All your confusion and anxiety

01

There is always a time in life that is full of anxiety, but we have no choice but to face it.

A friend told me that she was confused recently.

If we talk about it, this is not the first time my friend is confused, she will be confused now and then, and then find the goal of life in various ways, and then after some time will continue to be decadent, and so on.

The reason for her confusion is that at the end of last year, she chose to quit her job.

This year, because of the epidemic, it is more difficult to find a job, she thought after a while to find it, the result of this lie, from the New Year at home to lie in April.

The days at home can be said to be a muddled life, sleep until noon every day to get up, after dinner began to watch TV, unconsciously to the evening, sleep more during the day can not sleep at night, began to stay up late, stay up more, the next day certainly can not get up on time.

Week after week, this can be said to be like a deadly cycle.

In theory, this kind of day is what she dreamed of, sleeping to wake up naturally, but living such a day, she feels full of anxiety inside.

Moreover, when she was busy, she often took time off from work to read and draw and exercise, but in these months of leisure, she instead did nothing, and the more she played, the lazier she became.

Her family's condition is not enough to allow her to clothe and feed, which she understands. That's why she has anxiety in her heart, she's not still in school and can't rightfully ask her parents for living expenses.

All your confusion and anxiety, are derived from two words, the first word is lazy, and the second word is greedy.

Although there are thousands of ideas in your mind, you are just too lazy to carry them out.

My friend's anxiety can be easily solved, she just needs to take action and get rid of the immediate "lying asleep" days, starting by sleeping on time, getting up early the next day, going out and trying to find a job, and now it is already working.

As long as there is action, even if temporarily can not find, at least the heart will not be so decadent, self-identity will follow the operation of the sense of identity.

This is crucial.

Only if you have a sense of self-identity first, you can get up the spirit to do everything you want to do, step by step, as long as you are taking action, the motivation in your heart will never run out.

02

You have to believe in it.

In this light world, no one can live their days in a flowing manner. But I always believe that, after walking through the lake and the mountains, those who have been through the hardships and tasted a hundred flavors, will be more vivid and clean. Time is always a spectator, all the process and the end, we need to bear ourselves.

For those who end up living well, the initial reliance on self-discipline is just.

Self-disciplined people are always prone to reap a better life, and this is undoubtedly true.

We don't have to envy, just do well for ourselves.

Everyone in life, if you can do self-discipline, you can also find your own lives in a different landscape.

Most of us are confused, the reason is simple: we do not know what we like, or what is suitable, so do not know what to do, and do not dare to fight.

So, always look at the progress of others, they refuse to make changes, the faster others progress, the more anxious they are in their hearts, that luck is not as good as the other side, this is "greed".

They do not work hard, but always want to get those who work hard to get things. In the long run, psychology is naturally easy to distort, become calculating, and can not see others as good, this is the beginning of a person's ruin.

03

And some people are lost because his efforts are not real.

It seems that everyone is struggling in life, it is possible to sleep very late at night, most of the night is still working, outsiders, as if a social elite look. However, only you may understand that things are not all that.

Your diligence may only be in line with the public disguise.

For example, a girl once told me that she went to a new company, it seems busy, she is home from work every day after 10 pm and sometimes needs to change the program at home after packing.

But this is not her original intention. The culture of their unit was strange: everyone seemed to be working more than overtime.

The first day she went there, it was obvious that the end of the day had arrived, but no one was leaving, and she didn't dare to leave even though she had finished her work, and she looked at others working seriously on the computer, and she was panicking: what was everyone doing, why was I okay?

So she also opened the program written long ago during the day and pretended to make changes. Later, she learned her lesson, wasted a lot of time during the day, and started working at the end of the day, and then soon found that everyone was doing the same.

She also did not know why the company formed this culture, and she quit after less than three months.

To be honest, these three months were quite confusing for her, because, on the one hand, she was pretending that she was working very hard, but on the other hand, she felt vaguely uneasy, and a voice was criticizing her that she was deceiving herself and others.

Of course, this may just be an uncommon phenomenon. But it can tell us the truth: anything that goes against your will and you don't understand is wrong, it's easy to feel confused.

If you are too lazy to change, this confusion will continue to envelop you, deeper and deeper, and also make you more and more anxious.

If your efforts are false, then the final result will certainly not deceive you, pay and get is always proportional, this is a constant truth.

04

Some people say that they are in a mess and don't know where to start.

Change often starts with the smallest details. If you feel confused and anxious, you must not lie in bed watching TV, get up and do the laundry you haven't done, clean up the messy room, and do all those things in front of you that you have been piling up to do but haven't done.

Even if you can clean up the room, when you look at the neat environment, the heart of the cloud can be dispersed in half.

Then, to read a meaningful book, or a meaningful movie, in short, is to be able to bring you to think about something, the same satisfaction in your heart can increase: today I used my brain!

It is these seemingly insignificant little things that you have to do, it is good to have a start first, and then you will find that everything is much simpler next, it is a logical thing to do.

Think more, are not as good as the second you start to act. First, overcome the word lazy, greed brings negative will also be dissipated with the wind.

Talk about love and love with everyone who comes here, but it's not about the wind and the moon. Click the above attention, and welcome to my world.