Eve Lorgen - Alien Love Manipulation: Relationship Dramas Initiated by Extraterrestrials / Part 1

Eve Frances Lorgen, writer and hypnotherapist, has been researching unusual trauma and extraterrestrial abductions for almost 30 years. He has acquired expertise in many fields, e.g. Eastern medicine, mysticism, shamanism and martial arts, in addition to this he obtained a degree in psychology and biochemistry and worked in the biotechnology industry for several years. In 1994, he started his aid group, in which he provided therapeutic help to those who experienced various traumatic cases. He was inspired by the work of Karla Turner in that later - like Turner - he also became a close colleague of the well-known UFO researcher, Barbara Bartholic.

Abnormal traumas include traumatic events outside the normal range of human experience. These include alien abductions, near-death experiences, shamanic initiations, military abductions (MILAB), mind control, spiritual warfare, psychic attacks, cult experiences, and narcissistic abuse. Early in his career as a therapist for alien abduction victims, he discovered many of the unusual experiences often found in the accounts of alien abduction and MILAB victims. One of the most outstanding aspects of his therapeutic work - in addition to the assistance provided to MILAB victims, who mainly participate in the dark projects of the military - are the experiences that can be characterized as some kind of arranged relationship cases, or as he calls it, "alien love bite". Alien love manipulation is an often misunderstood and often taboo aspect of extraterrestrial abduction experiences: the manipulation of human relationships and the lives of abductees arranged and directed by extraterrestrials. However, as more and more people came forward and shared their experiences of their unusual "seemingly arranged relationships," Lorgen discovered that this was not just about the alien abduction population, but a much broader phenomenon. In the following article, we will try to briefly present the main details and characteristics of the phenomenon - in the form of a summary written by Eve and a translation of an interview with her.

SUMMARY

Alien abductions go far beyond the physical medical examinations mentioned in the UFO abduction literature and the supposed "alien/human" genetic hybridization breeding programs. Human relationship dramas directed by extraterrestrials in many abduction cases suggest an alternative factor to the interaction of extraterrestrials with humans in understanding their motives. These relationship dramas include extraterrestrial-instigated, "orchestrated" relationship manipulations, emotional and sexual connections between two purposefully abducted partners, which cases often result in dramatic, almost obsessive, obsessive love in one or both partners. As an illustration, I will present a number of case studies on the characteristic features, symptoms and patterns of relationship attachments and manipulations arranged by strangers. I will also present an alternative explanation and some factors regarding the motivations for alien-induced drama.

INTRODUCTION

Extraterrestrial abduction researchers struggle to maintain their credibility in the ufology community and in the scientific world. Its paradoxical nature and lack of "concrete physical evidence of extraterrestrials" encourages UFO abduction researchers to direct their efforts towards empirical methodologies, essentially encouraging them to take a hard-line practical approach. From my 15 years of experience researching extraterrestrial abductions and from the perspective of my female intuition, I would argue that most ufologists and abduction researchers are so adamant about a basic practical approach that they mostly ignore the drama unfolding in the lives of abductees. Even well-known researchers on the subject, such as Bud Hopkins, have stated that many events in abductions appear to be pre-arranged or orchestrated events in the abductee's life. Some of these events take place in the setting of the classic abduction scene or in the interpersonal life of the abductee. In particular, I am referring to the alien-induced human-to-human relationship dramas, relationship manipulations, and love obsessions that are perpetrated on the abducted human population with the assistance of the alien presence.

DISCOVERING THE DRAMA

You can better understand all this if you put yourself in the perspective of a theater director: imagine for a moment that you are watching a puppet show for children.

Józsi Kovács meets Hajnalka Szabó and they start avoiding each other to the tunes of a mysterious love affair. Józsi Kovács is courting his beloved Hajnalka, trying to win the long-awaited kiss from her. Hajnalka Szabó almost succumbs to the magic of romantic love. Curtain down. In the next scene, Hajnalka Szabó eagerly waits for her new knight to appear before her in his shiny armor. Józsi Kovács comes in, sees Hajnalka, but instead of running over to hug her, he turns and walks off the stage, leaving Hajnalka behind with the pain of unrequited love.

