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Jealousy Can Be Destructive In An Intimate Relationship If Not Controlled
Jealousy is a natural emotion that stems from wanting to protect someone you care about. However, jealousy can also be destructive if it’s not controlled and managed properly. The best way to avoid jealousy in an intimate relationship is to talk about your feelings and concerns openly with your partner. Being able to discuss your feelings will help you recognize when something isn’t right and take steps to address the issue before it becomes a problem.
By Louis Morris-Relationship/Life Coach2 years ago in Humans
Some kind of life challenge?
You ever think about the time you didn’t say something but wanted to or needed to? Sometimes I wonder if I will ever look back and completely regret not saying something, where it was to change something serious or to grow closer to someone. That’s actually why I am writing today, I want to bring you on my journey of talking to someone that I truly desire to know. I am taking this opportunity to try and be better than before, to grow as a person who is truly confident in every aspect of my life, both personal and professional.
By Corin Edwards2 years ago in Humans
Waves of Love
To my shock and amazement I got this absolutely dream job as a hotel manager on an remote Island. When I saw it advertised in the newspaper It was the just the kind of job I was wanted. My family owned several hotel so I had worked in several but this one was in a remote area which supplied me the quiet atmosphere I was looking for in my life. After a video interview I got a letter in the mail letting me know I had got the job. I was very pleased and began packing leaving happily my small apartment in the big city of New York.
By Sherry jackson2 years ago in Humans
Why Women Find Smiling Men Less Attractive
Too often, women are told to smile more. “You look pretty when you smile,” “You have a beautiful smile, you should smile more,” “Your smile makes me happy, always smile,” are a few but familiar compliments women get all the time.
By Jessey Anthony2 years ago in Humans
Why do guys just disappear after chatting?
1. The feedback is not positive and the relationship is too cold. I think there are probably not too many people who enjoy the feeling of wishful thinking, so when the other party contacts you with a pursuit mentality, he will want to respond accordingly. Feedback, even a little bit will increase his motivation to move forward. I have encountered many similar situations. Girls always feel that they should not show their affection for boys too early and should be reserved. I actually agree with this, but it must be applied properly. Be reserved when you should be reserved, and make progress when you need to improve. Therefore, it is appropriate to give each other a little sweetness. When "the program does not respond", most people will choose to "end the process", because waiting is an erratic thing, let alone waiting without a response. Of course, if you are not interested in boys, you can indeed persuade them to quit with a cold attitude. If you want to spark some sparks with the other party, you should give the other party a little response, so that the other party feels that he is not wishful thinking. 2. The topic is overdrawn and the development is too fast. This situation is the opposite of the first one. The progress is too fast, which leads to the topic overdraft. In love, the good side needs to be shown slowly and little by little. The ambiguous period before the relationship is confirmed is very beautiful, and that kind of looming enthusiasm is hard to come back when we officially enter the relationship, so we should What time do you do. Even if the other party is a little shy, or is still thinking about it, it will put a lot of pressure on the other party, resulting in this situation of being unable to cope and leaving without saying goodbye. There are indeed many boys who subconsciously do not cherish the other party because it is too easy to get, so from the above two points, we can see that love cannot be too extreme, and it is necessary to control the size and time. The right way to love. 3. Disagreement of three views revealed in speech Many times chatting will reveal a person's three views, especially when discussing some hot social news, the most direct way to see whether two people have the same thoughts. If the other party shows signs of sudden disappearance or sudden indifference, you can recall whether you have had differences in three views. However, in this case, I don’t think it is necessary to regret. In love, there is no need for us to distort our views to cater to each other. The right person is the one who has the same thoughts and views on things. Fourth, there is a new object, or a boy who has established a relationship with the other party is a boy who casts a wide net, and chats with several girls at the same time. Once one is caught, the others can be cut off. When I just graduated, there was a good buddy, a blind date introduced by my family, a friend introduced by my brother, and we chatted with a few girls, and finally chose one, and the others were put on hold, so if the boys suddenly disappeared It may also be that you have already established a relationship with someone else first. How can a girl identify this situation? First, see if the other party will disappear suddenly and often during the chat with you, will it never give you a long time, always some very fragmented time, Would it be a little perfunctory to chat with you, etc. After analyzing so many reasons, what I want to say most is that no matter what the reason is for the boy to suddenly disappear, it is very rude, so if the boy disappears without saying anything, he will never appear again, girls Don't be sorry either. Bury him decently in your heart, find a boy who will always be a gentleman and who will always know how to care about your feelings!
By Jacqueline M Cohen2 years ago in Humans
What I’ve Learned From my Relationship
This piece is dedicated to my beloved boyfriend, Theodore “Theo” Kimberling. Theo has undoubtedly taught me what love truly is, what it looks like, what it feels like, and what it means to be in love. Prior to initiating my relationship with Theo, which began on May 14, 2021, I was in an extremely toxic and unhealthy relationship with different guy— a guy who manipulated, gaslit, and cheated on me, and who certainly had a palpable superiority complex. I dated my only ex-boyfriend from October of 2020 until March of 2021. The emotional distress from the catastrophes of both the tumultuous relationship and the disorderly breakup caused by clear infidelity, undeniably caused me feelings of hopelessness, worthlessness, anxiety, fear of never finding someone better, stress, deep depression, and a wide spectrum of other excruciating emotions. I felt like I deserved to be treated poorly— I had already been struggling with my self-esteem for almost the entirety of my life up until I dated my ex, and that immature slimeball truly enabled many of the doubts and worries that I had about myself, and reduced any confidence that I had in myself.
By zoe frenchman2 years ago in Humans
Winding Down
Winding Down I got home from Jackie’s house, pulled into the driveway, and got out of the car. As I walked into the house my mom, dad, and sister were all waiting up. It startled me a little bit seeing them as I didn’t expect everyone to be awake when I walked through the door. My dad was first to act as he said, “how’s the car”. I said, “It’s fine dad. Although I thought it was faster as I floored it down Main Street.” The look on his face was priceless as he said “What!!!!!” I told him I was joking that I didn’t go over the speed limit and I was driving like him, like an old grandpa. I laughed as I said that and he broke out a smile, barely. I am not sure if liked the humor in what I said. My mom then asked how everything went and I said it was great. We had a great time. She asked if we danced and I let her know that I did in fact dance and that nothing happened in the night that was bad. My sister just stared at me with a cheesy smile. She didn’t say anything, however, I felt that she wanted to ask me something. I told everyone that I wanted to go to bed so I gave back the car keys to my dad, thanked him for letting me drive his car, apologized for making those jokes, and headed to my room. As I passed by my dad, patted me on the shoulder and both my mom and dad told me that they loved me.
By Patrick Bramer2 years ago in Humans
5 Romantic At-Home Dinner Date Ideas
Every couple needs alone time in an intimate and comfortable setting. Having a date night on a regular basis keeps the spark alive between you and allows you both time to enjoy one another without kids or life interrupting. These are the times when you reconnect with the person you love the most. The thing is, you don't have to go anywhere to find that perfect intimate experience. You can find it right in your own home by enjoying a unique and romantic dinner for two. Keep reading to discover five dinner date ideas that you two love birds can have without leaving home.
By Sierra Powell2 years ago in Humans