If your girlfriend acts spoiled with you, you should thank your lucky stars because she loves you.

The most upvoted answer from internet describes it as wonderfully soothing, like a healing Japanese drama.

The blogger's girlfriend is 26 years old, beautiful, friendly, intelligent, and elegant. It's rare to find these four qualities harmoniously present in one person. Intelligence and elegance have long been considered lost virtues, haven't they?

Here's how the blogger describes their relationship:

"She never gets angry with me. When we're working, we focus on our respective tasks. She doesn't cling to me or bombard me with calls and messages. When I hang out with friends to watch sports or play games, she buys us food and drinks, then goes to her room to read or watch movies. Sometimes, I go to the room and find her already asleep, and I feel guilty. I feel that she is mature, not in a condescending or experienced way, but rather because of her quietly comforting presence."

Are there really such wonderful women in the world, or is it necessary to resort to inflatable dolls?

One day, the blogger and his girlfriend invited some older relatives to a newly opened restaurant. During the meal, a waiter approached her and said that the meal was on the house, and that she could eat for free whenever she came. She found it strange, and the waiter explained that it was the boss's instruction.

The boss was her ex-boyfriend.

The blogger witnessed her bewildered expression for the first time, and saw her shift from composed to capricious in an instant. He saw her disappear without saying a word to the older relatives...

Later, they broke up because the blogger realized that her maturity and rationality stemmed from not loving him.

Where's the promised healing Japanese drama? Oh, I forgot to mention, the endings of healing Japanese dramas are usually heart-wrenching.

There is a saying: When someone behaves with great composure, it actually conveys a sense of indifference.

A woman is more likely to act appropriately in front of someone she doesn't love.

Because she doesn't love you, she won't make mistakes.

Because she is unattached and unfeeling, she knows what you want and gives it to you.

If a woman truly loves you, no matter how intelligent, mature, and composed she is, she will lose her composure in a romantic relationship. Because she cares. Her emotions will fluctuate, she will pick fights over trivial details, she will be upset by a single word from you, and she will make some childish gestures to assert her presence.

Only love can turn a smart and mature woman into a silly and love-struck fool.

Most women possess the extraordinary ability to have split personalities: they are obedient and sensible in front of others, but capricious and willful in front of the person they trust the most.

If a woman acts spoiled, clingy, and does all sorts of things in front of you, it's not because she's crazy, but because she loves you.

She wants to catch your attention.

She wants to confirm your love.

That's all.

Women in love often ask "stupid questions" from time to time:

"Do you think I'm fat?"

Translated, it means: "Do you love me? Even if I become as fat as a wall, do you still love me?"

"Do you think my best friend is pretty?"

Translated, it means: "Do you love me? Even if Fan Bingbing is standing next to me, do you still love me?"

"Compared to your ex-girlfriend, who is better?"

Translated, it means: "Do you love me? Am I more important to you than any woman you've ever known?"

Men often find these questions annoying.

Alright, they won't bother you anymore.

Imagine your girlfriend asking the security guard, "Do you think I'm fat?"

Asking the delivery guy, "Do you think my best friend is pretty?"

Asking your neighbor, "Compared to your ex-girlfriend, who is better?"

Can you handle that scene?

So, women only ask these silly questions in front of the people they care about.

In reality, the reason why women act this way is simply because they lack a sense of security. When you feel that she becomes more and more unreasonable, it means her love for you is deepening while your love for her is diminishing.

At times like this, men might say, "But isn't it too much to ask for us to tolerate women's unreasonable behavior and demands?"

Damn it.

We tolerate your bad habits like throwing socks everywhere, playing games all day, and insisting on saving face, among other things. Can't you tolerate a little bit of a woman's antics?

We're not asking you to be rich, handsome, tall, or have extraordinary endurance. We just ask you to treat us better. Is that too much to ask?

Pay attention to her, care for her, accompany her, remember the things she casually mentions, remember every little detail about her preferences, dismiss all other women besides her, let her have a tangible sense that you love her 100%, and she will happily go buy handbags. Who the hell cares about you then?

So, cherish the privilege of being teased, questioned, and harassed by women, okay?

One day, when they no longer act this way in front of you and find another person to act that way with, you won't even have time to cry.