How To Be A Popular Man

If you’re wondering whether there is a way to go up in the popularity ladder, there is one. Figure out whether it’s a thing that you definitely want to pursue, and if it is, go after it. Life is too short to doubt your motives, and even if you eventually discover that it wasn’t at all what you wanted, you would still gain plenty of insight and life experiences by climbing it. Becoming popular isn’t an easy thought, especially if you never were the type. In this article, we are going to suggest quite a few ways to enhance your chances of success.

Step Up Your Looks

Whether you think that physical appearance is of great importance or a shallow pursuit, you are right. But no matter how you look at it, it still matters a lot how a person presents himself in real life. An appearance is the first thing people see, and you will only get a chance at interacting with other people if they judge it to be up to their level.

This will undoubtedly depend on what kind of popularity you are looking for. If you want to blend in with the geeks at your college, a hoodie and jeans will take you very far. On the other hand, women prefer men who dress sharply and have an acute sense of style and their physical appearance. Don’t go too far with it, as you don’t want to be the stylish feminine dude, but always maintain a good level of preparedness. Stay consistent with your approach, and your looks will be exactly what you want.

Chances are, you want to be popular among people you are currently not. What separates you from them? Is there a gap to bridge between you and the group? For example, if you aspire to be the guy everyone will talk to at the gym, step up your fitness game and act the part. When you are in shape, you automatically draw people to yourself who are after the same thing.

Be Fun To Be Around

Unless you are planning on attracting the most boring crowd to yourself, you have to first become the person who’s fun to be around. We like individuals who are like ourselves, so if you are a blast of a guy to be around, you will attract men and women who are alike. When humans get out in a social setting, nobody wants to have a bad time. And a big part of having a good time is laughs and jokes. You don’t have to become a comedian to be popular(although that’s definitely a way to do it), but having a few cards up your sleeve will help you out tremendously.

Another common theme we are searching for is relaxation. Have you ever wanted to be around someone who is all tight and uncomfortable in their own skin? Of course not, because you don’t want these feelings to transfer to you anytime soon. Who we spend time with affects us greatly, and most people know it, and this is why anyone would prefer to be rocking with an especially chill person. The more relaxed you are, the more the other person gets to relax.

Get Out There

One of the most important aspects of being popular is being out there in a big way. Isn’t that obvious? Not at all times and not for all folks! There is a big reason why celebrities always tend to keep growing in their popularity. They are literally presenting themselves to the external world, constantly, and from the very best point of view. We pay attention to them, and when we do, they are looking and acting their best on each occasion.

A friend of mine from Japan recently wrote a great piece about the male celebrities that got a lot of attention in Japan and around the world in the past year. What do they all have in common? They are good-looking and immensely successful in their respective fields. This is a straightforward formula to emulate, although it may not be that easy to achieve. But hey, at least we have given you direction.

Decide, And Give It Your All

Big goals such as getting rich or popular (or both) take a lot of time. And in case it’s grappling you so hard that you can’t think of anything else, there’s not much choice left for you. You will have to do your absolute best in the pursuit of your dream. Don’t forget that the journey is where it’s at, and the destination is the cherry on top.