However, Józsi Kovács and Hajnalka Szabó are not real puppets; but real people who have had extraterrestrial encounters throughout their lives. The puppeteers are extraterrestrial aliens who play the role of the well-known Cupid and his arrows. Perhaps the puppet show is a somewhat crude analogy for the lives of abductees who become involved in a play staged by alien guards. But I ask you to try to look at it from another point of view, which raises other questions about how alien or extraterrestrial intelligence works. Based on my experience studying abducted persons and "experiencers" and counseling them, I can confidently state that the foreign presence - or whoever acts behind this mask - has a very hard impact on the lives of these persons, sometimes even on their chosen partner or spouse.

ALIEN CONTROLLED LOVE RELATIONSHIPS IN THE LIVES OF ABDUNCES

Bud Hopkins's famous investigation of the UFO abduction on the Brooklyn Bridge ( Witnessed; The True Story of the Brooklyn Bridge UFO Abductions ) brought up this rarely discussed aspect of human-to-human relationships organized by aliens, which appears in the lives of some abductees. In his latest book (Witnessed), Mr Hopkins tells the story of Linda Cortile's abduction in 1989, when Linda was abducted by a UFO from a Manhattan apartment window. Three men witnessed this extraordinary event, one of whom, Richard, Linda had previously met during a kidnapping as a child and as a young adult. These shared encounters and dream-like scenes that took place between Linda and Richard can be described as exercises organized by strangers, aimed at connecting the two people emotionally. According to Hopkins, the bond that Linda and Richard experienced, while rare, is not unique among abductees. Hopkins observed such relationship drama in 14 out of 650 cases, which corresponds to 2% of cases.

Barbara Bartholic, a hypnotherapist who has worked with abductions for 25 years, has observed that many of these relationships manipulated by strangers result in dramatic levels of love obsession. Bartholic claims that the phenomenon of alien contact is more common than we think. Based on my own work, I would say that roughly a third of the time there is some kind of bonding experience or some kind of relational manipulation (ie shared abductions or dreams with the target) during the abduction experience. This may include classic abductions, vivid alien-controlled or "staged" dreams, or virtual reality scenes. Failure to consider these dramas results in a serious lack of understanding regarding alien intelligence and the motivations for alien interaction with humans.

Experiences experienced during this type of connection show a characteristic pattern and sequence of events that goes like this: an abductee meets another abductee in one or more abductions or very vivid dreams. The couple may interact on either a verbal or physical level to begin the process of bonding. This happens several times until a strong emotional connection is established. The nature of the experience gained during the connection seems to be personalized. Interactions may or may not be consciously recalled by either partner. Often, only one party will remember what happened, while the other has no memory of it, or can only remember it vaguely. When they meet in real life, they immediately recognize each other and the couple can fall in love. There are different variations of patterns and sequences of events, but in most cases one partner falls more in love and the feelings remain unrequited. In some cases, the degree of attachment to an extraterrestrial being or spirit guide develops to the level of love "obsession", during which the spirit guide is later revealed to be an extraterrestrial being hiding behind the guise of a "lover".

SUPERNATURAL EVENTS AND SYNCHRONICITIES

The relationship between two people connected in this way becomes so strong that they both feel a magnetic attraction towards each other, often in unlikely situations. The love affair setup includes numerous bizarre synchronicities, lifelike dreams, supernatural events, and bonding experiences during alien abductions. The arranged experiences are often so intimate and sexual that one or the other partner develops an intense chemical and love "obsession" (read: obsessive, compulsive attachment) towards the other party. Often one party is already married or in a relationship with another partner. It doesn't change things.

The emotional, passionate and even telepathic bond between the two parties differs from normal relationships (whatever we call normal anyway). Some have described it as the most electrifying love imaginable, a total spiritual immersion with a beloved companion. Then the inevitable happens. With absolutely devastating effect. The targeted partner emotionally "switches off" and the feelings of the other party swimming in love remain painfully unrequited. Disconnection has been described as "the loss of emotional and sexual interest in a once-attractive partner." The chosen partner may feel an initial attraction or even strong love for the other, but then lose interest, often immediately following an abduction or vivid dream. If one or the other abductee is able to recall dreams and memories of the abduction well, they may remember that they may have been connected in one or more experiences before. Some abductees report spontaneous clairvoyant images and visions of their desired partner that trigger emotions such as jealousy, obsessive love, longing, and severe pain from unrequited love. The process of love obsession manipulated by strangers is similar to baits thrown in as a reward to lure the obsessed person into an ever-repeating cycle of love and unrequited love. This can extend from relationship to relationship and is extremely emotionally draining.

