Learn to Turn Defeat Into Victory

You will laugh at past mistakes.

Movie lovers will never miss the great actor Mr. Forget Leone Barrymore

can't In 1936 he broke his hip bone which never healed.

Though Mr. Barrymore's future is bleak. But Mr. Barrymore didn't think so.

This injury helped him reach more heights in acting. next year

Despite constant and excruciating pain, he sat in a wheelchair in dozens of successful roles

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M W Colvin Ulliam behind a tank in France on 15th March 1945

was walking behind A walking mine causes the tank to fly and Mr. William

Goes blind forever.

But it was to keep Mr. Yuliam's ambition to be minister and adviser unfulfilled

could not Mr. while passing college with honors. Yuliam said that

Blindness “will become the treasure of my life. Because people see the outside appearance

Can't verify so will give him a second chance. Blindness makes me look

People will be released from the injustice of the trial. I want to become such a person

To whom everyone feels safe, can express themselves.”

This is a strange example of turning a bitter, brutal defeat into a victory, isn't it?

Defeat is just a state of mind, nothing else.

A friend of mine is an established and successful investor in the stock market. That's all the time

He once told me that he makes investment decisions based on his past experience.

“When I first started investing 15 years ago, there were several setbacks.

Like most non-professionals I wanted to get big fast. So fast

got hurt But it did not break. I knew the principles of economics.

Moreover, investing in well-chosen stocks over a long period of time will definitely pay off.”

“So these early bad investments were worth my education

I did," he said with a smile. On the other hand, I also know people who have a mindless sense of money

Became fiercely anti-stock' after the investment. Analyze mistakes and add to work

Instead of giving, they create a misconception that investing in common stocks

Involved in gambling, where everyone loses in the end.

Decide to salvage something from each defeat. Work since then

If there is any mistake or noise in the world or at home, it is the cause of cold head

find out Doing so will not repeat the same mistakes.

If you can learn, there is benefit in losing.

We humans are very different creatures. By taking the credit for the victory, we won

I want to tell the world. We all want others to comment on us.

"That Mr. So-and-so is going, he has been credited with this work."

But when we lose, we put the blame on others. product

If the sale is not made, the salesman blames the customer. If there is a mess at work

Executives blame employees and other executives.

The husband blames the wife and the wife blames the husband for family quarrels.

It is true that in today's complex world, others may be lagging us

can throw However, it is also undeniable that we are ourselves at times

I can't handle it, I throw myself away. Personal disability or mistake we

lost

Prepare yourself for success like this. Remind yourself that

You strive to be as perfect as it is humanly possible to be.

Be realistic. Seal yourself in a glass tube to a neutral third party

Do your own analysis. Do you have any errors that have never occurred before?

Not seen, look for it. If you see any errors, correct them.

Most people become so accustomed to their own character that improvement is the way to go can't find.

“Thoroughly consider mistakes without blaming fate. losing

Learn if you go. Many look for explanations in their middle-class lives under the excuse of "bad luck," "bad luck," "unlucky," wretchedness. They are like naive children who only seek sympathy.

They do not recognize opportunities to become bigger, stronger, more self-reliant. So that opportunity is lost.