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Why Growing Up Feels Like Losing Pieces of Yourself
Growing up isn’t a sudden event but rather a slow, gentle process that sneaks up on you. It’s not marked by fireworks or big celebrations; instead, it unfolds in quiet moments and ordinary days. Sometimes, it’s as simple as realizing that your favorite childhood toy no longer holds the same magic it once did. The excitement fades, and you find yourself moving on without even noticing it happening.
By Shariful Haque about a year ago in Humans
"10 Things I like about you, I mean-me?"
This is for the Self-Appreciation Challenge below 1: I refuse to be like my mother. My Mother is a prodigy of her past, but aren’t we all? The only difference is I get help. Everything is wrong with the world. Justifying everything she does even if it meant dropping crumbs on the floor, she'd blame it on the rug. Breeding her disease into all of her children. I see traits of my mother in me all the time. In my thoughts. How I perceive the world. It’s called catastrophic thinking. I’ve battled anxiety because of my mother’s disease. But I do not live in denial of it.
By Natasha Collazoabout a year ago in Humans
Beneath the Façade: Emotional Deception and the Illusion of Love in University Corridors
Introduction – A Beautiful Lie In the blossoming years of university life, where minds are expanding and dreams are taking shape, a parallel story is often unfolding quietly, tragically. It is the story of emotional deception—where the illusion of love is sold not as a promise of companionship, but as a weapon to exploit innocence. With sharpened acting skills and calculated emotions, many young men lure their female peers into relationships that begin with charm and end in desolation. Behind every rose lies a thorn, and in the corridors of many universities, these thorns pierce deeper than most wounds. --- The Campus Stage – Where Performance Begins A university campus is a microcosm of society. It is a place of ambition, exploration, and emotional vulnerability. For many young women, it is their first step into a coeducational world, one where interactions with the opposite gender are frequent and, at times, intimate. Amid this environment, the "performers" arrive—young men who see romance not as a journey but as a conquest. These are not lovers; they are illusionists. Some are easy to spot—boisterous, flirtatious, attention-seeking. But others are masters of manipulation. They blend sincerity with subtle desperation, often masquerading as emotionally intense individuals who, at first glance, seem painfully genuine. They do not chase; they ache. They do not flirt; they confess. And this façade, for many unsuspecting girls, is disarming. --- The Emotional Extremists – Masters of Manipulation Unlike the obvious flirt, the emotional extremist presents himself as a "victim of love." He makes it clear that if she refuses, he might shatter. He creates emotional emergencies—threats of self-harm, existential musings, dramatic withdrawals. His every word carries the weight of a romantic martyr. For a compassionate girl, this act can seem heartbreakingly real. For freshmen and sophomores, still learning to navigate emotional complexities, such theatrics can be overwhelming. These manipulators use fear as bait: "If you don’t accept me, I might do something terrible." The girl, alarmed and guilt-ridden, often concedes—not out of love, but out of a false sense of responsibility. It’s a psychological game, one where boundaries are blurred and pressure is masked as affection. The manipulator doesn’t seek love; he seeks power—emotional power. --- The Temporary Paradise – A Sweet but Short-Lived Illusion Once she is emotionally entangled, a brief honeymoon phase begins. It is a time of secret meetings, digital messages filled with poetic promises, and dreams that feel almost cinematic. The girl, now convinced that she has found someone different—someone "not like the others"—begins to build her world around him. She believes she is the exception. She has heard stories of betrayal, seen tears on other girls’ faces, but she reassures herself: "My story is different." Her heart, still innocent, cannot fathom deceit beneath such dedication. But the manipulator’s interest was never in building; it was always in consuming. --- The Exit Strategy – Mission Accomplished Once he has achieved his emotional or physical goals—once the novelty fades—the manipulator begins his withdrawal. Texts become infrequent. Compliments turn into criticisms. He becomes "busy," "distant," "confused." Then, like smoke in the wind, he vanishes. And the girl, left with nothing but memories and betrayal, finds herself in a personal hell. Her grades suffer. Her friendships shrink. Her relationship with her family deteriorates. The girl who once came to university with dreams now stares at the ceiling wondering where it all went wrong. For many, the betrayal isn’t just emotional—it is existential. Her entire perception of trust, love, and self-worth collapses. --- The Second Coming – When Deceivers Return Some of these manipulators, after a break, return like seasoned actors revisiting a role. They re-enter with new excuses, fabricated regrets, and honeyed words. "I was scared of commitment," "I didn’t know what I had until I lost you," "You’re the only one I ever loved." Many girls, still nursing the wound and longing for closure, fall again. They mistake familiarity for redemption. But the second round often hurts more than the first. And those who refuse to take them back are labeled heartless, cold, or “changed.” But in truth, they are not cold—they are healing. --- The Social Media Effect – A Silent Cry for Help Heartbreaks that once stayed locked in journals now spill across social media. Facebook timelines become elegies of betrayal. WhatsApp statuses hint at depression. Instagram posts become mosaics of pain, masked in poetic captions. For many young women, social media becomes both a coping mechanism and a battlefield. They seek solace in passive posts, hoping the betrayer will notice. Others use it as a subtle warning to peers. But no post, however poetic, can replace real healing. And often, the manipulator watches from a distance—silent, satisfied, untouched. --- The