Proposal Planner

The first step into a minefield

Girls are brave enough to be themselves

In October 2008, 23, has been sent to Singapore training Pan Yunwen, near the end of the training, a young faculty member to play such a personal video: always love shopping boyfriend suddenly invited the girl to go to the mall, push open the door until they returned home, the girl was shocked, and their house has become the world of roses. Before she knew it, her boyfriend had already knelt on one knee, holding the ring and affectionately confessing, with the warm candlelight shining on his sincere face. Before he asked, "Will you marry me?" she was already in tears, and the answer was "Yes."

The young teacher proudly told everyone, "You know, this man's marriage proposal was all planned by me, and I deserve half the credit for his success. Of course, he also paid me a good fee." Listening TO THE TEACHER'S WORDS, PAN YUNWEN FELT VERY SURPRISED. How COULD MARRIAGE proposal become A PROFESSION?

Later, Pan Yunwen learned that he was a little surprised, in Singapore, proposal planner is a new fashion profession, and there is a large market, some wedding companies into the business scope of "proposal planning", a market emerged a large number of outstanding proposal planners, the young teacher is one of them.

After GRADUATING FROM THE ETIQUETTE MAJOR OF UNIVERSITY, PAN YUNWEN HAS BEEN HOPING TO HAVE A SUITABLE JOB, AND THE EXPERIENCE OF THE TEACHER, LET her see NO SMALL hope.

Back in China, Pan conducted detailed market research. She found that many young people these days put a premium on the proposal. She used the website to survey more than 1,000 couples. The RESULTS SHOWED THAT 90 PERCENT OF THE RESPONDENTS WANTED TO MAKE A PROPOSAL MEMORABLE. After the survey, Pan felt confident about planning the proposal.

At the end OF the year, a male colleague learned that Pan was working on a proposal plan and approached her. It turned out that he had a girlfriend who had been getting along with him for three years. Because they were both timid, neither of them proposed to get married first. Seeing that both of them were about to "run toward 30", the male colleague was very anxious. Informed of his idea, Pan Yunwen was eager to try it, she quickly developed a detailed proposal for the other side.

One evening two weeks later, the male colleague invited his girlfriend to dinner. After dinner, with the street lights on, he suggested a walk. So, two people came to the side of Xinghai square. Two people walking side chat, inadvertently, see the square someone to propose, so the male colleague pulled his girlfriend close to watch the fun. I saw the center of the field, a boy is kneeling to the girl in front of flowers.

Seeing this scene, the girlfriend's eyes are full of endless envy. At this time, a wonderful scene happened: the hero and heroine of the proposal and the audience around the two suddenly round up, dancing together happy and lovely; At this time, in the square under the darkness of the big screen, appeared a male colleague and girlfriend's photo, playing two people's sweet past. The girlfriend stayed in place, and she suddenly realized that the real heroine is her own!

At this time, the gay thing magic, took out the diamond ring from behind, kneeling on the ground to propose to her! Naturally, she was very excited to accept the rose and hugged him tightly...

This "small test knife", actually achieved success, Pan Yunwen has been a great encouragement, she become a "proposal planner" desire is also more intense. However, Pan Yunwen also knows that this new career is not easy, a carefully planned marriage proposal, needs to use a lot of manpower and material resources, and the cost is very expensive. That Pan Yunwen wants to resign, specializing in this domestic industry has never appeared, Pan Yunwen's parents are very worried about it, more afraid of Pan Yunwen's front full of "minefield".

"Many girls have a romantic fantasy about a marriage proposal, hoping that one day they will be so moved by their beloved that they will wear a diamond ring symbolizing a lifetime commitment and shed happy tears," Pan persuaded his parents. Nowadays, more and more couples are making marriage proposals as important as marriage, striving to remember them all their lives, and spending a lot of money to create amazing and touching moments for their loved ones. This career is full of opportunities for me, and I love it..." Eventually, his parents were moved by Pan's argument.

Lost courage

Carefully create each romantic

In early 2009, Pan joined an etiquette company and became a professional "proposal planner." Pan's job is to tailor the proposal to clients and plan their proposal so that they can propose in the most romantic moment and succeed. Since "proposal planning" is completely blank in China, and she is the only similar proposal planner in Qingdao city, Pan Yunwen is full of confidence in the future.

To make a better plan, Pan Yunwen tried to familiarize himself with the style of every Western restaurant in the island City and know what kind of scene each beach would suit. Pan Yunwen knew that the proposed plan is creative, every single one received a list, and she has to be how to give the heroine shock and scratch the scalp. In her opinion, every proposal is like a movie shoot, with the scenery, photography, camera, and so on all setup. If one part is missing, the result will be very different.

In the beginning, Pan Yunwen took over some immature clients because he did not consider the whole, which led to the failure of the proposal.

Once, A WHITE-COLLAR WORKER NAMED ZHANG JIAN FOUND PAN YUNWEN COMPLAINING: BECAUSE HE DID SOMETHING WRONG, THE GIRL BROKE up WITH HIM, BUT BEFORE THE TWO HAD TAKEN wedding photos, HE REALLY COULDN'T LET go of this relationship, SO he FOUND PAN YUNWEN, hoping TO organize a "LATE REMEDY" TYPE OF marriage proposal.

