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The Physics Of Your Relationship Status.

Why singletons remain single…

By Linda MhlangaPublished 12 months ago 3 min read
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Have you ever noticed that people who are already in a relationship seem be attractive to other people or find it easier to get into another relationship ? Often times suitors are fully aware that the object of their desire is in a relationship be it they are married, in a long term relationship or dating someone on a regular basis. However this does not seem to be a deterrent. If anything the fact that the object of their desire is unavailable seems to heighten the the thrill of the chase for them ! I have witnessed people who are in a relationship get wooed by other aspiring candidates who go to great lengths to try to secure a date or relationship... One wonders why these aspiring candidates don't put this energy and time trying to match up with someone who is free and available? Could it be just the thrill of the chase or is something else happening ? Could this be the reason why other people end up engaging in multiple relationships at the same time ?

Single people, on the other hand are free and available but funny enough they seem to be the ones who seem to be sidelined! Getting dates can be a real struggle for some singletons.

So then what gives ! What is happening in the romance sphere that people who are already in relationships or dating seem to attract more people while single people don't seem to have the same pulling power ?

The answer to this conundrum may lie in a Physics theory proposed by Sir Isaac Newton called Newton's First Law of Motion to be exact. Newton's first law of motion states that "a body at rest will remain at rest unless an outside force acts on it, and a body in motion at a constant velocity will remain in motion in a straight line unless acted upon by an outside force'" So, how does this apply to people in relationships or dating and single people who are not involved with anyone ?

Here is the scoop ! There is a school of thought that proposes that if you are in a relationship you can be considered a 'body in motion," if we loosely apply Newton first law of motion. The proponents of this school of thought believe that when you are in a relationship you are vibrating at a different energy than when you are not. These 'couple' atoms in you are vibrating and are in constant motion therefore are more likely to be attractive to other people who want the same energy. In other words you are unknowingly and unintentionally giving off " come hither " vibes that others find attractive and would like to have !

Now, when Newton's first law of motion is loosely applied to Singletons, a single person can be considered a "body at rest." Remember that Newton's first law of motion states... that a body at rest will remain at rest unless an outside force acts on it.... Proponents claim that the singleton is likely to remain at single status because they are unconsciously giving off an "alone" vibe that is encouraging more of the single state!!! Any would be suitors are likely be turned off by this "body at rest" energy that singleton are vibrating at. Newton's first law of motion goes on to state that an outside force is required to change the " body at rest" state. In the case of the singleton what could this outside force be then bar getting into a relationship or regular dating ? Is there a solution to this ?

What are your thoughts on application of Newton's first law motion to one's relationship status ? Does it make some kind of sense to you ? Please comment and share your thoughts and views.

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