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How to know if she LOVES you

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By Winnie MusyokiPublished 10 months ago 5 min read
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How do you know if someone loves you?

We mean, of course, in a romantic way, with deep affection and a desire for intimacy,

rather than just engaging in everyday activities or exchanging DIY tips.

Perhaps they openly express their feelings to you, but that's not often the case at the beginning.

Maybe they frequently "like" all those Facebook profile pictures you change incessantly, but

that might not hold much significance.

However, there are signals you can decipher if you understand them.

Sometimes these signals might appear obvious, while at other times they can be more subtle.

Wouldn't it be wonderful if we could effortlessly understand people's emotions and know if someone adores

us?

Well, stay tuned, because today we'll assist you in this matter. In this episode of the Infographics

Show, we'll explore the signs of attraction—How Do You Know If He or She Loves You?

It may not always be the same for men as it is for women, so let's start with how

women can discern if a man loves them.

Traditionally, men are expected to make the first move, but here at the Infographics Show, we believe

in embracing more modern approaches.

So, apart from saying, "Hey, I think you're really amazing.

Would you like to grab a meal together sometime?"

how else can a woman tell?

What are the indications?

Well, the most apparent aspect is body language.

What is he conveying when he's not saying anything at all?

Apparently, women have more "tells" than men, but guys also give away certain things.

The most obvious sign is that he keeps looking at you.

While this behavior might come across as creepy in certain situations, most of the time his glances simply

mean he finds you attractive.

If he establishes eye contact, even better, and if his eyebrows raise, it may indicate he's sending

you a signal.

If he lacks confidence and seems a little shy, he might blush if you approach him.

This is a clear indication that he loves you, unless, of course, he has done something strange like

stealing your iPhone.

It's worth mentioning that a curious gaze is perhaps more innocent, while leering at you is likely

more driven by desire.

Now that you're in close proximity to him, observe his body language.

Does he lean towards you, bridging the gap between you without actually touching you?

This is a definite sign.

Also, pay attention to the position of his feet and hands. Are they pointed in your direction?

That's another sign.

It varies from man to man, but some guys may act tough, tell stories that boost their ego, while sitting with their knees apart and their shoulders upright.

A shy person might stumble over their words, not because they lack fluency, but because they feel immense pressure when

they are close to the person they are attracted to.

If you carefully look into his eyes, you might even notice his pupils dilate.

This is a natural biological response that occurs when we are aroused.

It applies to both men and women, so when those black discs widen in both of your eyes, it signifies that love is in the air, or at least some form of intimacy is on the horizon.

So, you have this man looking at you, not turning away, giving you his undivided attention,

sometimes showing off, and other times nervously fumbling around.

What else should you look for?

Well, he may try to express his interest in you verbally.

Pick-up artists often use a strategy of complimenting and then teasing, so be wary of such manipulative tactics.

If he genuinely loves you, you'll notice that his inquiries are sincere.

He might even mirror your behavior a little, or you might find him joking with you in a way he doesn't

with other girls.

Does he playfully tap your shoulder?

This isn't an act of violence, of course. It signifies his desire to establish a certain level of intimacy.

It's a step forward.

He might pay you a compliment, but if he goes overboard, he's trying too hard.

You can test him by lightly brushing against him.

If he reacts overly aggressively, he might be looking for just one thing, but if he responds

gently and doesn't step back, it's a sign that he might have a crush on you.

What about group dynamics?

If other girls join the conversation, does he maintain his focus primarily on you?

That's a good sign.

And what about other guys?

Don't attempt to make him jealous, but if you notice he seems a little uneasy when other guys

show up, it's simply his ego getting bruised or him feeling like he might lose you.

There are many other obvious signs, such as asking for your phone number or connecting

on social media.

Or if he always seems to be present in the same places as you, but we don't need to

elaborate on those signs.

Now, what about women? How can you tell when a girl loves you?

As we mentioned earlier, women have a plethora of signals.

Some experts believe that if you find yourself in a conversation with a woman, it's because she

initiated it.

If she wants to talk, she'll often position herself in front of you.

That, in itself, is a sign—the fact that you are close to each other.

So, we know that certain signs are universal, such as dilated pupils.

The same goes for light touches, although women are often more guarded when it comes to physical contact.

If you notice that she lightly taps your leg when you make her laugh or that she frequently

brushes against you, these are considered significant signs.

If she's nervous, she may not display these behaviors, but you might find that in your presence, she can't

help but play with her hair.

Psychology websites inform us that this is often an unconscious act and usually indicates nervousness.

However, it's not always a definitive sign that she loves you; she might simply have a habit of playing with her hair.

So, if you're the one telling jokes and you notice that she finds you hilarious,

men, never underestimate how much women appreciate a good sense of humor.

You might make a better impression by refraining from boasting about your athletic achievements and instead showcasing

your wit and intelligence.

If she's bursting into laughter, slapping your thigh, it's almost certain that she loves

you.

Now, she's looking into your eyes between jokes, and she wants to learn more about you.

She may ask personal questions and show genuine interest in you—that's another sign.

In fact, scientists have conducted studies on the behaviors women exhibit when they're attracted to a man by observing their actions at social events.

They identified a total of 52 signals, while men only had 10 tells.

Some were obvious, like looking at you and smiling, but others were more discreet.

These included licking her lips, exposing her neck, or even caressing an object in her

hands.

However, considering the seriousness of misinterpreting signals and unintentionally crossing boundaries, you must be cautious when interpreting these signs.

If she touches you, gazes into your eyes, laughs with you, asks you numerous questions, plays

with her hair, and, of course, shows no negative signs like yawning, rolling her

eyes, or making excuses to leave, then it's highly likely that she loves you.

Perhaps now, and only now, you can ask her out

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