Connection

Everyone wants this thing we're calling a connection. It's like connecting tracks so the train can ride correctly, or connecting your phone to the charger to get a full battery. A similar thing happens with people. Two people (or more, but lets just focus on two), come together and charge eachothers battery, but genuinely. Not for a motive other than making sure that person is fully charge, which in return they would make you full.

This can be romantic or not, it just depends on what you're looking for at that time.

A genuine connection with someone will have you thinking with the same brain, you'll be able to feel when something isnt right with them before even speaking to them or being around them. Most people have the gift of being an empath so they feel this with people, but a genuine connection will have you thinking of this person and then they'll call you or text you just to check on you or because you're the only one they want to speak to. When you finally connect with someone on a deeper level, everything about your interraction will be felt on some sort of an extreme level of depth. This isn't something you can even explain.

This level isn't felt with everyone and honestly it shouldn't be. This is something super special to feel with someone who is super deservant of it. It is easy to feel this and get stuck in it. You become dependant on it and when you dont get to speak to said person or be around them, you'll feel sick, then of course they'll feel it, wont be able to explain it and have to be around you or talk to you and instantly they feel better. Without any explanation, so do you, then the world rotates on its axis once more.

Connection, a deep one at that is something so beautiful and irreplaceable that people will prefer it over love or a titled relationship. Only the two people involved can break their connection, but with something so deep, why would you want to break it? how bad can it really be?

I have a great example of this. I have a bestfriend and I love her dearly. Despite current challenges in our lives, we still make sure to have time for one another. If one of us isn’t felling like “our normal selves” it’s like the other can feel it. She’ll be thinking about me without me knowing it and I may be having a not so good day and the only think I’m thinking is damn I need to speak with my A1 day 1 and I’ll call her. The first thing she will say is “I was just thinking about you and look you called.”

Now I’m not in her brain and we don’t have specific times in which we call one another so it’s not like it’s a planned thing. I’ll start by saying something and she’ll ask if I’m okay because she can sense somethings wrong before I even say anything to her.

That’s the kind of thing that’s rare. Now we’re not best friends since childhood but we were around the same people around the same time and never met until we met. Every since the birth of her children ( my godchildren) we’ve grown very close. Now this connection isn’t one sided. I’ll be thinking of her and she’ll call.

It’s like we conjure up one another. Our connection is so strong it’s like we’re calling one another before one of us actually calls. That’s the best feeling in the world to know that as much as you care about someone, that someone is caring just as much as you are.

Being so in touch with someone gives you a super power. It’s so hard to explain, hopefully I did a good job here but the fact is just like love, connections can’t be explained but something that is felt in the core of your being and when connecting with the right source, it can feel like magic.