I Will Never Understand Why People Get Mad At Me For Having A Preference For CertainWomen

All of them.

If you are a guy, you can infer from the picture above what I mean.

Okay, on to the topic.

I will never understand why it is seen as bad for me or anyone to prefer a certain type of woman.

Women can say they want a guy who is 6 ft tall, has a 6 figure bank account, has a “member” that is more than 8 inches, knows how to sing, dance, flirt, and treat her like a queen.

Let me say, “I like this type of woman,” and I am a sexist, misogynist, or just a dog.

SMH!!!

Women of all cultures have something beautiful about them. Something that can't be replicated in other cultures.

I see the beauty in all women; whether they are skinny, have a bit, or some meat on their bone; whether they are dark-skinned or pale as a ghost, there is BEAUTY to be found in ALL WOMEN.

Well, almost all women because beauty itself is subjective.

I don’t think…NO…I know it is not my place to give any woman that type of affirmation that she is gorgeous — as I believe that women should be able to find beauty in themselves and not seek that affirmation outside of themselves.

I find that women who desperately compare themselves to others are, most often, women who later on suffer from massive bouts of depression, anxiety, insecurity, and self-hatred.

“I don’t look like them.”

“I’m not good enough.”

“No one will ever love someone as ugly as I am.”

The things that women say to themselves are heartbreaking.

But despite all these negative self-talk women say to themselves, I have to be honest and say, I HAVE A PREFERENCE FOR CERTAIN women, and I say this unapologetically.

We Don’t Have A Taste For All Types Of Food

There are very few people who only have a taste for ONE type of food. These people are not the norm, but they do exist.

However, for most people, we all have various foods that we would like to eat.

Now, I know comparing women to food may seem a bit myopic, but hear me out.

Partners are appetizing, and I do not mean appetizing in a salacious way.

I mean so, more in a way that they are food for our hearts, souls, & mind.

Me having a preference for a specific type of woman does not mean that other women are NOT ATTRACTIVE.

It just means for my heart, soul, and mind; I have a particular taste (appetite) for a certain partner.

I am a vegan; I can see why some people like pork or beef. But for me, for my appetite, that is not something I can consume.

It doesn’t take away from the fact, beef and pork are delicious to some; it is just NOT a taste FOR ME.

And that is not good or bad…it just is.

The Women I Am Most Attracted To

All women have beauty in them, but these are the women to whom I am most attracted to.

Japanese

Photo by Bin Thiều on Unsplash

NO!

This is not a goddamn fetish!

And NO — this is NOT because of JAVs (I don’t watch porn; anymore).

I have met many Japanese women abroad in my journeys overseas as a backpacker.

The Japanese cultures (and not disparaging the rest of the Asian countries) have such beautiful women.

I love the Japanese culture in general, so it really is a no-brainer (for me at least) as to why I would love the women.

The kimono, the language, the way they have the hair down, the sideburns (is this the right name), their mannerisms, and just their appearance is very attractive in my eyes.

Black Women With Afro Curls

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Oh my god!

Black women sure can rock curls — and because our hair (black people) is already naturally curly, it makes sense.

“Black really is beautiful” (And so are ALL OTHER COLORS).

But I love my black women from all shades — from caramel chocolate to dark chocolate.

I don’t see it as something to be ashamed of.

I view black women as chocolate — and who doesn't love chocolate?

As long as they have curly puffy hair, I am SOOOO attracted to them.

And goddamn, when she is into neo-soul and 90s RnB, we have ourselves a WINNER.

90s women and early 2000s girls were banging!

Puerto Ricans

Muy Caliente!

Puerto Rican, my Hispanic beauties sure do have so many beautiful traits about them, but their eyebrows and eyes I find irresistible.

The close family clique is also something I am drawn to, and it may be because I grew up with so many Puerto Ricans that I am just drawn to the women and culture.

But Puerto Rican women are GORGEOUS!!!!

Familiarity is not always a bad thing.

Red Heads

Photo by Rodolfo Sanches Carvalho on Unsplash

I guess I am like Dick Grayson, AKA Nightwing because I LOVE MY REDHEADS.

I don’t understand why “Gingers” are teased.

They are so gorgeous.

The red hair, the freckles, the green, blue, or brown eyes (the diversity) is so beautiful.

Redheads, TO ME, are the most attractive of the Europeans; not to say others aren’t attractive because they are, but redheads truly are the mystery candy in a candy bag.

Such a treat!

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