Princess Diana: "Roses" never fade, make love forever

Princess Diana (1961-1997) was born on 1 July 1961 in Norfolk, England, the younger daughter of Earl Edward Spencer. She married Charles, Prince of Wales, on 29 July 1981. She was the first wife of Charles and the biological mother of Princes William and Harry. In June 1987, Diana donated £3.5 million from the sale of 79 dresses to charity. Her character deeply touched ordinary people, especially those in distress. August 28, 1996 annulled the engagement. Died in a car accident in Paris, France in 1997.

On July 29, 1981, THE WORLD's MOST CELEBRATED WEDDING CEREMONY WAS HELD IN London, England. The bells of all London cathedrals rang out together at 9 a.m. The royal wedding motorcade was escorted by the solemn Household Cavalry Guard of Honour to the church. Along the way, millions of cheering people held flowers and chanted their blessings, everyone beaming like it was Christmas.

The wedding of the century was beamed around the world in 33 languages by the BBC, and more than 700 million viewers around the world were enthralled in a fairytale romance between the prince and princess. However, the princess, intoxicated with great joy and happiness, did not know that what she was leading to was not the ladder of happiness, but a road of blood and tears.

When Diana met Charles, she was a naive girl with cute baby fat, rustic clothes and stiff personality. Four years later, at the age of 20, she accepted the prince's proposal and entered the marriage hall with great hopes for the future.

At first she thought Wang Ziru her love to each other in love with himself, but the ensuing bickering and honeymoon will let two people, who graduated from Cambridge university Charles hobby is widespread, knowledgeable, and don't even pass the high school make-up examination Diana many times to communicate with his not on the frequency of a completely, even if she only he followed everywhere, Nor will she endear herself to the usually unruly prince.

Not to mention the fact that she was married in the first place mainly because of her appearance, gentle and gentle, she is more suitable to be a princess who meets the standards of the royal family and public expectations, rather than the core factor of a perfect marriage - love. So soon after their marriage, he rekindled his relationship with his old flame Camilla, and the two reunited.

Birds of a feather flock together, some people always like people of the same character; Others, on the other hand, are attracted to someone with a completely different soul. Charles, who had been brought up in the palace, was strictly controlled by all kinds of rules and regulations, combined with the character of wooden and withdrawn since his childhood, he was longing for the kind of bright and cheerful woman, and has the powerful power to save him out of the dark heart of the angel.

But Diana was clearly not. She was as shy, shy, sensitive and fragile as he was. So, in this the tragedy of love, not who first to who arrive after the problem, not to accidents of regret, but she is a like her waiting for the salvation of man, what's more, his love already gave the bold and forthright and sincere, strong and vigorous, on a par with her woman in many ways, even though she is old and ugly, Despite the worldwide backlash against their later publicised romance, he was still passionate about Camilla.

And Diana was chosen, only as a princess of the role called into the palace, she needs to play is the prince's Zhengda fairy appearance of the wife, rather than always covet the prince's love; What she needs to offer is her virtuous virtue, not her helpless weakness. If these are put in an ambitious woman, they are also complementary, but Diana is not, she is a love of the little woman, how many women yearn for luxury and wealth is not her aspiration, in her wish list, "love" is the most uppercase dream.

Many people are very familiar with the story of the autumn fan to see the donation: Ban Jieshu, a talented woman of the Western Han Dynasty, was favored by Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty and then neglected, so that through the group fan to self-injury-poem "abandon donate in Meihu, kindness in the way" let many later generations for one of the tears of sympathy.

But Diana did not even get the initial love, she thought she was not good enough, so all day long worried, self-pity, in order to win his heart, do everything possible to lose weight, in order to maintain a slim figure, often after eating to dig their throat, will eat all the food again spit out.

