5 psychological hacks you need to know right away

Psychological hacks not only help you in making good relations with people around you, it also help you to gather a good client base for your business. They also help you to understand the situation around you and act in accordance with it.

So here are 5 psychological tricks/life hacks you need to know right now:

1.While being in a conversation with two people on each side of you, always turn your whole body to the person you are talking/who is talking to you.

It not only shows your regard for that person but also makes that person realize what his worth is to you and hence makes the conversation more effective, engaging and productive. It is particularly helpful in group discussions. Also, it becomes particularly helpful while you are trying to bond in with a group of strangers. Just apply this simple technique and see the magic!

2. If you want a person to tell you his/her secret on a particular matter, look him/her in the eyes gently but constantly while talking and casually slip the matter on which you want to know his/her secret intermittently.

This trick always works as it somewhat hypnotizes that person as well as make that person comfortable around you. Due to all this, the person’s reluctance to tell you his/her deepest secret vanishes away.

But using this trick for malicious purposes is never recommended. It however, is the best hack to deepen your relationship with your girlfriend/boyfriend that ultimately result in a stable and long lasting relationship.

3. If you want to make strong friendship with someone, tell him/her some of your embarrassing secrets/events.

Doing it every other day or two makes that person not only comfortable around you but he/she also develops a liking for your frankness. But remember, don't tell your secrets which are excessively embarrassing as that can result in your becoming an object of mockery. Shoot for mild to moderately embarrassing secrets.

This hack works like charm in situations where you want to be best buddies with someone who you also expect to be your "Secret Keeper".

4. If you want to win an argument in a dominant way, always ask the other person to begin the conversation and try to remain calm while having the argument.

You can then just win the argument by countering everything what he/she says first with rational reasoning. Also, remaining calm will make you think in a better way to counter the arguments or the other person.

But remember, don't let the argument extend to ridiculous lengths as that can result in you failing to keep a track record of the entire argument and in that case, the situation may become worse than earlier.

5. Never put your documents on interviewer’s table unless asked to do so.

It shows your respect towards the interviewer as well as your regards for his/her space. It automatically generates a positive image of yours and increases your chances of getting selected.

But that raises a question,

Where to keep the documents until then?

And the simple answer is, on your lap or in your hands. Both will work.

Also, remember to not sit with your legs crossed while appearing for an interview.

Bonus hack:

Most of the people lie quite commonly but do not know the art of crafting a perfect lie.

A perfect lie has 3 components in it:

1.A great and exciting introduction.

2. In depth details, and

3. An interesting incident.

For example, if you want to craft a lie regarding you dating a hot girl to your friends, it will go something like this(the highlighted portions are the most important things to note),

A great and exciting intro:

So, you all know that I have liked Anshika(random name) for a while now. 10 days back, I finally gathered the courage and I asked her out!

Now your friends will get surprised and will become very excited to hear about the details of it. Here is where you began,

The in-depth details:

So, I was very nervous about asking her out. Let me walk you all through the conversation that happened between us:

(And then you walk them through the entire makeup conversation including details such as how you asked her out, how nervous were you, her house, her dress etc.).

And finally, an interesting incident:

Now, this incident should be very believable and for making it believable, 3 things should be kept in mind:

A. It should involve a laughter element.

B. It should involve you telling her an embarrassing story of yours, and

C. It should not involve any heroic action of yours. It seems fake that way.

Apply similar things to other incidents too.

The basic thing that you have to do in this perfect lie is to tell everything and answer every query of your friends before they even ask you! That is what will make it believable.

Unethical but effective.

Aryan :)