CHARACTERISTICS, SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF DISCONNECTION

- Multiple kidnappings

In most cases, the person has had several previous encounters with extraterrestrials and/or seen UFOs. In some cases, the love manipulation partner chosen as the target does not know that he is a kidnapped person. For example, one partner is told by his alien supervisors that he was abducted for the sole purpose of entering into a romantically manipulative relationship with a certain other abductee.

- Memories of connection scenes during the abduction, vivid dreams, or virtual reality scenes

Some have described this as an "orchestrated" dream in which both partners are present in a bedroom scene where they both receive telepathic messages to make contact, either verbally or on a more physical, sexual level. Often one partner appears to be in a trance or drugged state. In other staged dreams and/or abductions, partners are placed in various situations, as if they are being tested for emotional compatibility, or are forced to think that person would be their ideal romantic partner.

- Supernatural events and synchronicities

Timed coincidences and psychic flashbacks regarding the target partner. The meeting with the partner happens in an almost supernatural way, so much so that the couple believes that their possible meeting is divinely ordained. A match made in heaven. The first meeting with a previously prepared partner can trigger a whole series of deja vu memories, or memories of previous abductions, or recall images related to dreams in connection with the attachment. Some have described this as a kind of "body memory", as if they had been in love with that person before. One or both partners have a strong feeling that they have known the other before, as if they have known each other all their lives, or there is a strong soul connection between them.

- An increase in the number of paranormal and supernatural phenomena during alien love manipulation

This may include empathic and even telepathic communications between those involved in the manipulation. Images flashed during spontaneous farsightedness and mutually experienced dreams. Other quirks may include physically "feeling" your partner's touch or energy field while fantasizing or thinking about them. A strong emotional, mental and even psychological connection to the partner at such a level that creates the conditions and desire for them to meet each other. The connection can be so strong that it has been described as a kind of "soul immersion" or literally "their souls have met".

- Obsessive longing for the other partner

This includes the need to see the other person, even if in secret, and to hear their voice on the phone, sometimes several times a day. Just hearing the voice of the target partner has a calming effect on the obsessed lover. Extreme anxiety that the obsessed person cannot hear the other person's voice or see them somehow. The obsessive partner usually has a feeling of "love at first sight" and loses all ability to think critically. Some described this as feeling compelled to suddenly make life-changing decisions, such as moving, changing jobs, getting divorced, or doing everything for the targeted person. When the obsessed person hears their partner's voice, it is like being under the influence of a "love spell". He goes to great lengths to please the other person - he would do anything, even give up his life.

- Relaxation

One or the other partner becomes emotionally disconnected and leaves the other with a feeling of unrequited love. Usually, the obsessive partner's feelings remain painfully unrequited after the other partner loses interest in them, often immediately following an abduction. This has been described as a psychological and emotional "disconnection" from the targeted person. Unfortunately, the obsessive lover still feels the strong psychic/emotional connection, but the other "disconnected" partner feels nothing, leaving the obsessive lover in mourning. Or for linked lovers, the conditions are such that it is impossible for their strong love to be fulfilled because, say, both partners are married or live very far apart.

- Emotional upheaval in the life of the partner who feels unrequited love

These powerful feelings of love and sadness can inspire a person to use their creative energies: write poetry, compose music, or express their creative inspiration in any other form of art. The opposite can also happen, the degree of emotional pain can drive the sufferer of unrequited love towards suicidal tendencies, mental and physical exhaustion or illness. Profound mystical experiences can also be felt during periods of heightened emotional processing or prayer.

- Increase in alien encounters during times of intense emotional conflict and drama

The number of encounters with strangers/extraterrestrials can also increase if the person pursues an alternative lifestyle in the field of sexuality or increases sexual activity - especially if it happens with a targeted manipulation partner. Some report increased reptilian activity when using methamphetamine or cocaine. Some abductees reported that the coupling did not take place only once, so they experienced both sides of the love manipulation; the non-reciprocal side of the obsessive/obsessed, as well as the non-reciprocal side. If the unrequited side of the sex has been experienced, a platonic friendship can develop. Some heterosexual individuals suddenly become obsessed with a homosexual partner, causing a drastic change in their lifestyle.