"Throughout the honeymoon," Charles wrote in his memoirs, "my ears were filled with the sickening sound of vomit." During the pregnancy, in order to let Charles care more about himself, Diana deliberately jumped down from the stairs, although the results of the examination were fine, but Charles was still indifferent to the pregnant wife's "crazy", even after the incident continued to play ball. Meanwhile his relationship with Camilla is "going strong". Without the blessing of love, all flattery and "hijacking" becomes abhorrent. Even when she bore him two little princes, he did not feel the slightest pity for her. Is the so-called, how many embarrassing things in the world, not love to heartless.

But people are compensatory psychology, we can not get from childhood, to adulthood will often have to double demand; What you can't get from someone, sometimes you have to migrate to someone who can give it to her. So Diana, who had been shunned by Charles, had affairs of her own, initially with very ordinary, unremarkable men -- lieutenants, trainers, dentists who could not have been more different. But after all, she can reach within reach, she is greedy for that little bit of warmth and care, even if the status of the difference, for her, is also to avoid her further downward addicted to the lifeline.

You may accuse her of condescending and "desperate"; but what she needs in a sea of despair is to hold fast to the only helping hand that can lift them up. That's all.

The famous American poet Emily Dickinson wrote a four-line poem:

I could have tolerated the darkness

If I had never seen the sun

But the sun has made me desolate

To be a new desolation --

Once, prince Charles for her, is the sun, is the existence of the gods in general, however, this round of the sun's radiance is not her, but she ended up in the barren, reconstruction in broken tile walls, the castle of love, she would like to use the light to be seen, being approved, that she is more willing to use his bones flow lean to be warm at weak kind those who more misery than himself.

For more than a decade, Diana actively engaged in various charity activities, not only with dying AIDS patients, but also care about all diseases patients, she also devoted to drug addicts, lepers, homeless people, sexually abused children and other vulnerable groups. Diana also made a number of trips to North Africa, visiting charity hospitals, schools and using her high profile to promote and raise money for charities that greatly improved the lives of many of the people she visited.

Her most outstanding contribution to public welfare was campaigning for the global anti-landmine movement. Before her death, she went to war-torn areas such as Angola and Bosnia and Herzegovina many times, and personally visited minefields and visited civilians injured or maimed by landmines. It is because of her influence that these disadvantaged groups who have not been paid attention to before have come into people's view. Under her strong advocacy and support, the International Anti-mine Movement flourished, and by the beginning of this century, more than 135 countries around the world had signed a mine ban treaty. She was praised as "the people's Princess" by British Prime Minister Tony Blair for her charitable work, which overturned and saved the cold image of the British royal family.

The shadow of fate was everywhere, but she chose to cover it with sunlight.

In 1992, the estranged Diana and Charles separated. In 1996, the two annulled their marriage, which had been envied by countless people and blessed by millions of people, with a grand opening and a dim end.

Some people say that there are two kinds of tragedies in our life, one is the tragedy of character, the other is the tragedy of fate. The former is defeated by oneself, the latter is sacrificed by chance.

If the young girl, who was still young and full of longing for love, had not walked into the palace by some strange accident more than 30 years ago, she would not have pinned her happiness on the Prince of Wales, who had his attention, and the script of her life might have been different. But behind the word "if" lies the strangest expectation that nothing can be undone. Fortunately, she was stubborn and no longer committed to a hollow marriage in name only, and the Princess chose to leave with the most dignity.

In the early hours of August 31, 1997, Diana and her boyfriend Dodi Fayyad were leaving their hotel in a car surrounded by paparazzi in a tunnel in the French capital. The driver, Harry Paul, and Dodi died instantly. Diana died of her injuries in hospital a few hours later.

The whole country mourned when the bad news came. When Diana died, she was buried on an island in the middle of a lake, surrounded by trees, where all media were restricted and only family members were allowed to land. On this picturesque island, Diana found the peace and refuge she had longed for all her life. In the memorial hall on the island is inscribed a quote from her life: "It is my greatest pleasure to help the most vulnerable and helpless people in this society. It is the content of my life and fate. No matter what misfortune may befall you, call to me.

In that love than dead cold "fairy tale" marriage, her harvest is only broken and despair, but she uses an angel heart to repair the incomplete of this world. "Rose" does not wither, make love eternal.