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Be Your Own Best Friend

It is essential to interact with own self to create affection for own self

By Wajiha KhanPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Friends are the main source to become a way of not being alone. So If you make friends with yourself you will never be alone. It is difficult to be your own best friend as it feels lonely at first because you aren’t used to being on your own.

Interacting with own self is the skill of a person to become own friend. The smartest people are the ones who spend time on their own because they see the world in a different way than those who sleep while still alive.

Being yourself is the only way and it will make a person aware inner side of a person People are likely to come and go in your life, while a few stay with you for the rest of your life.

To know yourself and try to interact with your inner plays a vital role to be your friend. Being in your solitude allows you to have complete control over what you want to do. You choose whatever you want to do. You can do anything because it allows a person to practice his or her normal deeds without compromising in life.

Always adopting a positive behavior is a little bit difficult because it is noticed that most people are only able to offer drama and unnecessary stress to your life. Some people cause trouble and create hurdles in life to not be in this positive state. But to overcome this hard situation and come out bravely and adopt a positive way is the biggest achievement. Being your own best friend means you’ll have less drama and stress in your life. Its caused prevention from drama and stress. It gives you the strength to encourage yourself to be yourself.

When it comes to struggles, no one can help you move on over a heartbreak or overcome your addiction but yourself. People can offer you help and support, but you have to take the first step to break your old habits. You’re the one who can change your life for the better.

It’s truly a blessing to have a few supportive people in your life who motivate you to overcome your struggles. If you have those people, you’re richer than you think.

You have to feel comfortable being alone and enjoying your solitude. Many people in this world have trouble being alone. It’s uncomfortable for some people to be alone because they aren’t used to it. They have never learned to be alone.

Being your own best friend means you have time to get to know yourself better. You’ll find out what makes you happy and unhappy. You’ll find out who is good for your heart and poisonous for your heart.

You will learn about yourself by spending time with yourself. You will learn to have high standards as well. You don’t allow any people into your life, and you become more true to yourself.

Start to treat yourself the way you want to be treated and become your own best friend. Good people will come to you naturally, wanting to be your friend because they can sense your friendliness.

Be your buddy. Be your cheerleader. Be decent. Be humble.

It’s better to avoid pleasing other people. It’s a way of betraying yourself. Stay true to who you are, and stay loyal to yourself because you aren’t trying to be someone else just to please people.

Don’t aim to please people if they aren’t treating you with decent respect. Know your damn worth.

I’m aware that many teachers tell you to make yourself happy because your family, friends, and partner won’t make you happy first. You have to take the first step.

Set boundaries because some people will betray you and make you miserable in life.

“Learn to enjoy spending time with yourself. That way, you’ll never truly be alone.”

Accept Yourself For Who You Are.

Only you dare to accept yourself fully as you are. You have the strength to chase after your dreams.

You’re the only one who can remind yourself to be strong when you see the opposite of what you want.

You understand yourself better than anyone else. Add more humor to your life. When you make mistakes, gently laugh at yourself.

Some important tips people should adopt in life are to encourage yourself more to be a best friend of your own.

Know that you’re worthy of love and everything you desire. Compliment yourself when you do something great. Be kind to yourself.

Try to make yourself easy and give relief to yourself. Be easy in learning because you are a human who is still learning.

Be your friend first. Hold your hand. Fight for who you are. Enjoy your own company. Encourage yourself with positive words.

Spend time having fun with yourself. Dance to your favorite songs and watch comedy shows. Make your day fun and spoil yourself.

Forgive yourself. Accept yourself for who you are. Find something to love about yourself every day and write them down as a reminder when you break down.

Be strong and encourage yourself to cope after failures. Hold your hand, stand up for yourself, and believe in yourself a little bit more every day.

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