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When a guy pulls away do nothing

When a guy pulls away do nothing

By Rethiga RPublished 10 months ago 2 min read
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When a guy pulls away do nothing.

There are many times in our lives when people may pull away from us. Whether it be a friend who stops returning your calls, a family member who is distant, or even a romantic partner who seems to be losing interest, it can be difficult to know how to handle the situation.

But one thing is for sure: when a guy pulls away, the best thing you can do is nothing.

That may sound counterintuitive.

After all, when someone we care about seems to be slipping away, our natural reaction is to cling tighter and do whatever we can to keep them close. But sometimes, the more we try to hold on, the further away they seem to get.

There are a few reasons why this might be the case.

First of all, when we start to feel like someone is pulling away, we tend to become more needy and insecure. We might start bombarding them with messages or demanding their attention, which can actually make them feel more overwhelmed and distant.

In other words, our attempts to stay close can actually drive them away.

Additionally, if someone is pulling away, it might be because they are going through something themselves.

Maybe they are dealing with personal issues, or maybe they are just feeling overwhelmed by the relationship.

Either way, trying to force them to stay close when they need space will only make them resentful and stressed out.

So what should you do when a guy pulls away? As hard as it might be, the answer is simple: nothing.

Give them the space they need to figure out their feelings and deal with their issues. Trust that if they care about you, they will come back when they are ready.

And if they don’t come back, it’s better to let them go than to try to force a relationship that isn’t working.

Of course, that’s easier said than done. It can be incredibly difficult to resist the urge to text or call them, to wonder what they’re up to or to stalk their social media.

But in the long run, letting them go will be better for both of you. It might be painful at first, but eventually you’ll come to realize that you don’t need them to be happy and fulfilled.

So instead of trying to force a relationship that’s not working, focus on yourself. Take this time to figure out what you want out of life, to pursue your passions, and to spend time with the people who love and support you.

Don’t define yourself by your relationships with others – you are your own person, with your own hopes and dreams and goals. And ultimately, the only person you can control is yourself.

Of course, this is easier said than done. It’s natural to want to cling to the people we care about, especially when we’re feeling vulnerable.

But the more you can learn to let go and trust in the universe, the more peace and contentment you will find in your life.

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