Psychological Toll – A Wound That Scars the Soul The long-term effects of emotional manipulation run deep. It is not just about a broken heart—it is about a shattered identity. The girl begins to question her own worth: Was I not good enough? Was I foolish? Was it all my fault? This self-doubt seeps into every area of life. Relationships with others become strained. Some girls develop trust issues so severe that even genuine gestures seem suspicious. Their emotional compass, once steady, now spins in uncertainty. The trauma doesn’t end with graduation. It walks with them into their careers, their marriages, their motherhood. They may smile in photographs, but a corner of their heart remembers the boy who turned love into a lie. --- Redefining Self-Worth – From Victimhood to Empowerment But the story need not end in tragedy. With awareness, support, and self-respect, a girl can rise from manipulation with wisdom. She can learn to distinguish between love and lust, between sincerity and performance. The key is in redefining self-worth—not as something granted by others, but as something owned within. A girl who knows her value is not easily fooled by theatrics. She listens, but questions. She feels, but analyzes. She loves, but wisely. Universities must also play a role. There must be workshops, awareness campaigns, and mental health support to help young women navigate these emotional terrains. Silence enables abuse; conversation begins healing. --- A Message to Young Women – Choose Dignity Over Deception Dear sisters in the corridors of knowledge and growth: You are not weak for wanting love. You are not foolish for trusting. But know this—true love never manipulates, never pressures, never threatens. It builds, it heals, it elevates. Do not mistake emotional drama for emotional depth. Do not trade your peace for temporary validation. The boy who says he will die without you will likely forget you within months. But you—if you fall—may lose years of yourself. Guard your heart, not with walls of coldness, but with the wisdom of discernment. The right man will never rush you, guilt you, or confuse you. He will wait. He will earn your trust. He will never make you cry yourself to sleep. --- Conclusion – Honor Is a Choice In a world where manipulation is masked as romance, choosing dignity is an act of rebellion. Let every girl walking into a university remember this: Your beauty is not in how many chase you, but in how deeply you value yourself. Out of every hundred boys, perhaps two may truly want to build a future. The rest—sadly—are merely passing time. It is your responsibility to decide whether you wish to be remembered as a moment or respected as a destiny. May every sister, daughter, and friend be protected from wolves in disguise. May Allah preserve their honor, protect them from harmful company, and bless them with righteous, respectful companions. Ameen. Writer : Umair Ali Shah Yousafzai —
By Umair Ali Shah about a year ago in Humans
10 Things I Love About Me (and No, This Isn't a Rom-Com). Top Story - May 2025.
There are people who blush at the idea of loving themselves out loud. Not me. Not anymore. After years of shrinking, apologizing, and making myself small enough to fit inside the fragile egos of others, I’ve learned that self-love isn’t arrogance — it’s survival. So here’s my list of ten things I absolutely adore about myself. Prepare for some sass and a lot of heart.
By Ellie Hoovsabout a year ago in Humans
Who is Your Husband? Part 2
Tamang and Abutani got married with great fanfare in the entire village. The entire valley was resounding with the sounds of music, songs, dance and fragrant flowers. The sky seemed even bluer today after seeing the smiles of both of them. But the happiness of the two does not last forever.
By Nikita Angelabout a year ago in Humans
What Does My Birth Chart Say About My Financial Future from 2025 to 2028
In a world where financial security feels both essential and elusive, the idea of turning to one’s birth chart for clarity isn’t far-fetched. Astrology, often seen as a guiding light through life’s uncertainties, offers a unique perspective on personal finance, timing, and the rhythm of opportunity and challenge. From 2025 to 2028, many people are wondering what their astrological chart might reveal about their financial journey during this dynamic three-year period. Could there be significant breakthroughs? Are there warning signs of instability? The answers often lie in a deeper understanding of one’s planetary alignments, houses, and transits during these pivotal years.
By Nora Arianaabout a year ago in Humans
When Friendship Breaks
In a quiet town where the sun rose gently over green fields, two best friends lived side by side Aarav and Rehan. They were more than friends; they were like brothers. From childhood to teenage years, they shared everything toys, secrets, dreams, and even fears. Their bond was strong, unshakable, and pure.
By Muhammad Hayatabout a year ago in Humans
International Labour Day
Introduction Every year on May 1st, millions of people around the world observe International Labour Day — also known as May Day — to honor the achievements, struggles, and solidarity of workers. What began as a peaceful demand for fair working hours has grown into a global celebration of labour rights and a reminder of the ongoing fight for dignity, safety, and justice in the workplace.
By Fahad Iqbalabout a year ago in Humans
Top 5 Combine Harvesters You Should Consider in 2025
A combine harvester is one of the most essential machines in modern agriculture, designed to efficiently harvest crops like wheat, rice, corn, and soybeans. With advancements in technology, farmers now have access to track combine harvesters and high-performance machines that offer better efficiency, fuel savings, and durability.
By mahindra machineryabout a year ago in Humans
Healing Together: The Combined Power of Ketamine Therapy and Relationship Counselling
Mental health doesn't exist in a vacuum. When one partner struggles with conditions like depression, PTSD, or anxiety, the ripple effects often reach the core of their relationship. Emotional withdrawal, constant worry, or difficulty communicating can slowly erode even the strongest bonds.
By YULI FRADKINabout a year ago in Humans