CASE STUDIES IN LOVE MANIPULATION

1. - THE CASE OF SOPHIA AND DAVE

Sophia is a 33-year-old married woman and mother who has been researching the reasons for her lifelong encounters with extraterrestrials. Her husband, George, did not share his wife's spiritual interest, nor did he show any interest in the UFO phenomenon. George was not kidnapped, he spent most of his time building his career and working. His emotional coldness made Sophia lonely, and she longed for a companion who understood her. During Sophia's encounters with strangers, her husband George appeared unconscious (deep sleep) or deathly unconscious. Two months before Sophia became pregnant with her daughter, she was part of an extraterrestrial encounter during which she received a telepathic message saying, "We need more offspring." When the couple's daughter turned two, she woke up screaming in terror in the middle of the night and hid in her bedroom closet "from the monsters." This sometimes happened on the same nights as when Sophia "dreamed" that aliens were intruding on them. During these periods, the little girl behaved very quickly, especially towards her father. He also became extremely phobic of bugs.

While trying to find an abduction therapist, Sophia meets an older man named Dave. Dave was also a kidnapped person and was happily married. When they met, Dave couldn't take his eyes off Sophia and felt like he knew her from before. After meeting briefly at a UFO conference, they exchanged business cards and kept in touch by phone. Sophia then began to recall "deja vu" dream memories, very intimate details of her time with Dave years before they met. She empathically connected to Dave and had many dreams about him, from which she learned real information about Dave's personal life that she could not have otherwise known about. In the meantime, pictures of Sophia began to appear to Dave with spontaneous farsightedness, which he later confirmed in detail. Sophia also had visions of Dave and intuitively knew things about him and his family, which she later confirmed.

Sophia was in love with Dave and didn't understand why she loved him so much, since Dave was quite a few years older than her, and he wasn't really her type either. The two experienced a strong spiritual and emotional connection with each other, as if they had known each other for years. Sophia had planned to see an abduction researcher and hypnotherapist, but that was thwarted after a virtual reality abduction involving people from the military. After this threatening scene, he fell ill and was unable to visit the therapist. The main reason she wanted to see the therapist was her overflowing love obsession with Dave.

Sophia called Dave often, and he initiated most of the communication. Soon she began to feel that Dave was trying to get rid of her, became indifferent to her and increasingly neglected her. Even though Dave rarely called Sophia or reciprocated his affection, Sophia excused him by saying that she must be too busy and that she actually wanted to be with him if she could. He was wrong. Dave was friendly and enjoyed Sophia's affection. But he wasn't in love with her. This didn't seem to matter to Sophia as she thought that maybe they would end up together in the future. The synchronicities they experienced, the deep love and bond they experienced had to be divinely ordained.

Two years later, and with the help of an understanding abduction therapist, Sophia's obsession with Dave finally begins to subside. All of this took a huge emotional and physical toll on Sophia, and at one point she became very ill. Part of the therapeutic process was for Sophia and her husband, George, to attend marriage counseling, which exposed and made them aware of the alien abduction and its effects, and thus escaped emotional separation from each other. Even though Sophia and George's marriage has improved and is still healthy and intact, Sophia's love obsession has left deep wounds in her soul. She loves her husband, but admits that she is no longer so attracted to him. Sophia's comfort was her faith in God and helping others.

2. - ANDREW'S CASE

Andrew is a 32-year-old single man who was kidnapped and has always had difficulty maintaining long-term relationships with women. He fell in love with a beautiful, gentle woman, Sharon. Their relationship had been going on for two months when the sleeping couple were visited by a tall, tan-colored "Grey" alien and a shorter, darker-colored alien dressed in a hooded cloak. Andrew recalled the first half of the abduction with the tawny figure, but a sense of fear and a foreboding came over him and the memory faded.

The next morning, Sharon struggled with severe confusion and became emotionally distant. Later, Andrew discovered that the cloaked alien had stabbed Sharon in the side with a pointed, spear-like object as the entity warned her to stay away from Andrew, then left her paralyzed. Even though Sharon found a red triangle-shaped mark on her body in the morning, she thought it was all just a terrible dream.

Less than two weeks later, Sharon no longer had romantic feelings for Andrew and seemed to be emotionally "switched off". She soon broke up with him, leaving Andrew with the consuming feelings of his lost love in his soul, painfully wounded.

