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People are too idle

Will ruin yourself

By Roca FordPublished 2 years ago 7 min read
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People are too idle
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Busy is the cure for all the world's heart disease, and too idle, will often ruin a person.

When you are young, busy with school, busy looking for a job, busy getting ahead, in the non-stop busy, gradually achieved a magnificent turn of life.

The most fear is that, since they think they have small achievements, they begin to complacent, and finally, with nothing want to do, lost the direction of life.

People are too idle, they lose the motivation to move forward.

Desire to make people diligent, too idle, let people stagnate.

When I was a child, my family was poor, in order not to let the opportunity to study mom and dad at any time withdraw, in the examination first, to do all the chores, is the most important thing I want to do every day when I open my eyes.

My mom and dad went out very early to follow the contractor to do small jobs. I had to get up with my mom at dawn to do the laundry, cook the food for the pigs, drive the ducks to the fields, and complicate the cleaning of the yard and the tidying of the house. What I looked forward to the most was finishing other things quickly so I could do laundry while memorizing the text.

At noon and in the evening, I was in charge of the house, cooking, feeding the pigs, herding the cows, driving the ducks home, and a lot of chores, and I was responsible for the most difficult ones, and I had to arrange for my two sisters to come along and give a hand. In dry weather, picking up water to drench the vegetables were often the biggest challenge. I was too short and a load of water was too heavy, so I had to go back and forth many times, sometimes until it was dark to drench the vegetable garden.

Whenever I was busy and sweaty, the pop music coming from my cousin's house made me feel even more like a man on my back.

The first thing I did was to get to know the people in the city. He doesn't like to study much, what he likes most is playing.

For example, playing table tennis, many students could only use wooden boards as paddles, but he had a brand-name paddle with stars, so he could play until late every day after class. For example, listening to songs, he had the most popular double-card recorder at that time, and the cassettes of popular singers occupied most of the desk. He also had the most popular bicycle, so he didn't have to walk home as we did.

At that time, I envied him. But I also vaguely felt that, if I stayed idle like this, how could I study?

Indeed, we have two a class, I get first in every period, he every time at the bottom of the first. Later, I went to college, but he had to follow the village people to Guangzhou to do assembly line work, once very uncomfortable.

More than twenty years have passed, and my cousin and I have had very different fates. But now I am still afraid to stay idle, and my cousin, who has suffered the hardships of life, has become a hardworking person. Although still staying in the countryside, but also become a well-known fruit growers.

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The experience of my childhood, like a brand, reminds me that people can not be too idle, once idle, will lag behind others. Idle for too long, and even disconnected from society, until they wake up and start working again, you have to pay more than others.

People are too idle, it is inevitable to cause trouble.

People often say: "nothing to make trouble". Too idle people, there is nothing to do, will try to "make something" something to do.

Our village's Xiaoping, after making a fortune in business, returned to the village, rented an abandoned warehouse, and converted it into an electronic parts processing plant, due to stable sales, Xiaoping is not as busy as other small bosses.

Every day there is nothing to do, he has a large pet dog, early every morning in his red car, buys meat and bones on the street, to his pet dog to prepare food. In the evening, take the big dog out for a walk.

The big dog is very fierce, see people barking, adults and children in the same village, are very worried about this. Even if you want to go out for a walk, you will try to avoid meeting with Xiaoping and his dog.

Once upon a time, Xiaoping is the big dog tethered in the factory, but in recent days, the factory holiday, he brought the dog home, the neighbors are afraid to approach, just from Kaolin's doorstep, are going to speed up.

But Xiaoping did not think so, in his eyes, the dog is very obedient, and even sometimes does not bolt the chain, and let it run out to play.

Xian Lin's house across the street, is full of their aunt's family. Aunt Manchu alone Woolongong grandchildren, inside and outside a person, sometimes, also let the children play alone at the door.

When the big dog, which was not chained, met the three-year-old, misfortune happened. The big dog first barked, scaring the children rushed to the house, and when the two adults heard the cries and then came, the big dog had bitten the child, the blood-soaked picture, so that the heart of Aunt Man was in pain, she cried, while cursing, carrying a wooden stick, came to chase the big dog.

Years of neighbors, thus completely fallen out. Although Xiaoping compensated for the medical expenses, the dog was disposed of, but since then, the neighbors do not see him. Seeing from a distance, they will go around and walk away.

Too idle people will think they are very impressive, others have not done things, he just wants to do a do, think so very prestigious, is very different. This kind of boring move, once beyond their control, will inevitably hurt others, and thus, will also let themselves embarrassed.

In the best state of life, people are very busy, and the heart is very idle.

Some people, the daily schedule is full of time, there is no free time, but they are calm and relaxed, happy to do this thing, and go to do another thing, giving a feeling of joy.

Some people, also do these things, but always look like a duck on the shelf, with the extremely reluctant look, the good days into torment.

The first kind of people, people are very busy, the heart is very idle; the second kind of people, people are very busy, the heart is very tired.

Different mindsets create a different state of life. The kind of people who can take time out of their busy lives, to be happy while suffering, give birth to unlimited hope for life, and work tirelessly for it, even if they have experienced a lot of failures, will also insist on going on.

The kind of people who are only busy, but can not jump out of the present dilemma, to envision the future, will enter a more busy and more tired, more tired and busier circle.

For example, in the workplace, those new employees, always more or less encountered the old staff "bullying", either to assign you a heavier workload, or "dump" you. If you just see this "malice" but do not see from it can exercise yourself, can take the opportunity to show your talents, and will fall into the embarrassment of being led by the nose. If, however, can be used as an excellent way to enhance their own ability to do things, or perhaps the same few things, but the heart is relaxed and happy.

People are very busy, and their heart is very idle because they found the direction of life. Willing to work hard for this, for this busy.

Life, no matter what age stage do not be too idle.

Because, the life you want, still in the distance, want to achieve the dream, still in the mind, only keep moving forward, will be a little closer to it.

The real leisure is after the success of the frank, is after all the sails of thin is after the life of the storm see through. The fact is, at that time, we have changed away in busy just.

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Roca Ford

At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet。

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