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Loving someone can help you recover and become stronger

Recently I wrote an article titled “Loving Someone Is About You, Not Them”, focusing on how to find and appreciate your ability to feel and express love. How to use your love for someone.

By CK blogPublished 3 years ago 5 min read
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Loving someone can help you recover and become stronger

Recently I wrote an article titled “Loving Someone Is About You, Not Them”, focusing on how to find and appreciate your ability to feel and express love. How to use your love for someone. This article is about how you can recover from loving someone. When we can use our love for someone for our win / win advantage then we will never really be the victim of another heartbreak. Our heart breaks because we are hoping that someone will love us in the same way that we love him. Many people have not exploited their inner love, however, this does not mean that if a relationship does not go the way you like it, then you should be bitter and sour in the relationship. Realize that the person was not there for a long time. That person came into your life to reflect the deep love within you.

Feeling that kind of love is meant to show you that you have the ability to love. The feeling that deep love tells you that you are a human being and in the end you can feel your feelings. The feeling that love tells you be no longer harsh, harsh and cold towards you. If no one loves you back, lovingly leave them in the universe and thank them for the role they helped you tap into the love that exists in you and bring it to the surface.

The vast expanse of the universe is there to show you that your love can spread throughout the universe. Sometimes we limit ourselves to the people who are in front of us when that person for us is in another country or at some other stage of our life that we have not yet tapped. Love healing is nectar. It can heal every pain we are feeling. Love lifts us out of darkness, pain, madness and takes our lives to a higher level. The Bible says that love forgives and heals many sins. Now, while I do not believe in the whole “sin” concept that arises in Christianity, I believe that love fixes and releases every complaint made against you or others. Love cures anger, love cures heartbreak, love cures everything.

We no longer need to focus on anything wrong, instead we start focusing on what is right in the world. The more we get into that love within us, the more we realize that no one can really break our hearts. We will begin to feel that person is not for us and we will vacate the right place to enter. We will not waste time mourning the behavior of others and we will be able to distance ourselves from anything that is not expanding our inner love. Love will help us to appreciate and thank all those who enter our lives and for teaching us more lessons in the long run or short term for what true love is.

When you can understand and feel that true and true love within you, you will not fall into the mental trap of some less loving definitions of how to hold and hold a man / woman. Future or present relationship. The one who says that if she does this, you do that. Do not do this until it does. They are emotional games, which are unhealthy and far from love.

Love is not manipulative, it is not owned, it is not controlled, it is not hostile nor is it a bargaining tool. I mean you know the bargaining tool. Which says if you love me you will do this or that. Or if you do or do it, I will not go. He is conditional love and is also manipulative and ruthless. Not only this, love is not a healthy and loving relationship and this kind of behavior and mindset will never bring any kind of deep and real intimacy in the relationship. People masked as love are not the object of manipulating a sick game. It is far from anything that looks like love. True love comes from the heart and you feel it deeply in your soul. Love is the purest, most genuine and honest feeling of goodness that ever existed. True love is unconditional.

Opening our hearts to feel and experience love will help us to create and live a purposeful life. When we can feel love then we can share that love without any expectation or result. Love is free, it does not expect payment. On the other hand living life without love is one of the most empty feeling you will ever feel. You will feel as if you have no reason to live or not even exist. If we continue to see love in an unhealthy way then we will never be able to experience true and true love.

However, when you start removing all the conditions of love with a true feeling of love, when you start loving yourself your life will start to come alive and your energy level will rise above the ceiling. Love brings peace and healing back to your soul and your life. So whenever you meet someone and you start feeling love then realize that they are helping to reflect the love that is within you and this conversation is bringing that love to the surface. If that meeting was only for that time, then leave the person with love and open the door for more love to enter and manifest in your life. In this way you will never feel the need to manipulate another relationship nor will you allow others to manipulate your heart and mind in the so-called name of love. One love!

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