Understanding the Sadness of Separation

Everybody is a hurting human.

It is our purpose to grow in this world.

This falls under that instruction. Hopefully, this time, we'll find out.

We learn by suffering through the lessons.

How can suffering teach us? You may inquire.

That is what all the ancients tell us. even the Buddha. In actuality, "Life is Suffering" is the first precept of Buddhism. Fortunately, there is more writing below that that states, "There's an ending to such suffering," albeit it doesn't specify when life ends.

Perhaps we have forgotten, but we have heard it before. "Life is unfair," "Life stinks," and so on.

The point is that every stumble, setback, and painful experience teaches us something. When it occurs, we detest it and curse everyone and everything, yet our natural sense recognizes it. "That will pass as well."

These are undoubtedly difficult lessons, but anything worthwhile always justifies the hardship.

Your grandmother can answer that.

Anyone who has lived a little will tell you, just ask them.

Perhaps your parents would as well. Or perhaps not. Perhaps they are too young to understand it. Stay secure and don't inquire.

There is suffering in life. A pain's message is itself. Pain is necessary for evolution.

It hurts for us to impart knowledge and wisdom to people who are consumed by bitterness and rage. Lost amid the otherwise perplexing nature of life on Earth.

Then there is the agony of loneliness, which can be so intense at times that we would rather have it than the physical kind at any time.

We make a lot of mistakes in our desperate attempt to avoid it, some of which have severe, painful repercussions. Occasionally involving people who weren't prepared for it. the children we bring into the world who are innocent. What did they do to merit this pain? What can they learn from this?

Nevertheless, there is one. Maybe much more; we haven't noticed it yet. Ultimately, a number of the most renowned artists in history originated from fractured households or similar adversities. Some of the best writers as well.

Who is to say?

Most of the time, bohemian artists do not characterize it as "loneliness." Their preferred word is "time alone." Although it sometimes feels lonely, it's not loneliness. Sometimes people can be so tiresome.

Friendships of circumstance occur routinely on military deployments, whether or not there is a conflict.

In a few of those instances, couples would get engaged and get married a few weeks after first meeting.

Yes, some people make awful compromises because they believe they must act now or risk being alone. Studies support the rare recommendation of experts and experts for such unions.

A lot of people gamble online or in bars. Both have their own set of issues, with the exception of a fortunate few.

We live in a lonely society right now, that much is certain. Too alone to be typical. It is simultaneously an aberration and a phenomenon.

Although the precise reason why it's happening at this moment is difficult to determine, if we apply our minds to the work, we can.

The Internet wasn't around for many generations. That must be among the problems. A significant one as well. Mistrust is another. Our cynicism has grown excessively, and with good reason. Before anything else, we notice negativity. If not, our pals will undoubtedly let us know. We frequently witness it taking place. Insufficient faith, anxiety about being harmed, or a mix of the two.

Is it rational? Who is to make the decision?

Are individuals taking unnecessary precautions?

Many seek guidance from therapists in order to understand their lives better or to find solutions, but very few of them walk out of the office feeling fulfilled. The next appointment date is usually the most that they get.

We won't learn the answers to today's issues from any script. We will need to solve problems on our own and be aware of our surroundings enough to realize we are not alone in addressing them. Right now, millions of people are experiencing varying degrees of agony from the same cause.

And it will stay that way until we identify the source of our problems, as it is obviously a fruitless endeavor to divert attention from them.

And that is the most important thing we need to learn. But part of maturing and changing is acknowledging that we are not alone in this struggle.