After some careful preparation, Yun Wen arranged the ceremony at the seaside. At that time, all the scenes were set up and the scene was very romantic and warm. Zhang Jian's friends also came to cheer him up after hearing the news. Ten minutes later, when the girl was "coaxed" to the scene, to see the former boyfriend holding flowers, she was surprised, and then showed a full of disgust. At this point, everyone urged her to walk in Zhang Jian's direction, but she turned her head, which made the situation very awkward.

Everyone is encouraging Zhang Jian, to go up and hug her! Get down on one knee! PAN YunWEN also sees that the girl's appearance is not so determined, if Zhang Jian does so, he is likely to succeed in saving the feelings of two people. But TO Pan Yunwen's disappointment, in the face of the girl's cold eyes, the boy actually flinched, in the crowd's voice of encouragement, he was scared straight back, even gave up the proposal! Afterward, Pan Yunwen felt sorry for the boy: "The last straw that broke your camel was nothing else but the lack of the last trace of courage to refuse at the critical moment."

With SUCH FAILURE EXPERIENCE, PAN YunWEN began to understand the key to the success of a marriage proposal is to see whether the two sides of the relationship are mature, no mature feelings, no matter how big the scene, creative planning is futile.

Given this ACTUAL situation, PAN Yunwen gave himself "three rules", that is, flash marriage does not do, remarriage does not do, and long-distance love does not do. Because in Pan Yunwen's opinion, such feelings often have a problem that is not easy to detect, and customers because of the hidden, often do not provide comprehensive and true information, so it will make it difficult to propose, and unsatisfactory results, not only make it difficult for customers to step down but also affect the company's reputation. In addition, she also made efforts to become a "miscellany and", systematically mastered color science, psychology, lighting and choreography, and even constellation.

In January 2011, after nearly two years of hard work, marriage proposal planning began to wind up, because Pan Yunwen's customers are some of the post-80s, they are curious about new things and easy to accept, so, have come to Pan Yunwen's company, let her plan a variety of marriage proposal ceremony, to express their feelings to love, Overwhelmed, Pan Yunwen entered a period of vigorous development in her career.

Body odor fragrance

I feel like I'm in love every day

Pan Yunwen knows that if you do marriage proposal planning on this line simply to make money, it is not a good reputation. Therefore, in every proposal planning, she put all her energy, like a movie, into the most sincere feelings.

In addition, she has designed a set of simple practical "working procedures", the whole planning will take three to five days to complete. To ensure the "effect", Pan Yunwen will visit the scene in advance, and the day of the proposal will be a few hours ahead of the rehearsal, after every detail is prepared, waiting for the heroine to appear.

Pan Yunwen's team has a lot of young girls, they know the hearts of girls, girls most want, boyfriends usually do not think of, all designed into the proposal of the 'killer mace'. Because every marriage proposal can achieve unexpected results, almost every couple who successfully proposed became good friends with Pan Yunwen and even booked a wedding, wedding anniversary, baby's full moon ceremony, and other celebrations in their place, which played a very big role in promoting Pan Yunwen's career development.

At the end of 2012, Pan Yunwen was deeply moved by a piece of business. A boy had a misunderstanding with his girlfriend and wanted to clear it up in a special way. So, Pan Yunwen helped him shoot a video of "love confession": the male protagonist confided in him movingly, a good friend helped to speak up, and the girl's parents came forward to encourage her. Later, the hero presented his girlfriend with 100 handmade heart-shaped cards. On the front of the card was a beautiful moment they got along, and on the back was an annual engagement for the next 50 years. The girl was moved to tears, forgave the boy, and said yes. After the successful proposal, the boy expressed his gratitude: "What you are engaged in is the most 'human interest' industry in the world. Through a kind of emotional work, you have brought more people's romance and happiness!" Later, Pan turned the boy's words into a motto to encourage himself and his team.

Planning experience of time and time again, let Pan Yunwen felt proposed planner the challenge of the profession, and deeply appreciate the meaning of it is different, because of its extremely influential Pan Yunwen proposal planning in Qingdao, propose creative increasingly become a trend, has become necessary to marry "prelude", her order not only to three months later, He's also getting calls from all over the country every day.

Now, with the accumulation of experience and the improvement of the client's taste, Pan Yunwen's proposal planning content has begun to upgrade, but also more and more "technical" content. From the original flowers and diamond rings, kneeling on one knee, vows of love, to cartoon clowns offering flowers, western restaurants pretending to be waitresses asking girls to draw gifts with diamond rings, to the use of all kinds of resources, lighting, sound, remote control fireworks, photography and video equipment. At present, Pan Yunwen is also in contact with yachts, helicopters, and other "heavy props", planning incredible sea, and air proposal ideas.

In an interview with me in April 2013, Pan Yunwen, an experienced proposal planner, said, "I have witnessed the perfect love of so many lovers. Now I have deeply loved this job, which creates happiness and smells the fragrance of others' feelings. I fell in love every day...