Murphy's Law: The only difference between you and success is this point, master it you will eventually succeed

The Internet has a buzzword: social Cow, which describes a person who is very confident and can quickly blend in no matter what environment he or she is in. The opposite of a word: social fear, this word is to say that most people do not like to deal with interpersonal relationships, and some people will even be apprehensive for a long time because of a word or a look from others.

Social cow this type of people in the workplace, life can play a good game, while social fear is just quietly work, hard work. When the leader wants him to show the results of self, he will often be because of the retreat, which also led him to become the workplace "invisible man".

So, to be successful we need to get rid of social fear, which is easier said than done is certainly difficult. But we can start with the most basic aspect, that is, self-confidence.

In "Murphy's Law" mentioned "Dugan's Law", which says: strong people are not necessarily strong, but sooner or later the victory belongs to people who have confidence. The core of this statement with you is that confidence can determine a person's success or failure.

In real life, we often hear the words, "Can I?" "Can I?" People who say these words are often a lack of self-confidence, from a psychological point of view, this belongs to a self-referential, keep reminding themselves that they can not, can not do the job.

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How to make yourself feel confident?

First of all, we should not deny the value of the self, with a normal mind to face the setbacks and failures. Second, do not feel inferior and despair for their weaknesses and shortcomings, and do not be scared to stop moving forward.

In the face of setbacks to rise to the occasion, to analyze the difficulties of the matter, to find a way to do a good job.

For example: the leader wants you to take charge of a team, but you are also the first time to take over, do not know how to manage the team. Here you must first have confidence in yourself and believe that you will be able to be competent to lead the appointment. Then, understand the staff's work content and schedule, work ability, job responsibilities and so on one by one to understand. When you have this information, you will find a way to manage your team.

As long as you do it reasonably well, over time the employees will be able to follow your management. This is how it is, as long as you have the confidence to take the first step, then you are not far from success.

Self-confidence is the basic guarantee of one's success and a necessity for one's survival in society.

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Cultivate willpower and make your heart stronger

When you encounter something, you must have your own opinion, not because of a word of others arbitrarily shaken, to confirm their own opinion is correct and adhere to it. Willpower is a strong psychological force. People with weak willpower want to give up when they encounter some difficulties, while people with strong willpower will create miracles and achieve success.

A person wants to get career success, in addition to having a high IQ, high emotional intelligence only play, but also need to have frustration business, and willpower is precisely the best weapon to overcome frustration. People with strong willpower, after experiencing failure, will not self-doubt, self-denial, but will try to analyze the problem, so as to find a way to cope.

Aristotle once said: there are two things more important than intelligence, one is the human mind, the second is the human will. Therefore, it is very important to have a strong will power to succeed, and a strong will power allows us to grow in difficulties and still grit our teeth in difficult moments.

No matter in doing anything, we must often say: "I can definitely" "I will do", so that the subtle suggestion of self, slowly the most themselves more and more confident, more and more confident.