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By Calie Judy BrooksPublished 9 months ago 3 min read
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In theory, it is more suspicious to hide the fact that you hated a victim rather than admitting it right away.

Typical people are actually less understanding of others than the ones deemed as odd, but typical people think that odd people don't understand them... Just because odd people think differently or something.

It is normal to have controversial thoughts, the one who don't talk about them are actually planing to act on them in secret. Though, people usually think that the people who say them are the most dangerous...

There are always many ways to excuse a bad behavior, but those behaviors are usually easy to fix. We actually just want to continue in our vices and feel better about our bad decisions.

Parents blaming their children for bad behavior are actually blaming themselves for raising them bad.

People have such a hard time saying "I love you", but there are so many types of love, that it shouldn't be hard to actually admit it. Though, those words are too often used as a weapon or a sheild, so now we need to use them carefully.

Thoughts are so private that we fear that someone might hear them and find it difficult to share them. It is understandable if we take into consideration intrusive and impulsive thoughts.

A lot of people blame others who doesn't write properly, but not only is there more than one language, English in itself has been created by imagination and evolution. What can be considered wrong grammar now can be perfectly fine in the future.

Prison is actually one of the safest places on earth for a child, because if someone touches them there, there would be plenty of people who wouldn't mind adding a few years on their sentence to protect the child.

Relationships are so easy and hard at the same time. As long as it hasn't been communicated, everything can and cannot be done. But communication is so hard. We need to have clear boundary, but no one knows how to set them properly. That and the fact that a lot of people fear rejection.

People who say they are something are rarely the thing they say they are. Does people lack self-awareness that much? Or are they just delusional?

People don't like to admit that they're wrong, because they think that being wrong is being dumb, but it takes more intelligence to actually admit that we're wrong.

All languages are lacking in many areas, but most people don't want to merge all of them together and gets mad when we created new words or language rules.

Many languages have a lot of words for love, but english has two and french has one. They basically want people to confuse the different kinds of love.

Most people agree that we should respect our parents, but no one actually agrees on what being a parent means.

Respect is often given to people depending on things they can't really control, like age or social status, while most people actually agree that respect should be earned.

Time is something that is clear for some, confusing for others, but there are so many tools to help yourself with time that people who find it clear actually has more difficulty to follow it.

There are so many taboos in society, but making things taboos is what's forcing people into unhealthy ways to deal with those natural things deemed as taboo.

Not having a word for something doesn't make it disappear or not exist, it just gives people a harder time communicating. Though, this lack of possibility to communicate only makes people dumber as they don't have to think about things they don't have words to describe them with.

Miscommunication are either based on a lack of communication or because both people have a different communicating style and they don't understand the other's style. Interpreters and moderators are the ones who can help in those situations. Children are often forced to be the interpreters of their parents, but they should be living their childhood not be forced to explain the point of view of each parent.

If you communicate enough, but still end up fighting for practically everything, you need someone to help the communication process, but people think that they failed if they don't do it alone. Though, the path to success can have more than one person at a time using it. They also think that their has to be a winner and a loser, but if you don't try to understand the other, you're both losers. There are way more ways to win together than alone.

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