Life advice: 10 things you should never do

The advice of those who have come to you, please take a good look at it!

01 Do not work in a friend's company

Once I just graduated, when I heard my friends let me go to the company to help, and even happy.

I didn't realize that it was just the front desk, helping out with odd jobs, but also helping friends take pictures of the sun.

Now I think of vomiting, but that moment let me understand, this kind of friend does not want to stop.

Later, I decided to leave the company without respect for my friends and from then on, the well does not offend the river.

02 Do not sleep with a confidant

Men are horny, if you say we are just very good friends, it is simply stupid.

There is no male best friend, there is only ambiguity between the two.

Once the two have no qualms about getting along, it is natural to do things between male and female friends.

If you do not grasp, then the good friendship, but also will fizzle, the final form of strangers.

03 Do not take colleagues as friends

In the workplace, there are no friends.

You see others as your good, or superficial help, but you are still valuable to her.

People in the workplace, the heart of more, scheming.

Some people to be in front of the leadership points, often will be appropriated as a credit.

One second is smiling with you, the next second is backstabbing.

You take him as a friend, and he takes you as a stepping stone, sober up! Friends

04 Do not answer the phone loudly in the crowd

A person's quality and cultivation can be fully captured through behavior.

On the bus, in shopping malls, and in other places where there are many people, a phone call completely disregards the surrounding crowd.

Not only does it cause criticism from people around you, but your privacy may also be exposed.

When you go out, to make friends, not to cause trouble, you have to manage yourself well, and always pay attention to the image.

Do not leave the criticism outside, only to annoy people.

05 Do not marry your lover

Some people are only suitable for boredom, and entertainment, not for marriage.

In addition to satisfying psychological needs, lovers are physical needs.

Often the lover will not be like a wife as warm and fuzzy to you, like a family member to treat you, the lover only wants the money and status in your body.

The lover does not care whether you are dead or alive, whether you have worked hard today, whether you have eaten or not, whether your clothes are ironed or not.

So please think twice before you act.

06 Do not trust the leader's promises

Leaders always draw pies for their employees, and before the previous big pie is finished, another one comes.

The leader's future planning, what position he intends to put you in, what value you can achieve, everything is just to stabilize you, so that you work for him.

Newcomers to the workplace, often more surging, once you hear what kind of height you can reach in the future, how much salary you can get, what kind of career prospects the leadership will give, often can not control, believe it.

But, if you believe it, it is wrong.

To motivate the employees, the leaders start by drawing a pie.

Leaders are deep, why not go home and dig a hole?

07 Do not get used to finding excuses for yourself

Do not want to do, or cannot do it, they are used to escape, to find excuses for themselves.

Escape for a while, but a lifetime, encounter some things that can escape and pass?

Not, instead of facing all, why not face early, to train themselves in King Kong, naturally not afraid of fire?

08 do not in front of the boss mouth

Many people feel that they get along well with their bosses, and usually, their bosses are generous enough to invite them to afternoon tea and chat, so they feel that their bosses are very friendly.

You think in your heart, this boss is very good, with no arrogance, just like a friend.

So when you speak, you are also used to saying anything and everything.

The boss already has a scale in his mind and wants you to leave, stay, mention you or suppress you.

09 Do not put happiness and sadness on the face

When something happens, happy or sad, always likes to show the face of the people to change.

Because this message is very dangerous, when you are happy, others will be jealous of you.

When you are sad, others will fall on your sword.

When you are angry, people will be afraid to approach you and think you have a temper problem.

When you are sad, others will stay away from you, thinking that your negative energy is too much.

A person who can hide his emotions is certainly not a villain.

10 Do not put your hope in others

Life is your own, hope has to be achieved by yourself step by step.

It's not about having a boyfriend and putting the clothes and bags that you once longed for on each other.

It's not about putting your hopes on your relatives when you're not seeking a good position.

If everything hopes to others, then you will live a very sad life.

Because you can not play their role at all, that unlimited potential can only be killed by you all the time in the cradle.