You can have nothing, but you can't have no gratitude.

To be human, you can have nothing, but you can't have any gratitude.

You know, gratitude is a "life attitude", kind people are always happy, and grateful people are always content. In life, only those who know how to be grateful can reap the "trust" of others and meet more "valuable people".

What is gratitude? It means to express gratitude for the help given by others, and it is the return for the help given by others.

Frankly speaking, in real life, few people understand "gratitude", and they are even particularly selfish. According to Freud, selfish people are narcissists because they use their love for others for themselves. They never think about the feelings of others, as long as they are happy!

This kind of people, thinking is often stubborn and rigid, but also very double standard (high demand for others, low on their own, a set of sophistry).

For example, there are good family conditions around, a monthly allowance for more friends. Selfish people will often let this friend pay, for the dinner, is also walking in the last, waiting for more money friends to pay, the psychological idea is: anyway, his condition is better than mine, but also richer than mine, that he paid for the bill is, of course, "should".

The most brainless logic of people who do not know how to be grateful is that others who are good to him are deserving.

Not only in the relationship between friends is this, in the relationship between husband and wife is also this, married women home, every day to make women do housework, women do not do, began to say fall women are not virtuous enough, take their women and other people, women, to do a comparison, if women are doing, also think that women do these are supposed to.

To determine whether a person has a grateful heart, to observe from a family of origin

The famous family therapist Virginia Satya once said, "A person and his family of origin has a thousand ties, and this connection has the potential to affect his life."

If you have a friend around you who knows how to be grateful, then I can tell you responsibly that this person's character is definitely not too bad, and at the same time, his parents also treat people friendly and generous, and both are grateful people like him.

Because "parents are the first teachers of their children", what kind of parents will educate what kind of children, only parents who know how to be grateful, will educate children who know how to be grateful, this, from childhood to childhood, by parents education.

The parents who know how to be grateful will also tell their children from childhood, others help you to say "thank you", a drop of kindness should spring back, never take advantage of others, to society, in their ability to help those in need of help.

For people who know how to be grateful, the road is getting wider

Many people subconsciously think: as long as there are enough friends, their future road is wide enough. This is not the case, "Zengguang Xianwen" in a sentence to tell us intuitively: "poor living in the city no one asked, rich in the mountains have distant relatives".

You have many friends, but you are not very capable, and the effect and benefit to your friends are very small, even you will only reach out to your friends for assistance, but your friends ask you for help, but you can not help.

So, even if you know more friends, there is no value.

Other people will not help you for no reason, just like the sky does not fall free pie, there are coming and going, know how to be grateful, to make their way wider and wider, always remember those in your most difficult time, pull you a precious person, never be ungrateful.

Ungrateful people will only make their road, narrower, and, friends are also divided into three or six or nine, there are sincere friends, friends with alcohol, friends with careers, etc., these friends, who is true and who is false, in your most difficult time, a glance will be able to see.

How can I become a grateful person?

1. To become a grateful person, you must first understand the meaning of gratitude, which has been explained at the beginning, and after that, you must realize the importance of gratitude to you and whether you will insist on being a grateful person in the future. If you think that gratitude is not that important, and hold the mentality of "if I am good to others, they may not be good to me", and think about the return of others every day, it is very difficult to become a grateful person.

2. just having the idea of gratitude can not, you have to learn to pay the actual action, you can record yourself every day to do what thanksgiving, take a piece of paper, on the paper to think about who has helped you before? Do you want to make a phone call to say hello? Ask him what you can help, especially if you have borrowed money from others, be sure to give others a clear indication of when you intend to return, do not borrow, and then start playing disappear.

3. The environment can change a person, people can also change the environment, grateful people are not just for people, things are the same, when not busy, in addition to the home space tidy, but also to those who help you absorb harmful substances every day, purify the air under the care of flowers and plants, although they do not speak, you should also be grateful for their silent efforts to bring health to your room.

Remember, a thankful person is full of abundance and love in his heart.