Over the next few months, the strangers visited Andrew again. From this meeting, she recalled visual images of Sharon acting like a "slut" and having sex with her best friend, giving her the feeling that her best friend had cheated on her behind her back. This made him feel intense jealousy, anger and unrequited love towards his ex-girlfriend Sharon.

The aliens interfered again in another of Andrew's relationships. This particular friend of his, Ingrid, could not recall the memory of the stranger's visit that they had both been a part of one night. Andrew remembered the tall, tawny strangers in the room and saw Ingrid sitting up on the bed, contorted in terror, a silent scream on her face. During the meeting, Andrew tried to ask the stranger a question: "Why do you always interfere?" Seconds after his question, he felt intense pain and everything went black in front of him. After the kidnapping, Ingrid's friendly demeanor suddenly changed, from indifference to outright disgust, and the love affair ended abruptly.

Andrew's persistence in demanding an explanation from the strangers was met with a few platitudes: "He's not one of us. You're one of us. He's not needed, he's not part of it. He doesn't understand us." And of course the well-known tagline: "You're not ready to find out yet."

After both of Andrew's relationships failed, the strangers projected into Andrew's mind seductive images of a beautiful, exotic Tahitian woman and children, suggesting that she would be Andrew's future wife and children. The message he understood, according to Andrew, was "if you stick with us and do what we say, this is what we're going to give you." But that never happened. The strangers lied. Today, Andrew is dating a lovely woman who understands the alien abduction phenomenon. Their relationship is mutually beneficial for both. Andrew still distrusts strangers, but shows a positive and hopeful attitude in overcoming adversity, and even has some success in resisting abductions.

3. - THE CASE OF ANGELINA AND STEVE

Angelina, a 30-year-old wife and mother of three children, has been kidnapped several times since she was a child. His mother and siblings also reported numerous encounters with Gray aliens during their lives. In addition to meeting Angelina Gray, a tall 210 cm tall lizard-man - with a tail, claws on his hands and feet, and yellow, snake-like eyes - also visits Angelina on a recurring basis and rapes her. Very often the reptilian entity physically enters the bedroom at night through an interdimensional portal or gate and continues to have intercourse with the woman.

Angelina's recollection of the manipulation of the reptilian beings spying through the interdimensional portal opening in her bedroom

Angelina's husband, Dick, does not believe his wife about the abductions. He becomes emotionally isolated and sometimes abusive towards her, blaming Angelina for the kidnappings. Angelina's children saw tiny reptilian creatures in the house at night and on rare occasions even during the day. One of their neighbors also witnessed poltergeist activity and saw scary-looking creatures in their home.

Angelina's flashback to two "Baby Godzilla"-like aliens walking through her kitchen holding a wand-like device

When Angelina tries to tell her husband Dick about the alien abductions, he becomes upset and jealous and blames his wife, saying that he enjoys "sex" with the reptilian more than her. Angelina is sexually disconnected from her husband and claims that her husband's human "pheromones" repel her. He feels as though he has developed a heightened sense of smell that others cannot perceive. She is wracked with conflicting feelings of guilt and shame because her own body reacts unnaturally to sexual contact with the reptilian being - so much so that her husband has completely lost his sexual attraction to her.

Paradoxically, Angelina also reports frightening, violent and unpleasant sexual assaults during her abductions by the reptilian being, but also by the army men. She also recalled other procedures related to abductions, such as gynecological medical examinations, implantation surgeries, pregnancies and missing fetuses, non-pregnancy-related lactation (milk production) and various marks on her body, puncture marks, triangular marks, abrasions, etc. Among the memories of one of the abductions, Angelina recalled lying in bed with a man to whom she was strongly attracted. She found herself in bed with a handsome man in an unnamed white hotel room with white bed sheets and sheets. They were both naked and she received messages to make love to this man. They then had sex and Angelina recalled being told that she would meet this man named Steve in two months. Angelina noticed that in this "dream" Steve seemed to be in a trance-like state and was not as self-aware as she was. Two months later, Angelina meets Steve at his place of residence, in a town more than 100 miles from where Steve lives. Considering the distance between the two of them, it is unlikely that they could have met each other at all. The members of the couple immediately feel affection for the other and have the feeling that they have recognized each other. They fall in love at first sight and feel almost compelled to continue communicating with the other. Couples who suffer love manipulation often call each other and secretly make plans on how to meet each other. Steve is married to another woman, but he is going to divorce her. One weekend, the couple went to another city so that no one would recognize them.

