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The most unusual role in the world

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By JadenPublished 2 years ago 6 min read
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The most unusual role in the world
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People who become great, not necessarily a lot of money, but a strong heart, live with hope, with the potential to make a lot of money, life has been going high.

Money is one of the criteria for measuring a person's success, and having the ability to make money is a "stepping stone" to success. Smart people, money will not be too fast, but step by step, when poor, have a backbone, when rich, very low profile.

To be a human being, when things get tough, the heart should be ruthless, to do things steadily. People who become great, are often "ruthless role".

1. Ruthlessness to do the self-discipline, will become richer and richer.

My classmate Li Zhivago, since graduating from junior high school, never contacted him. Last month's class reunion, he attended. I almost did not recognize him, not his appearance has changed, but his "temperament" has changed, people become very spiritual and talked very civilized. In the past, at school, he was not like this, always had a lazy look, and talk is also very vulgar.

I asked him, "Where have you been getting rich lately?" Li Zhivago said, "Not rich, just read a few hundred books in recent years." I said, "You are an adult, why do you still read?" He said, "Before, I thought like you, but then I changed my mind, I want to become a rich person by the power of books." I asked, "So how much money have you made?" Lee smiled and didn't say anything.

Later, I tossed around and learned that Li Zhivago is now the owner of a vocational training base, specializing in training talents for some vocational universities. A junior high school student, by self-education to get a bachelor's degree, and a handful of vocational certificates. I can imagine how dull and tedious it is for him to read alone at night by picking a lamp.

A person, who can read a lot of books, is wealthy, but with such wealth, by "self-discipline", no one forced you to read, you can only force yourself, and ten years a day to persevere.

The real self-discipline of people, not a day or two to do a big thing, but every day to repeat some early to bed and early to rise, read more, eat on time, adhere to exercise and other "inconspicuous" things, day by day, the effect will slowly appear.

2. Ruthlessly force themselves to know how much potential a person has.

This life, in the end, what can be done, what kind of business can be achieved? No one can say clearly. A person's ability is great.

It has been said, "The most intelligent person will not use more than ten percent of his brain in his lifetime at most." In other words, there is still ninety percent of your potential that has not been stimulated. If you are not willing to force yourself to think, not to do something, you will always be underestimating your ability.

A lot of people, do not even start doing something, and say, "I can't do it, I'm afraid I can't, I think it's better to forget it." Yes, you have not started, you backed off, then there is a need to start?

Become a great person, not his IQ is higher than yours, but he is more than you "hard". No matter how difficult things are, the first thing he thought of is "quiet thinking", and then to do the "survival of the world". A person in a low point is the best time to play potential, if you also realize this, you can also be better than others with a big cut.

3. Ruthlessly let yourself not speak, to know that "silence is golden".

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A person, spend a year learning to talk, but "silence" but spends a lifetime. When you show off what, you will lose what, the more you like to boast, the more will become the laughing stock of others.

These days, no one is stupid, the results are not blown out, it is done; good love, do not need to sun to others, is their own slowly to feel; make money do not make a big show, need to "stifle a big fortune". You like to brag about yourself, others will not poke you in the face, but will defy you.

People who have become great, when they want to speak up, will try to hold back, and then be a good "spectator". It is wise to see something clearly, but not to speak through it and not to express your opinion casually. Control their mouths, so as not to give away their future, so as not to offend people, and not to get involved in right and wrong.

Silence is nothing to say, but in "hibernation", until a certain time, will have explosive power, and will surpass others. Force yourself not to speak, not to let yourself not speak for life, but when you have the ability, you can "one word nine", not much to say, but very weighty.

4. Ruthlessly accept the "dumb loss", only to learn not to care, the more live calmer.

"People are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden", more and more people, not willing to suffer, even a little bit of sesame seeds, after suffering a loss, will immediately refute others, and will also count on others.

Some people, never estimate their strength, is the other side is stronger than their own, or to "fight", although very sad, the end is very tragic. Smart people, know how to "preserve the strength", when they are weak, with their tails between their legs.

Forced to accept their own "dumb loss", and tolerate it, again and again, no matter what time, as long as their strength is not strong enough to bow down. By the most loved people hurt, but also know how to let go, rather than entangled; by the villain calculations, just remember, slowly away from the line, not and villainous enemy; by the "crotch humiliation", will not immediately on the retaliation, but forced themselves to forget.

People who become great, are the "endurance" very strong people, forbearance, silently through their weakest time, only then have the opportunity to slowly become strong. You can not endure anything, then you are in the "wrongful revenge when the time is over" angry environment, living a very tired.

5. Ruthlessly leave the "useless circle", to grow without support.

When eating and drinking, really happy, we bragged together, together chatting about the marginal words. When toasting, you can show your "volume" and show off a bit.

Because you have joined a lot of "circles", you have to spend a lot of time coping. Of course, you join the original purpose of the circle, which is to find the power to rely on. "You always like to eat and drink with people, the circle of life, as their network, thinking that in the future, there are things, you can rely on them.

The people who become great, have seen through the "people", and get rid of the useless social circle. In life, to learn to do subtraction, the first is to subtract the useless social, free up time to do what they need to do, even if there is nothing to do, then enjoy the time alone.

The truly strong are often unsupported. When you are strong and valuable, others are willing to help you, and only then will you be friends. The best friend is to help each other, you must at least have the ability to help others. If you wait for others to help, you will be very disappointed.

If you live too comfortably, you're out; you're tough on yourself a few times, you're out.

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Jaden

If I had a single flower for every time i think about you, i could walk forever in my garden.

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