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Life on the road, have these "two kinds", you win

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By Sheryl E DavisPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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The road of life is winding and thorny, and one can get stuck and tripped up if one is not careful. When you encounter obstacles and want to turn around, you find that there is no way back, and you don't know where to go.

Weak-willed people, can not withstand the blow when there is a bad, either blame God, or self-denial. Negativity, depression, as if the whole world is gray.

Strong-willed people, the more frustrated the more courageous, when encountering difficulties, although also affect the mood, but know how to self-regulation, soon out of the gloom, and continue to move forward.

There are two very good sentences that I like very much.

The first sentence: "The seeds that have lost faith in flowering and fruitfulness cannot break through the stiff soil in early spring."

The second sentence: "Ideals are beautiful, but without the will, ideals are nothing more than a fleeting rainbow."

Faith and will are the most needed on the road of life. A strong belief that will not give up midway; a strong will that will not fear any difficulties.

If life is a race, then, with these two things, you win.

Success is not awesome, having a strong belief is awesome

Anyone desires success. Success in anything, in any way, can be exhilarating.

However, the joy of success does not last long, the world is ever-changing, excellent people are emerging, competition will never stop, a moment of success does not mean anything, there are many unknown storms in the future, and no one can guarantee that they will always stand at the peak.

Know an author, fans hundreds of thousands, articles read mostly more than 100,000, hundreds of thousands, very powerful. I don't know how many authors, dream to be as successful as she is, as powerful.

Suddenly one day, her data fell off a cliff, from hundreds of thousands, hundreds of thousands, all of a sudden became a few hundred.

The drop was too big for anyone to accept. She approached customer service to ask why, and the customer service answer was very general and not helpful.

When people encounter this kind of situation, most of them will be negative, with no mind to continue creating, and the number of articles will be reduced. But she didn't. She wrote, as usual, ensuring both quantity and quality. She firmly believes that the data will be better.

Self-media writing, data is always touching the heart of the author. The data is good, will be more motivated. The data is not good, the whole person is not good.

Pay may not be rewarded, efforts may not have results, and persistence may not be successful. But if you do not pay, do not work hard, do not insist, doomed to nothing.

There is a saying that the harder you work, the luckier you are. She is the kind of person who works very hard, with the belief that "it will get better", she persisted for a few months, and the data started to get better slowly.

People envy her success and think she is great, but in fact, her greatness is not a superficial success, but the belief that she always holds deep inside.

Success is only the glamour, belief is the root. We do everything, first of all, we must have a strong belief that we can do it, and then work in that direction. Only then will success be possible. Only then, even if you fall from the peak into a deep valley, you will not lose your fighting spirit.

Failure is not scary, losing a strong will is scary

Everyone has had the experience of failure. Such as exams failed, confessions rejected, failed interviews, and business losses ......

Some failures are objective reasons, some failures are their problems. But the result is the same, aspirations failed, dreams are broken, helpless to reality, disappointed in themselves.

When I first started writing, I was bent on writing stories for submission, and also enrolled in a training course for this purpose, spending more than five hundred dollars. After listening to the course, I wrote a story and submitted it to the teacher as required.

I knew I was not good at writing, but I didn't expect it to be so bad that the teacher would take it out as a counterpoint and analyze it paragraph by paragraph.

Although the teacher told me in advance that she would use my essay as a counter-example and hoped that I would not be glassy-eyed, I also said that I was fine with it, but when it came to the classroom and the essay was sent out for everyone to pick on, it was a large social death scene, and I wanted to find a crack in the ground. But I had to stay calm and accept everyone's comments.

It was a failure, and I never wrote another story for submission after that, and I didn't even earn back my tuition.

If I had been a little more fragile inside, I might not have dared to write any more articles. But I was not willing to do so, and I continued to move forward silently on the road of writing, trying to find the sky that belongs to me.

Is failure terrible? Yes, but compared with the loss of confidence, and the loss of strong will, failure is not terrible.

Failure can start all over again, but with the loss of a strong will, you may be forever depressed, even if there are new opportunities, but also doomed to miss, become a lifetime of regret.

Have these "two", and you win!

The road of life, how difficult it is to go, but also to have hope, with the perseverance of a hundred folds to go on.

What you want to do, more difficulties, but also to try to overcome, with the spirit of perseverance to struggle.

Success is a dream, failure is a test. People, to have a dream, but also to have the courage to face failure and accept the test.

Dreams may not always come true, but have the faith to achieve them. With faith, there is the power of action, encountering setbacks, to persevere with the will to hold on through.

Belief will determine the direction of life.

If you have a strong belief and strong meaning, then you win.

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