While Steve and Angelina are away, Dick is at home and spontaneously sees images of his wife making love to another man. These vivid mental images pop out of Dick's head as if they were "implanted" into his mind. (Angelina associated these mental images with some kind of ball of light phenomenon). He sees his wife in a sexy jumpsuit in a robe with a man who she later gave Steve a perfect description of, despite the two never having met, nor did he see his wife's new jumpsuit - which he had just bought for the weekend date and purposely hid in the house so that her husband does not find her.

Dick is encouraged to be jealous and angry and to accuse Angelina of having an affair after he returns home. Angelina denies the accusations, she is afraid that Dick will hurt her, but it really shocks her that Dick describes everything about Angelina and Steve perfectly, as if he was the only one in the room with them. Dick becomes enraged to such an extent that he develops murderous intentions and becomes obsessed with taking revenge on his wife, his lover, and then killing himself. During times of chaos and conflict, paranormal activity and ball of light phenomena increase in the house.

Meanwhile, Angelina and Steve make plans to get married, but for one reason or another, they keep getting blocked from being with each other. Both are tormented because they seem to be prevented from fulfilling their love and passion for each other.

Dick's murderous intentions are tempered when they go to counseling with a friend who understands the aspects of mind control and alien abduction. They try to make things right between the two of them, but Angelina has doubts that this thing will ever work between the two of them again.

Six months later, Angelina is kidnapped again, and she recalls being told during the abduction, "Steve is no longer needed." She was also told that Steve was kidnapped just so they could have this relationship, but unlike Angelina, he "is no longer part of the rest of the practice." After that, Angelina no longer feels that obsessive longing for Steve and can easily let go of the relationship. They break up with Steve, who she leaves confused. Steve was never aware of the abductions, but only felt a strong sense of recognition when he met Angelina.

Meanwhile, Angelina continues to be kidnapped by Greys, reptilians and army men. He is subjected to many tests and appears in training scenes during very vivid dreams. He and several other abductees in my support group share certain dreams and appear together in abduction investigations and training scenes.

Angelina's flashback of two tall aliens appearing by her bed. He felt helpless and only remembers the trance state, as if it had all been a very vivid dream.

A man named Scott, who attends my support group, was prepared for such a relationship with Angelina during a meeting, after which they both recalled the sexual nature of the "dream". This creates strong sexual tension in the two of them when they meet each other, and they also experience a psychic and even telepathic connection with each other. Although they feel a strong chemistry for each other, they refrain from any sexual activity. Both have become aware of the attachment based on love manipulation and deliberately keep themselves away from intimate contact. Instead, they cultivate a platonic friendship and enjoy the close psychic connection between the two.

Many abductees recall occasions when manipulated couples are connected while being watched by extraterrestrials. In this case, the Tall Gray stranger wearing the cloak appears to be the conductor of the event

Angelina is still married to Dick. Dick became aware of the abductions, and even since then such incidents have happened to him a few times. Their marriage is plagued by many difficulties, but they decide to stay together despite the odds being stacked against them.

MARRIAGE AND FAMILY PROBLEMS OF KIDNAPPED PERSONS

On the surface, these relationship problems can easily be explained away as marriage and family problems. But when I looked more closely at the number of abductees, their lives, and their relationships, I wondered. The psychological "swamp gas" theory was no longer acceptable. There was something real, possibly sinister/evil, lurking behind the veil of extraterrestrial connections in these people's lives. This prompted me to ask the classic questions:

- What came first: the chicken or the egg?

- Are some dysfunctional relationship problems the result of the individual's search for answers to extraterrestrial abductions and their faulty processing mechanism, or were the aliens intentionally creating these family problems all along?

My experience in counseling abductees shows that one of the most characteristic patterns that appear in the lives of the affected people is the pattern of emotional isolation. Such behavior can be explained as a result of conditioning, as an adaptation learned from the abductee's family members, or as an influence enforced by alien supervisors. In fact, some have discovered that the aliens have instructed them not to talk about their encounters, suggesting that the aliens strive to maintain secrecy over long periods of time. They often insert false or implanted memories into their victims to mask their true activities and intentions.

