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Maturity In Life.

by A B Muhammad 6 months ago in fact or fiction


Maturity In Life.
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Maturity has nothing to do with age. It’s a state of mind. So don’t be fooled into thinking otherwise. When you’re able to be patient in an impatient society, when you can walk away from things that disturb your peace, when you do what’s right & ignore what’s not, you’ve matured.

Maturity is when you stop complaining & making excuses. Stop blaming others for what’s going on in your life. It’s easy to look for scapegoats. But a mature person realizes that whatever happens is mostly a result of choices you've made. Take control of your life! Be accountable!

Stop playing the blame game. Some just blame others for all their problems. They’re never responsible, accountable or want to take ownership of their problems. It’s always someone else’s fault. This is a dangerous way to live. Change your mindset if you want to fix your life.

When something goes wrong, looking for someone to blame is the easiest thing to do. But remember, "the better man blames himself, not others."

May the Almighty allow us to see our own mistakes and enable us to make taubah and rectify our shortcomings. Ameen.

“I think part of the test is when a believer supplicates and receives no response,

and he repeats the du‘ā’ for a long time and sees no sign of a response.

He should realise that this is a test and needs patience.”

Learn to walk away from people and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self-respect, values, morals or self worth. Don’t argue with them. Don’t get into a debate with them. It’s not worth your effort. It’s also a sign of maturity.

4 promises from Allah that you should never forget...

1. 'If you give thanks, I will give you more.'

2. 'Remember me and I will remember you.'

3. 'Ask me and I shall give you.'

4. 'Allah would not punish them while they seek forgiveness.


Maturity comes from

experiences, mistakes, learning, and understanding.

Maturity is not about speaking

big things.

But about understanding

small things.

And every single person develops at a different time

in their life.


Growing old is mandatory, maturing is a damn option.

Never stop believing that good things can still happen even in times of chaos. That’s how merciful the Almighty is; He can give when you least expect it. He can open doors you never ever knocked and the list is endless. Always think good thoughts of Him!

Maturity is the ability to think, speak and act our feelings within the bounds of dignity. The measure of our maturity is how spiritual we become during the midst of our frustrations.Maturity is the ability to reap without apology and not complain when things don't go well.

When the sun's up, there'll be many friends around. Try counting how many remain when clouds gather & storm breaks.

Know a true friend.

The pure example of it is of prophet Ibrahim. Indeed, maturity has nothing to do with age, if this need you to depart form a certain society or company just leave more especial when it comes for the sake of your maker.

Time is free, but it’s priceless. You can’t own it, but you can use it. You can’t keep it, but you can spend it. Once you’ve lost it you can never get it back. Remember that, if you love life, don’t waste time, for time is what life is made up of.

Sometimes maturity matters. You won't leave any state of affairs but you can ignore the disturbing side. Maturity somehow makes you the sharp-witty and situation handler. But maturity has nothing to do with age. You may are well-aged but still stupid and novice or inexperienced.

Maturity is when you realized that minding your own business is better, instead of giving explanations about everything.

Itachi is one of the best example of it.

At age of 10 his mentality was Mature enough to become Hokage.

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