Be a man, broad-minded and retiring

It is said that things in the world are too serious, and sad is their own.

The day of laughing and crying, it is better to live happier.

Patience for a while the wind and waves are calm, a step back to the sea and the sky.

To retreat is to advance, to treat people with generosity is a blessing, and to benefit others is to benefit oneself.

1. Be broad-minded to cultivate blessings

Being human, there are nine out of ten things that are not as good as they should be, if you always pile up worries in your heart and face life with a bitter face, it will only make you fall into self-loathing, the more you live, the more tired you are.

Instead of worrying constantly, depressed in the heart, why not learn to relax, and smile in the face of suffering, there may still be a chance.

I once met a person who, for some reason always full of sadness, and she chatted with a few words, you will find that her attitude is very negative.

At that time, I was afraid that she would do something stupid in a bad mood, looking for the day to go about her dinner, chatting away only to find that she had recently fallen out of love.

The ex-boyfriend said before the breakup of a meal, so she was very hit, began to doubt themselves, the more you think about the sadder, do not know what they should do.

For this reason, can not sleep, can not eat, the whole person mental state is very bad, feel ready to collapse.

I asked, "Why do you care so much about what he said? He has become your past, is unnecessary people, cares too much, will only be hard on yourself, rather learn to let go."

"Which is so simple, when I think of what he said, I feel angry, why break up, then put the fault on me."

"But, you can't affect him by getting angry, you will only suffer yourself, and the torture will only be for the people who love you."

I don't know if she listened to it, but later in the circle of friends to see her go on a trip, with a smile on her face, feeling very happy.

The more you think about it, the more you'll be upset, and the more you'll be depressed.

There is time to resent a person, rather than learn to put down, with tolerance to treat, seemingly spare others, is to spare yourself.

Hugo said, "The worlds widest is the ocean, wider than the ocean is the sky, wider than the sky is the human mind."

To be narrow-minded is sad to oneself.

Broad-minded, to be blessed with a wide margin.

2. Reticence to speak to nourish the nature

The more impatient a person is, the more he loves to compete with others in words; and the more mature a person is, the less he speaks, the more he is silent and calm.

Sometimes, for unnecessary things to play fast and loose with words, hurt the peace of mind, but also cause unnecessary trouble.

Even if the quarrel is won, and can win back what, the actual is not lost, hurt the peace, is to do how many things can not make up for it.

There is a man who, unforgiving, who always likes to argue with others, either by saying where others do not do right or by arguing with others right or wrong.

Indeed, most of what he said is right, but so bluntly said, how much will hurt the face of others, so that others can not stand.

Over time, he was surrounded by fewer and fewer friends.

Some words can not say, even if you can say it in private, on the spot to fall others face, said it is not to see the wrong, the actual is offended.

Not anyone can be good-tempered to accept criticism on the spot, more is discontent, and want to wait for an opportunity to retaliate against people.

Rather offend the gentleman, not offend the little man, say too much, they are confused about who offended, the results of the dark arrows difficult to prevent.

Therefore, do not say what should not be said, to do the words to the mouth to leave half a sentence, the matter to the head to let three points, full of the world less open, see through the human feelings but nod.

Few words, calm and collected, is the performance of high emotional intelligence, and good character, to walk the road of life.

3.

Goethe was walking in the park when he met a critic on a path that only one person could pass.

The critic said, "I never give way to fools."

Goethe said, "I'm the opposite." Then he retreats to the side of the road.

Retreating as an advance may seem like a concession, but it backfires.

Sometimes, you think there is no way out, but in reality, it is just a leaf in the eye, a step back can be a silver lining.

There is more than one road in life, don't be stagnant and limit yourself.

The road is still long, take your time, it will always get better.

Be generous with your heart, a few words, to retreat to get better and better.