Along with some researchers, I myself believe that the bonds and human relationships created in this way, resulting in highly charged emotional drama and love obsessions, are not encouraged as part of the extraterrestrial breeding and hybridization program, as it might seem at first sight. (although this is a factor that cannot be ignored.) There is some other reason behind this.

Hypnotherapist Barbara Bartholic, who has 25 years of experience in abduction research, has studied and defined the phenomenon of love obsession with perfect accuracy. Barbara: "First, individuals are 'set up'/prepared' for maximum emotional and sexual attachment during childhood abductions. The attachment process sets the stage for the drama of love obsession. Aliens are somehow able to harvest the energies emanating from an emotionally charged person. These emotions run the gamut of intense love, longing, passion, anger, jealousy and intuition of the loved one."

Bartholic believes we are all affected by this phenomenon, not just abductees and contacts. We learn about the phenomenon of love obsession and the life drama connected to it simply from the accounts of those who remember it. Barbara added:

"The drama of love obsession can play out on a bigger stage. It can take the form of public figures or superstars. In short, it's like a big human Nintendo game."

Bud Hopkins takes a more conservative approach and states:

"The phenomenon of attachment is not a general feature of kidnappings. It occurs relatively rarely and must be distinguished from group kidnappings, when two or more people are taken at the same time for different reasons, e.g. a husband and wife, or friends."

When asked about the general trends in how abductees deal with relationship drama, Bud said, "It depends on the circumstances. If they're already married, it makes things extremely complicated."

According to Barbara Bartholic and Bud Hopkins, attachment is not always directed toward romantic, opposite-sex sexual situations, but can include same-sex friendships and even homosexual relationships.

Another interesting aspect is the issue of emotional energy from intense dramas and crises. As ridiculous as it sounds, the aliens may be feeding off of these emotional energies. In private conversations, several people have admitted to me that they encountered strangers more often when their lives were going through a more stressful or chaotic time. As one member of my support group sarcastically noted, "strangers can pull my emotional strings, they can pull me into intense emotional highs and lows."

EMOTIONAL ISOLATION AND MAINTAINING SECRETS - DISABLED FAMILIES

Our social structure - especially in the Western world - supports the doctrine that "aliens and extraterrestrials do not exist" and that it is all science fiction or psychological delusion. The result of these rejecting and isolating conditions is that abductees turn inward or even rebel against their parents, school, religion, or society. The abducted person, whose experiences are rejected or whose authenticity is questioned, will tend to be distrustful of his own feelings, he himself will deny the matter or even act full of anger as a result. When the core issues of alien abduction (especially traumatic cases) are not addressed or resolved, it can result in a number of unhealthy processing mechanisms and impact on social relationships and family systems. When alien abductions happen across multiple generations, it can lead to dysfunctional family issues. So much so that abductees can find themselves in unhealthy, unsatisfying relationships that perpetuate a difficult cycle of emotional isolation or even abuse. These dysfunctional relationship patterns serve to maintain the secrecy of alien abductions.

Solving and healing from the problems associated with alien abductions - and the dysfunctional family systems that serve to maintain secrecy - can only be complete if we leave behind the misleading "swamp gas" theories. The question arises as to who the real culprit is.

Countless brave abductees who have come forward to tell their stories are laughed at and pointed at in the mainstream media, or even in their own community of UFO researchers. For this reason, many of the abductees prefer to remain silent. Valuable testimonies and information about alien abduction remain locked away - due to the double pillar of fear and almost mandatory ignorance. Whatever the real reasons for alien interference in our relationships - we may never know - but from what some abductees have reported, its effects are both devastating and exhilarating.

After surviving the dire consequences of a love obsession concocted by strangers, Sophia poetically remarked, "Although my experiences were unimaginably painful, I wouldn't trade them for anything. I realized that it's better to be loved and lose it than to never be loved at all." I was amazed at his statement and can only speculate as to what the extraterrestrials might be missing. Maybe life itself.

THE QUESTION OF SPIRITUAL WARFARE

It doesn't take long for anyone researching alien abductions to realize that the alien presence - or whatever it is that operates behind this image - is deceptive, manipulative and intelligent. The aliens operate in physical and non-physical reality at the same time, this is a real paradox. Their ability to create controlled, complicated dramas, attachments, and love obsessions in the lives of abductees reveals that they are adept at unseen spiritual realities. Researchers and abductees have reported that when they delved into the subject of UFOs and particularly abduction memories, they were almost besieged by numerous efforts to dissuade them from seeking hard background information on extraterrestrial abductions.

