fuel in your car and suddenly you will realize that your passion isn’t enough because it is not paying you well.

Don’t get me wrong it is very important to know what makes you best, yes your passion can be a great side hustle but it is not something for wasting your working hours if you are not getting paid well in it because everyone has a future plan and it needs some effort. collect a lot of money and follow your passion so that you will not have to think about any burden in life again.

Believe it or not but you need money to survive in this world.

If you work hard you can achieve anything

If someone says this just ask him why isn’t labor or a coal miner ruling the world. Always remember hard work is not the only factor when it comes to success it is important but not enough. You are moving forward but without any direction, it's like being a ship without any radar you are just a labor working for someone who is offering you a salary or wage.

If you want to be successful in life you need a certain level of education in your field, strong social skills, some great evolutionary ideas, good managerial skills and you should always work smart once you have all that hard work comes into play but blindly following this mantra will lead you to the destruction of your life and never-ending pain.

4 Good things come to those who wait.

If you want to be successful never wait, nobody owes you anything nobody is coming to give you that something you think you deserve but never earned good things is earned by those who get up every single morning, invest in themselves along the way through smart work, they position themselves in the right way so they get the rewards they want.

why is this entitlement why do people believe that all you have to do is wait, they are living in an illusionary environment have these people been raised in if you are not willing to do it don’t expect the reward from it always try to earn,

* earn that respect you want

* earn that salary you want

* earn that status in life you wish for

Some might take longer to achieve but not the time will get it for you.

5 Always follow your Heart

This doesn’t make any sense at all because Heart never gives you any idea. What people actually mean by saying this is following your passion which we have already debunked above or follow what your gut tells you is the right thing let’s debunk this also. In life, your gut feeling can be an incredible tool but your gut needs to be trained in the proper way, remember how stupid you were when you were a kid what stupid decisions you took because of your gut feeling and now you look back and say how stupid I was .

Always think twice or thrice before taking any decision look at both sides of your coin and how will it affect you in the future your heart is stupid always use your brain please use your heart just to pump blood as your heartbeats.

These days people love to give advice but they never want to follow them if you want to take advice go for some really successful mentors and inspirational peoples.