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Why we should embrace bitter sweet memories Instead of running away from them

By Fatima JavedPublished 11 months ago 3 min read
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Memories can be powerful way to stay connected with people we have lost contact with or who have gone too far from us. The only way to feel connected with them the is the memories they gave us. The memories are essential part of life . They help us to remember the people we have met, the places we have been, and the experiences we have. Memories can be bitter and sweet at the same time.

Bitter and sweet memories , the memories that gave sweet and hurtful feelings at the same time. bitter memories are apart of life that we all experience. They are the memories that bring negative emotions such as, anger, sadness or regret. These memories are triggered by a variety of things such as particular place, a smell or a person.

Bitter memories are difficult to deal with, but they are also an opportunity for growth and healing. By acknowledging these memories and the emotions they bring up, we can begin to process them and move forward. The bitter memories came from the person we have loved all life but end up losing them forever. This can get from the betrayal from the person, or there ignorance towards us. Getting betrayal from the people we loved and end up being in the miserable state is kind of the bitter memories we got .

Everyone in this world knows how it feels. Everyone have got this feelings some got it in there teens, some got in their 20s , 30s . But the pain is same no matter whenever you got theses feelings. The pain of betrayal is more painful to the people who got this in teens. Teenage is that time of life where we got to know more people and the world looks like a good place to live on. But the heartbreak, betrayal the person get this time , usually end up having trust issues, mental breakdown, because the world has shown its true picture to them very early when they are just living with their own way, happily. As soon as time passes, that wound get better but never healed. Its just they get to know to survive with that wound, bad and the best memories they have.

Sweet memories are the memories that gave your heart a feeling of joy, happiness. The memories are just too good that whenever you feel down or having a bad day and you look back to those times when you are enjoying every bit of your life with them , creating tons of memories together. The memories that are enough for you lifetime. The sweet feeling you get when you are away from them. Long-distancing , when u urge to see your loved one but cannot then they are memories that keep you binded with them, the strings of your heart is connected with theirs. Memories can be photographs, videos, handwritten notes, gifts or anything that you both love. They can always live in your heart and still makes you happy. No matter how far they are they are just close to you, close enough to see them with the eye of heart.

Theses bitter sweet memories , that everyone has experience in their lives in different phases usually affact the whole life of the people. Some get to move on , some stay there, some never get healed, some get forever trust issues. Moving forward is what makes the life what is it. But moving on does not mean that we have forget that memories. Memories cannot be forget , they always come and visit us whenever we see the old photographs, the old places we have visited together, the rain, the sunset, everything memorizes of the sweet moments that we spend together but end up becoming bitter memories.

BUT LIFE GOES ON

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Fatima Javed

'We are writers my love. We don't cry; we bleed on paper!'

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