IT IS NOT FAILURE WHICH CAUSES DISAPPOINTMENT RATHER EXPECTATION OF SUCCESS IS DISAPPOINTING

It is often heard that despite their efforts people are not getting the desired result. There are many people in the world who work hard from day to night for nominal money with no prestige. Since the daily life of each individual depends upon the earnings from the work they do, they keep moving forward with the hope that one day they will get the desired result for their work.

Do you know the ‘keep moving forward despite odds’ statement is very inspirational when stated in words but when someone faces it in action then only one can understand that it is not as inspirational as it appears. In reality, when odds appear in life, we begin to struggle. Many people struggle in different ways, some people struggle to win and some people struggle not to fail and some people struggle merely for survival. Some people make their dreams into expectations. It depends upon the expectation of the persons that they are expecting from that certain kind of activity.

The harsh truth of life is that it is never fair to anyone because whenever an individual achieves something that he/she wishes for, then the value of things deteriorates and in time it becomes obsolete. Now many might have doubts that can success is not possible at the first attempt but there are examples where people are getting success on the first attempt. It is true that there are people who are getting success in the first attempt and it is possible to achieve success in the first attempt also but there are certain conditions for that.

Like there is only one key for a lock, there is a certain activity for each individual which gives absolute success because naturally there are some skills within each individual who are suitable to do certain activity perfectly and those who are doing that, they are getting success easily. Then why very few people are getting success? It is because we all humans have desires and to fulfill those desires we change for that interest and try to develop those skills which are suited for the activity we desire for.

Eventually, those who follow correct procedures for that activity and make particular activity-oriented decisions; they only get success and else fail. So, for those who have failed, it doesn’t mean that they can never achieve success; they might because there is no guarantee that success will come to someone after certain attempts.

As far as the activity is completed by considering the interests of all those who are getting affected by that activity will determine whether a person will achieve success. Some people spend their entire lives but never get success only because of that reason.

Hence, it means that it doesn’t matter how many attempts you have made rather how many positive attempts you have made will determine your success rate. Ultimately due to failure in getting what is wished people get themselves in despair forgetting that failure is not the cause of despair rather their hollow expectations for success is the cause of despair. Just think yourself, the activity that you are performing today, is it really suited to you? Can you perfectly synchronize yourself with that activity?

If your answer comes yes! Then you will definitely get success someday. If the answer is no! Then it doesn’t mean that you will get failure rather you have to work harder to achieve success and mentally prepare yourself to face failure and improve yourself accordingly.

So, while doing an activity one must always think that how efficiently the activity will be completed not that how much success that activity shall be given. When we are thinking of success while doing an activity at that time our focus revolves around getting success and the quality of work gets affected. Due to this, despite having the scope of getting success, people face failure.