A lady in my support group named Sophia put it very eloquently: "As soon as I decided to do in-depth research into my abductions, a whole series of tests and trials came flooding back to me like I had to put on a pair of gauntlets for spiritual warfare."

If we take a closer look at how spiritual warfare works within the abduction phenomenon, we can see it manifest in the relationship dramas that result in love obsessions. Two targets are selected by their alien superiors for their ability to generate and express high levels of emotion in the context of romantic attraction. This romantic attraction more often ends in unrequited love obsession on the part of one or the other partner - or in the inability of the two of them to fulfill their feelings for the other due to other, impossible circumstances. These conditions trigger many powerful feelings, such as intense love, longing, passion, anger, jealousy, and intuition of the loved one.

In more severe cases, the abductee becomes exhausted, depressed, or ill, to the point of having suicidal thoughts or near death due to a serious illness. The dramas they set in motion in these people's lives cause much chaos and conflict, some even losing their marriages to alien interference and manipulation. On the flip side, some abductees who experience deep emotional conflict and intense love also report the release of creative energy that occurs at the height of obsession. In one case, the abductee experienced new levels of ecstatic mystical experience when he reached the deepest level of his emotional capacity. Paradoxically, on one side we see agonizing sorrow and the pain of unrequited love, and on the other, ecstatic mystical visionary union and creative inspiration. If the frequency of extraterrestrial encounters is directly proportional to high-emotional drama, chaos, and conflict, then we can assume that the alien presence is somehow benefiting from our emotional energies. In cases of love obsession created by an artificial attachment, highly charged emotional and sexual passion is present. Strangers are keenly interested in our ability to express emotions, love and other highly charged feelings.

So we have to ask some serious questions. What is the real point of abducted humans being used as tools for these alien beings? Instead of continuing our endless research in frustration and confusion, let us ask: what intentions and abilities do aliens have behind to cheaply create such carefully crafted dramas as love obsession? Based on the chronicles of contemporary alien abduction research, we can say that the aliens are carrying out some sort of multi-generational genetic human/alien hybridization program. This is what is happening on the surface, and it may very well be true. However, if we look deeper, we may suspect the worst possible conspiracy theory. And somewhere halfway between these two pivotal positions, you might catch a glimpse of the magic trick happening right before your eyes. But where is the evidence of UFOs and extraterrestrials? Everyone is asking, "Where is the conclusive evidence?" And to that I would say, "There is no conclusive evidence. Just a few bits and pieces in a hastily tossed salad bowl of confusion, confusion and upheaval."

SUMMARY

Relationship dramas staged by strangers, resulting in love obsessions, surfaced through observations of the interpersonal relationships of abductees. Although these attachment dramas did not occur for the majority of abductees, their profound effects and consequences are noteworthy. If the alien presence is capable of exerting control over people's lives - to the extent that has just been demonstrated through their love lives - then we need to re-evaluate the intentions and capabilities of the alien abductors. Perhaps it is not such a far-fetched idea to assume that aliens play the role of mythical Cupid's arrows. And much, much more than that.

Observing the drama in the lives of the abductees opened a door to a perception hitherto unrecognized by UFO research dealing with the ins and outs of scientific methods. I liken this concept to when a "blocked memory" can only be retrieved for the alert, conscious mind by finding new directions between neural pathways.

I presented case studies of human relationship dramas created by strangers, their characteristics and symptoms. These patterns are unique among abductees and are clearly distinguishable from other non-abduction-related psychological and relationship problems. It is very important to address the emotional isolation of victims within marriage and family systems and the maintenance of secrecy regarding alien abduction. The key to uncovering the motives and mysteries of alien intelligence lies in the persistence and commitment of abductees to seek the truth in their experiences. Creating a safe environment free from ridicule and the pressure of political correctness is the first step in uncovering the truth about alien abductions. The discovery of life-long extraterrestrial encounters is a Pandora's box that very few are willing or ready to open, perhaps a few brave souls who have discovered the depth of their interactions with an alien presence. For some, it comes with the realization that their entire lives have been orchestrated, manipulated and controlled by the hands of alien puppeteers - the architects of the human drama. This realization gives a whole new understanding of the search for and value of human freedom.