Maturity is the key to a person's success

What is maturity, maturity is never becoming mellow, true maturity is a no matter what you experience, do not forget to do the original intention of self?

Mature people tend to be more resilient compared to others, and know more about the truth of life and the truth of life, which is what shapes them to be powerful.

What is mental toughness is essentially their ability to recover from setbacks, learn from failures, and believe they can overcome any stress in various scenarios of life.

Inner maturity is a skill we must have as adults because life presents a variety of challenges and without a strong core of maturity, we can't make things happen, much less achieve the life we want.

Dare to embrace change

In this world, learning to embrace change is the most important thing. Many people have a lot of rigid thinking and perceptions in their minds, which leads them to grow up with a fear of embracing change.

Many people with mental illnesses are mostly afraid to change themselves, and they have a lot of worries and fears about the future.

And all mental illnesses are reminders that we need to learn to come to know ourselves again. Misconceptions and perceptions will not only fail to make us better, but they will also make our lives worse.

The essence of daring to embrace change is to explore life with a curious mind and experience it with a curious heart. When you go through life, when you know how to let go of the bondage of that identity baggage, it is then that we can activate your inner life.

Life is a spring, and if we don't experience that spring, it's hard for us to grow up.

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Have a flexible mind

The more mature a person is, the more he or she knows that nothing is absolute. Having a flexible mind is the key to our ability to truly grow.

Intelligence is not fixed, wealth is not fixed, everything is not fixed, and when we think the world is solidified, then that's when our problems begin.

Many people have a lot of rigid creeds, which lead to our growth step by step, and advanced growth is to break our growth rigid thinking, which is the key to our growth.

For example, many people fall into the trap of I can't after encountering setbacks, and it is difficult for us to grow.

So real growth is when we can meet things and analyze them specifically, not confuse concepts, and not attack ourselves in our personality, which is a very important point for our growth.

When you can be flexible to look at problems, you can embrace change at any time, and you will not fall into a solidified world.

Kazuo Inamori tells that there is a deity on the scene, and the essence of the deity is that we can understand that as long as you are in the present moment and you are present with the moment, there is a lot of room for growth in our inner life.

All growth is the process of breaking the rigidity, the process of re-creation, and the process of re-assembling. With the creativity of life elevated, naturally, we will find that our potential energy will gradually increase as well.

Having positive beliefs

A truly mature person is a person with inner positive beliefs. Ms. Yang Jiang once said that one day you will find that the world is your own and has nothing to do with others.

People who have inner beliefs often have a very strong law of dealing with things, and this positive belief is about themselves, not about others, about how we treat the world.

The world never depends on how others treat the world, the world depends on how we treat ourselves. I have seen many people who have entrusted their lives precisely to the hands of others.

When others treat them badly, they think they are bad. When we put our lives in the hands of others, it is often a time when we are not responsible for ourselves because no one knows us better than we do.

If we give up on our growth because others have given up on themselves, we happen to be in someone else's trap as well. Growth in life is essentially a person who is responsible for himself.

In the face of those unsuspecting people blow or their contempt, we should not doubt ourselves, but continue to precipitate ourselves, and constantly improve our skills to do things, so that they can affirm themselves, then they will become more powerful.

Positive faith is never experienced in smooth sailing but is more valuable in our encounters with setbacks. If we know who we are, we will meet more people just like us.

As you become more and more determined within yourself that you are this way, we will become more and more open within ourselves.

Always be curious

Rather than becoming numb, an important trait of mature people is a strong sense of curiosity. Curiosity is the key to improving our attention span and the beginning of our journey of learning.

Curiosity helps us to automatically connect with the world, and when we study and explore the world with curiosity, our inner life becomes more and more abundant.

When you care about the world with curiosity, your anxiety will gradually melt away, because curiosity itself is an important tool to break our neuronal connections and activate our inner brain potential.

When you observe yourself with curiosity, you will know yourself better, and you will realize that the world is not in imagination, but everything is in a state of change.

How to enhance the freshness of our daily life, we can choose flowers we have never seen before, and roads we have never walked before. These are the things that help us to be able to see that there are many parts of life that we have not noticed.

People have a limited attention span. A participant once told me about a time when he was living in depression and he didn't notice the sun no matter how warm it was until one day he looked at it with his heart and realized how beautiful it was.

So to bring curiosity is to break our inner negative perspective and see the world in a different light. The world is by nature diverse and we don't need to gather those that are not good enough, but to see more possibilities and it will bring looseness to our life.

Whether to know how to connect with people

A truly mature person has a good sense of support, and that sense of support is the ability to get & get more support from people.

Connection is a process of cooperation in each other's lives. If we don't have a good sense of connection as we grow in life, we will feel more and more alone.

Connection is our innate ability. Everyone is not an island, and everyone needs the support and backing of the system.

With the advancement of the Internet, it has become easier and easier for us to access information, but it has become harder and harder to communicate. Connection is the collision and communication with each other, and it is also the growth that our inner mind needs.

If one's sense of connection is not enough, one may live a very lonely life, and opening ourselves to collide and communicate with the world is also a way for us to deeply feel the light and colorfulness of the real world.

Connection is a kind of process in which we do well for ourselves and continues to refine ourselves in life, but also we form a better space for intermingling by helping each other.

Maturity is not a self that becomes cold and hidden, maturity is with enthusiasm and world-friendly action, sunshine, and positivity, not being afraid of things, and continuing to grow up.